I was introduced recently to the exotic and tempting Mistress Alexya through one of her most loyal slaves. His devotion to her was immediately obvious and I was given permission to contact Mistress Alexya through Twitter. I will admit I was nervous as I first contacted her, having no idea what type of Domme she is. What I discovered was that Mistress Alexya, while dominant and certainly more than capable of putting a man in his place, is a wonderful woman to engage in conversation with. I truly enjoyed the opportunity to interact with her in putting the following feature interview together. I look forward to my first opportunity to fall to my knees in a cam session with her hopefully quite soon. She is not only beautiful, but very seductive. Enjoy her responses, and then find out why she’s nominated as the Best Dominatrix Cam Show. With a nomination like that, you have to know she will take you as her slave and never let go!
slaveboysmith: In all the interviews I’ve conducted, the story behind how a particular Domme got to where she is now, adored by many slaves while dominating men is always a little different. What can you tell me about your journey to becoming one of the most sought after Dommes for admiring slaves to serve?
Mistress Alexya: Being a Domme allowed me to step outside my comfort zone and do something no one ever expected me to do, maybe to discover myself as well since I have some kinks. I thought it best to go into this world and share it. People also don’t really understand what BDSM is about; they think you’re stripping or you’re touching the person in a sexual way, and that’s not happening at all. I think it takes a certain type of person to be a Mistress. I was probably quite assertive in my private life before starting this job. Since becoming a Dominatrix, I’ve noticed I’ve become stronger in other areas of my life. I don’t take any nonsense, and I have become more demanding than ever.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life? At what point did you first realize the power you held over men?
MA: I was not always turned on by dressing in leather, PVC and latex. I figured I could wear what I liked as a professional Mistress and just look sexy. That was not the case. There was a certain look I was expected to conform to. Additionally, I don’t want to play by site rules all the time. I love to take the lead, and I feel proud, strong, and like I belong in it now. Being a Dominatrix is an important job and not one to be taken lightly. Many BDSM activities are dangerous, and injuries do happen and even deaths have occurred. It is important for you as the Dominant partner to educate yourself and learn how to prevent this from ever happening to you or your submissive. As the Dominant you must look out for you and your submissive’s safety and well being mentally, emotionally and physically. I’ve grown to love this role more and more as I explore it.
sbs: What are some of your favorite fetishes you enjoy bringing to life in your amazing cam shows with your eager slave boys?
MA: My favorite fetishes are financial domination combined with humiliation, I’m highly amused by inflicting some pain, love when kinky sissies take my strap-on and feet, and any form of worship of my high heels (one of my addictions is high heels)
sbs: Your website, MissAlexya.com, shows a broad spectrum of images and videos. Is there one type of clip you enjoy making more than all others? Does Mistress Alexya have a specific style, or are you a versatile Domme who is always keeping her slaves on their toes, so to speak?
MA: I am an exotic and intoxicating Dominatrix who loves power and control. I am an undisputed beauty and I possess the intellect and skills to match! My style is unique and elegant, whether I’m binding a submissive with ropes or a softly spoken command. I believe in compassionate dominance and in guiding individuals toward deeper expressions of their submissive selves through a mutually respectful practice. If you are seeking a space to explore your submissive self under the firm hand of a bewitching disciplinarian, do consider introducing yourself. I also practice domination that involves harmful emotional degradation as long as we both understand this strong fetish. Compatibility is MOST important to Me
sbs: Do you have any plans to do cam shows or video clips with other Dommes in the future? Any in particular you would love to shoot with if you decide to?
MA: I haven’t thought yet of this, being with another Domme in a session, but I bet would be fun, so I won’t deny the idea as appealing to me. Maybe one day it will happen if I find a compatible Domme who shares a similar style to my own.
sbs: How does it make you feel knowing that men around the world are aroused by, and lusting after your perfect beauty as they watch you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MA: I know how beautiful I am, and I know exactly how that affects the men in my presence. I use it to my advantage all the time. That said, I am an experienced lifestyle and professional Domina. My style is sadistically sweet. I will push you and nurture you as you become the submissive that you were always meant to be. I expect your submission. I will gain your devotion. I possess a fine appreciation for the various ways that the human form can be pushed to its physical limits. I like to review my work, to become the best in the training sessions I lead, and I like to think about how I could have done better. I take notes after my sessions to see if I can find better ways to do certain things. The more I look at myself and how I can become better, the more I improve – and in a shorter time frame. Also I enjoy talking with my submissive and letting them tell me how they felt about the session. What did they like? What didn’t they like, and what did they want more of?
sbs: Would you ever meet a slave in real life, or are r/t sessions something you have decided will not be in your future?
MA: I have met a few slaves in person, and three of them pleased me, but two others were quite disappointing. In session, it’s never quite how it looks in video clips, and it’s much more difficult than just a role to play like in a video you see on sites. When it’s real then people should be real, but unfortunately, some of them are sick, liars, cheap and sometimes multiple personalities. It can always involve a danger to me so I’m cautious about who I see. But once I have the chance , I always welcome back my good slaves I know will make for a fun session.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? How does the slave react to seeing his ultimate fantasy Domme in person?
MA: Yes, I have been recognized a few times. Last time when I was in Barcelona for the LiveCamAwards summit, one of my long time slaves was there on business and he saw me. Only when I came back home did he finally message me saying he saw me and that he was frozen, embarrassed, and speechless, so he couldn’t come to say hi. I like making men feel this way, it amuses me, but at the same time, I wish some of my boys would come up to me and say a simple warm hello.
sbs: Website membership, cam shows, wishlist purchases, tributes, or something else? What is the best way for an admiring slave to make an impression and show they’re serious about serving you?
MA: New slaves should not waste my time. It is important that they read about me before contacting me. Twitter, Google and my personal website are all places they may find a lot of information about me, and learn ways to serve me. If they are not prepared financially they shouldn’t even think about disturbing me. I don’t pay attention to slaves looking for a free wank. Always starts with a tribute to get my attention and time. Tributes may be paid on Skrill, on my website, by amazon gift card or through tips on sites I’m online with. With trustful slaves, I also accept bank transfers and western union, but only for my devoted long time slaves.
sbs: You were recently nominated for Best Dominatrix Show for the upcoming Adult Webcam Awards show. What would winning this prestigious award mean to you, and how would it impact your career as a Webcam Dominatrix?
MA: Being nominated is a thrill, but for sure I’m not expecting to get rich by it haha. For sure my slaves would love to see my name more, to see my image all over the internet, but this for me is just fun, participating is a hobby, or just some little tests. I don’t really expect to win, but if i do…for sure it is a very nice feeling knowing I’m appreciated for my work over 7 years of camming. Though I never did it for any award, people might work to get something in return, but I already have it. I get to enjoy every day my slaves adoration, love and devotion. I get to transform people’s lives for the better, I hope. Some of them divorce for me, but that’s another story 😉 So my participation is just for fun and if I win…I owe it to people that vote for me and make me feel so special.
sbs: Anything else you wish to say to your admiring slaves, and potential new ones who may crawl to you after reading this interview, Mistress Alexya?
MA: I’m a Dominatrix that uses her power in both aspects of my life. At night I’m an irresistible Domme and day time I’m a personal trainer. I began work as a Dominatrix 7 years ago, after realizing just how tempting and controlling I could be. I was intrigued by the domination/fetish world and here I am, The Best of The Best. I’m The One! Of course, the best way to get better at anything is to make sure I’m doing all I can to learn more. This might include reading, finding websites, watching videos, or participating in events. I’m hungry for more and more knowledge so I can soak in all of the information I might need. Though I am ultra-confident in being a Dominant, that doesn’t mean my submissive will instantly learn everything I want them to. Eventually they will do as I wish, bend to my will, and become mine. You may be next 😉
Alluring is the word that comes to mind as I think about Mistress Alexya. She will lure you in with her beauty and sensual style, and use your lust for her to make sure you obey her every command. I’m sure, like me, you are more than a little curious to know even more about this stunning Goddess.
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