I’m Mistress Mara, a Professional/Lifestyle Mistress based out of Chicago, and world traveling. I’ve been striking terror among men since 2006.
You’ve found yourself here because you are seeking, searching for someone who can make you do anything She asks of you. You are here because you want real Female Supremacy and Domination.
You crave to be: humbled, used as a toy, My slut, My pain pig, a panty wearing little bitch. Look no further. You have found Me, finally. Let’s begin this journey!
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling before the magnificently beautiful redhead inducer of nightmares, Mistress Mara Mayhem. Welcome to DA Mistress, and it is an overwhelming privilege to bow before you.
Mistress Mara: Thank you slaveboy. Your readers should know I am based out of Chicago, IL, USA, and travel extensively (when there’s no pandemic), both nationally and internationally.
sbs: Of course Mistress. I’m sure you have their undivided attention as you have mine. Can you share a little of how you found your way to Femdom, Mistress? Have you always known the power you hold over others?
MM: I suppose I was kinky from day one, and didn’t yet know it! As early as 8 years of age, I thought it fun to tie up boys in the backyard with my girl friends and poke sticks at them, sometimes even forcing them to strip down. Little did I realize that those instances would foreshadow things to come.
As for how I became a professional Dominatrix, I decided right out of college that I would rather be self employed than working in a heartless corporate position; I had already been playing on the regular in the lifestyle kink scene and was fetish modeling on the side. One thing leads to another…
sbs: One thing most definitely led to another. Can you describe how it feels for you, in that moment, as you approach a trembling slave who is kneeling as you approach. It must be intoxicating to know that you own them.
MM: Smug satisfaction, like that of a big black cat! I am rather feline in demeanor and nature, after all, so it’s as though I am catching the mouse…
sbs: Just imagining your flawless curves in a catsuit as you approach. That would be overwhelming for any submissive. Are there particular fetishes you enjoy most, Mistress? And any that are off limits that our readers should be aware of?
MM: Let’s get the ‘No’ ie limit list out of the way before we head to the good stuff: Absolutely. Positively no: Abdl -tried it; didn’t enjoy Myself. Wrestling-I like to stay in shape, but I find nothing about this category to be stimulating. Those are the main ones. Obviously asking me anything ending in ‘job’ is verboten and will guarantee your immediate dismissal.
As for things I enjoy: Pro tip: If your dominant is smiling while she’s conducting her nefarious deeds upon you, you know she’s enjoying herself. I am currently very much into: CBT Nipple torture, Heavy bondage, I have an immense Shoe and boot fetish, and latex. All of this is subject to change with my rather mercurial nature
sbs: Of course…always subject to Mistress’ whim. Is it only men who submit to you, Mistress Mara, or do you also have female submissives who bow before you and offer themselves to you?
MM: I cater to all gender identities. I don’t, however, cater to jerks.
sbs: Are there significant differences in the type of session you have with each, or is it more based on fetishes and the mood of Mistress ?
MM: I think it’s a combination of both mood, mutual interests, and the type of rapport that develops between myself and the individual.
sbs: With the limitations placed upon so much of our society with COVID, how has this impacted you as a Pro Domme and the ways in which you interact with your adoring submissives?
MM: Well, I certainly am not traveling like I would like! I decided early on in the pandemic that I would only see established subs and patrons of mine. That certainly cut down on live sessioning, as many of my patrons are out of town folk. With all the extra time and energy on hand, I opted to get busy again with shooting content for my clip stores, as well as utilizing a few online chat services so that people can be in touch with me.
sbs: That is a common refrain from Dommes as they have had to transition more to online/distance training than they might previously have done. You mention your clip stores and in preparation for this feature I did look through and have to say, time flew by as I did! Is there one clip you would point to as your favourite that each of our readers should buy right away to begin to understand just how incredible you truly are in action?
MM: Well, I am happy to know that you became mesmerized by the content. It’s a lot of work to produce and edit! As for a favorite, that’s tricky. I owe a big thank you to Femme Fatale films out of the UK for having shot me a few years back; I definitely would recommend their footage. As for my own, I am pretty proud of “Smother Face”, a double domination clip that I shot recently with a fellow sister sadist, Goddess Rebecca Sovereign, and would highly suggest that as a starting point. Not only does the clip exemplify laughter and two Mistresses doing what they enjoy, the smothering box used in this clip is to die for.
sbs: That is some kind of clip! Watching you drop your latex clad ass down onto your slave’s face is something to behold. You and Goddess Rebecca look stunning together as well. Does the dynamic of a session, or clip, change markedly when you work with another Domme? Anyone out there you haven’t had a chance to work with that you would truly love to?
MM: The energy of the scene with another Mistress changes, but it’s essentially a merging of both of our interpretations of sadism and power exchange, be it in a live, in person session, on camera, or for film.
sbs: I can just imagine the overwhelming experience of having both of you controlling and dominating simultaneously. So with all that you have already experienced and accomplished as a Femdom Goddess, what comes next for you, Mistress Mara? What’s left on your Domme bucketlist?
MM: It certainly can be an overwhelming experience for a submissive. Both one on one and in double domination scenarios. As for goals or bucket lists (great question, btw): Once the pandemic has died down, my plan is to travel even more extensively and keep up global domination. Perfecting my video content and working more and more with reputable talent (if interested, please contact me through my website). Expanding my website (stay tuned!) And finally, I have been meaning to write and illustrate a few of my adventures 🙂
sbs: You mention writing about your adventures, can you share a little more of what that might look like and where we might be able to enjoy the read?
MM: Given that it’s still in the formative stages, the writing will probably be self published, though I will seek out editing from trusted outside sources, because there’s nothing worse than writing that displays poor punctuation and incorrect grammar.
sbs: Of course Mistress…and I’m sure you’ll have no difficulty finding those willing to serve in such a way as you wish. For our readers who are quickly falling under your spell as they read this interview, what advice might you offer them as they contemplate how to best offer their servitude to you?
MM: Do your research before initiating contact with me. I value those who take the time to learn a bit about my world. My website answers many questions and is always in a state of evolving. Be impeccable with your communication. I’m no mind reader (if I was, I’d be ridiculously wealthy). Let go of expectations except for expecting the unexpected.
sbs: Shivering at the thought of someone so beautiful and dominant who could read our minds…now that would be even more dangerous. Thank you so much for the privilege of this interview, Mistress Mara. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work?
MM: Certainly 🙂
sbs: Thank you Mistress. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your dungeon, spellbound by your powerful presence and overwhelming beauty, how might such an interview conclude?
MM: I might, depending on mood, order you to kiss my designated footwear of the day (It’s leather weather, which means boots a-plenty these days), point you to the door, and make you crawl in that direction, me stalking you from behind like a jungle cat on the hunt.
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