I am Madam Poison. The Madam Poison to be precise. I am a professional submissive trainer and I specialize in the rehabilitation of delinquents. Before you get too comfortable, park your ego at the door, strip off that suit and tie, kneel on the floor, and beg for My attention. In My realm, you’re submissive to My rules and My whims. When you serve Me, you become a plaything for My amusement and My gratification. Your needs, wants, and desires matter little.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction is the alluring and mysteriously sensual, Madam Poison. Welcome to DommeAddiction Madam and if it pleases you, may I kneel before you to conduct this interview?
Madam Poison: Hello. It’s a pleasure to be here with you today, and it will be most pleasing to watch you kneel before Me, and remain below Me for the duration of our conversation… A submissive should always kneel before his Dominant.
sbs: Absolutely Madam. Let me start by asking how you got started in the world of Femdom and a little about your experiences along the way.
MP: I have always believed women are a force to be reckoned with. I come from a long line of strong women, my mother being the strongest… She always taught me that you can achieve anything you put your mind to, and that the sexiest thing about a woman is independence. From a young age I watched the women in my family dominate the roost, singlehandedly rearing children, working all hours of the day and looking after themselves. Their drive inspired me and their lack of “need” for a Knight in shining armor left me in awe. I knew that if I ever wanted to succeed in life, I wanted to do it off of my own merit, my career, my job, my money, my house, my car… Everything I had ever wanted, I promised to make happen by myself. As a result of this I never depended on anyone, and men hated it! And the more I saw how much boyfriends disliked my headstrong independence, the more freedom and power I craved.. While at university I majored in behavioural psychopathy. A subject that fascinated me…I learned about the human mind, how it is possible to condition and alter thoughts and behaviours… Naturally I then began to use these skills to get what I wanted from people, men in particular… And it worked every time. My lust for this power exchange was thrilling and I started using FemDom pornography as my main source of sexual gratification… Watching women overpowering male submissives turned me on hugely and I fell into the world of the likes of Fetlife and Alt.com… I had never classified myself as a Dominatrix, but rather “a strong minded, slightly sadistic female” but that all changed one fine evening when I met up with a submissive on Alt. We had been chatting for a few days and as I was local to him, we decided to meet specifically for a coffee. That coffee turned into a chat about his desire to be kicked, slapped around, mugged and spat on… I eagerly obliged simply enjoying the fact that I had him on his knees in the middle of the road clinging to his balls as he wriggled around in agony! I truly enjoyed the whole experience and felt totally high from it. When he finally got back onto his feet, he actually thanked me! I couldn’t really believe my ears. Then as if that wasn’t thrilling enough for me, he handed me an envelope and scurried away. Walking home I was shaking and terrified, thinking I’d probably be arrested for GBH! Opening the envelope I saw a wad of crisp £20s. This bloke had just had his arse and ego kicked around AND he PAID me for it! I had never heard of such a thing! Actually being paid cash to do what I’d actually enjoy doing for free! And that was the beginning of it all really, and it’s that which eventually led me into the world of financial domination.
sbs: They say you never work a day in your life if you love what you do. With that said, you also have a “vanilla” life that you are highly protective of. How do you balance the public persona of Femdom Goddess, with the need to be discreet and private, both for yourself and for the slaves that serve you?
MP: That’s absolutely true, when you find something that you absolutely adore doing, it really doesn’t feel like “work” in the natural sense of the word… It becomes a craft, an extension of your being. Outside of kink, my vanilla career also ticks that box in that it is something I was literally born to do, and I adore it! My work is almost paramount to who I am as a person and it compliments my kink life well. Your readers will definitely have picked up on the fact that I am incredibly private about my vanilla life and career, and I am so for a few reasons… Probably the same reasons submissive individuals like to keep vanilla and kink separate. Why do I choose to remain anonymous and how do I go about it you may ask? My vanilla career is very important to Me and unfortunately I am in an industry where SW and kink is not as widely accepted. Professionally I can’t allow my kink life to meet my vanilla life… Which is odd because my professional skills come in VERY handy within the world of kink! I had many messages from FemDommes who were in a similar situation to me, and a few months ago I wrote out an advice sheet for them which I will set out below…
There are many Ladies out there who absolutely adore the fetish lifestyle but choose to keep this a secret. And there are a million reasons for this, all personal to them. It could be career, family, stigma, kids… Whatever their personal reasons, we should never judge. They may wish to remain anonymous for safety reasons, vanilla reasons… The list goes on. Each reason will inevitably dictate how anonymous they choose to be. I am perfectly happy for my submissives to see my face! After all, I can’t hide when engaging in meet ups, dungeon sessions or cashpoint meets! All trusted subs see me, and get to know me on a level which lifts the veil on me more so than the likes of Twitter and kik etc. It’s certainly very difficult to build a brand on Twitter and the web when you are opting to be anonymous, you will always be chosen second to a Lady who is very open about herself and has no problem sharing face photography. So, you have to be smart! I post voice and full body clips weekly, without fail! I also create clips with elements of my face… Perhaps my eyes in one clip, my lips in another… To remind those who are new to me that I am indeed a human that they can relate to.. And of course to highlight that I am genuine. All subs owned by myself have full and total access to my face, I converse daily via videos, Skype, kik and phone… They are deserving of such honour. And of course those who serve me in person! But I am picky about who I allow that close. Some ladies feel this is counterproductive, and to some extent they are right. But I believe this is an unfair opinion in that most of the submissive people out there remain totally anonymous at all times. Never showing their face. It’s strange isn’t it? For a Dominant in this scene to “verify” Herself she is expected to show the world her face. For a sub to “verify” they are expected to show nothing more than their wallet!
My choices seem to work well for me. I bring to your attention a wonderful statement from one submissive who dotes on me: “Madam Poison the dominant is an absolute expert at penetrating the submissive mind, and rewiring it to suit her. Unlike others who play at mind control/hypnosis without professional training/experience, Madam has the requisite background to safely and effectively do “mind fucks”, mental triggers, and other techniques. Aside from that, Madam knows very well how to tease, torment, deny, and bring a man to his knees for her. While authoritative, Madam also cares deeply for those who genuinely submit, and always respects limits and a submissive’s physical/mental/emotional well-being. She is very protective of those she takes under her wing”
sbs: That sounds like some amazing advice and support offered to other Dommes. From following along the Femdom scene for the many years that I have, that kind of support is not universally shared. What do you say to other Dommes who might be jealous of your success and confidence?
MP: To be honest, I see no valid reason for anyone to feel jealous of Me. The scene is absolutely full of the most incredible Dominant Ladies who each have wonderful qualities that are unique to them. It’s truly counterproductive to compare oneself to others… If you enter this scene doing that, you certainly won’t succeed. And the same goes for jealousy. It is the ugliest colour and quite frankly, it takes a lot of energy to remain jealous of another person. If there are Dommes out there who feel envious of me, I’m not aware of it. But I would tell them that they have nothing to feel envious about. I have flaws just as much as the next person. What I have definitely seen in this community is the amount of “Girl Crushes” that exist in and around my sphere. I have so very many messages from fellow Dommes telling me that they admire me, or love my style, or learn a lot from me… This really makes me smile, I certainly don’t know it all, but what I do know I’ve always been willing to share. And I have a fair amount of Girl Crushes myself too! There are many incredibly beautiful, intelligent and sadistic Ladies out there who I absolutely adore… For Me, admiration, sisterhood and empowerment are so much more important than jealously and envy.
sbs: If you could sit down, over a glass of wine perhaps, with one Domme that you admire, who would it be, and why? What might the conversation be about?
MP: Oh this is a tough question! There are so many Dommes out there who are on my bucket list of Women to meet and work with. And it would be totally unfair to mention just one! If I were to invite a bunch of Dommes to my abode for cocktails and giggles, they would certainly be the types of Ladies who “get me and my style”. As you will see from my media, my tweets, clips, gifs, photos and audios… I am quite the weirdo! I receive such great joy from pushing the limits of my submissives, but not necessarily always with a whip, paddle, needles and chains. The physical aspect of my work is quite generic. I enjoy humiliating and beating my boys. I ADORE leaving marks on their bodies, usually my initials using needlework or poker hot knives… Unfortunately my branding only lasts as long as the blistering, but knowing my submissive is walking around for a week or two, body tarnished with “MP” is funny and sexy! I get off on classic BDSM. It empowers me and the high I share with my sub after a session is mind-blowing. (I’m not great with dealing with Domme lows though, they leave me wanting more). There are hundreds of Dominant women who enjoy BDSM, physical torture techniques, beatings, Humiliation etc… And if we were to have a little slumber party, I’d definitely organize a few boys to ensure our needs are met. We’d have a lot of fun exchanging techniques and taking part in competitions on who can leave the deepest welts on the ass of our submissives! It all sadistically cruel but consenting fun. But my true self, the real pure Madam Poison is a connoisseur of the enslaved mind. The psyche is so much more of a challenge, and has the potential to develop very long lasting effects on my boy toys. The results of this type of play take time to come to effect, and so naturally I enjoy “the long game” the mental control, the manipulation, mind games, the power exchange. The hypnotic undertones of putting my boys into a state of total mind numbing obedience… It is hard work but it is my bread and butter, its my true passion. I have been told on many occasions that my methods are not mainstream, and I like that! When creating hypnosis clips, subliminal triggers, and nightmare inducing material, I do so with very specific reasons… I don’t just want to beat a sub in a dungeon for a few hours. I want to pierce his mind, open up his heart, take control of his thoughts, his feelings and his behaviours. I want to literally recondition him into a puppet that will do exactly what I say. This type of play for me heavily integrates into certain fetishes (which appear to be popular with submissives) mind control, hypnosis, mental manipulation, homewrecking, blackmail, ruined lives, kidnapping, mental chastity… All deeply satisfying to me, and of course my submissives! The editing of my clips etc highlight my love of this type of Domination. My clips are eerie, nightmarish, creepy, they are created to warp the mind and break through the underground of reality… There are a small number of fellow Dommes out there who share the same outlook on this type of Domination… And just like me, their clips are absolutely phenomenal! Dark, sadistic, cruel… I bloody love it! And you can mark my words that if I got together for drinks with THESE types of Dommes…. We would literally take over the world. And joint clips, mass Domming sessions and slave meets would be so powerful, I’m sure the world would literally shake!
sbs: With all that you’ve experienced in the world of Femdom, is there still a “bucket list” and what is one thing on it?
MP: I think although I have experienced quite a lot, there’s still so much more to learn, experience and try! As I develop my skills as a Dominatrix I find new kinks that I didn’t know existed within me. For example, I have always enjoyed giving my submissives “golden showers” and toilet play has always been fun and entertaining for me, however only recently I discovered that I could incorporate this fetish with my love of blackmail, stalking and torture fetishes. Using breathe play, facesitting and golden showers while role-playing a hostage situation is absolutely incredible! Highly exciting both for me and my (very brave and consenting) submissive. Every time I push my own limits, I learn new and exciting aspects of myself that can impact my kink lifestyle. I don’t think I will ever stop learning or exploring my desires. In that respect, I guess my bucket list is never ending! I’m always ticking things off and adding more on! My greatest desire, at the moment is to take on a submissive’s wife… And train her in the art of ropework and behaviour modification! That would be super brilliant!
sbs: I once wrote an erotic story about a wife, confronting her husband’s Domme, only to find herself lured into slavery herself. What an enticing proposition. Do you have someone in mind, and will you be preying upon an unsuspecting wife any time soon?
MP: Hahaha now that would be telling! And I wouldn’t want to terrify my pets too soon!
sbs: Do you have female submissives serving you, and if so, how is enslaving other women different than enslaving men?
MP: Currently I do not have any female submissives serving me exclusively. I have one female switch who occasionally likes to play. I am a huge believer in female supremacy and to be honest, I have tried in the past to engage in BDSM sessions with female submissives and I really struggle to get in the zone. It’s not them, it’s me. I feel uncomfortable engaging in pain play with female submissives and as such, I generally avoid it and turn opportunities down. Perhaps that’s an area I need to work on internally? But for now I do what I love and what I’m good at. With regards to the female submissives I do play with, it’s very much more of a psychological session.. Mind games, worship, and humiliation. The bottom line is (excuse the pun) I’m happily going to spank my female play pets, but I don’t force myself into BDSM that makes me uncomfortable.
sbs: Ultimately if it isn’t pleasing to you, then it shouldn’t be done, Madam. I will admit, you are an intriguing and delightfully wicked woman. What’s next for you in the world of Femdom? Anything upcoming that your admiring slaves should eagerly anticipate?
MP: The future is certainly looking bright for me. The one thing I have promised to utilize is my phone line on iWantClips, I have set myself up for receiving calls for some time now and am very excited to explore Domination via this form of communication. I just need to whip my ass into getting it off the ground! So definitely look out for that. I am also in the very early stages of writing a book, a small pocket handbook for submissives… My vision is to share my views on what a good submissive should aspire to be, how it should behave, how it should live its life, how it should show honour to its owner… A manual, I suppose, aimed at providing hints and tips, dos and don’ts and so on. It’s a work in progress at the moment but I find it an exciting venture. And of course I will always be seeking world Domination!
sbs: Obviously that’s always the goal, right? Speaking of world domination, if you could have one celebrity, or well known person, on their knees, willing to do anything to please you, who would it be, and why?
MP: Wow! What a question that is! I have to be totally superficial with my answer.. If I could have any person in the whole world kneeling before me ready to do EVERYTHING I asked… I would probably have to choose Christopher Hemsworth as Thor.. I can’t promise I’d be able to Dominate him though! I think I’d either make him my sex slave, or I’d become HIS sex slave.. Basically I would fuck the shit out of him. Daily. Forever.
sbs: Well now…that makes him a very lucky man on either account! Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions, Madam Poison. Any final words for your adoring slaves and worshipers worldwide?
MP: It’s been an absolute pleasure talking to you! I have thoroughly enjoyed our time spent. My final words for all who follow me, or are yet to follow me… Your kinks, fantasies, desires, quirks are what make you unique and beautiful. I don’t care if you are Dominant or submissive, be true to yourself, let your innermost being shine! Find your passion and allow yourself to worship it! And if you aren’t one for gushy rose tinted final words, take heed on this: You are a bunch of kinky fuckers and I like you a lot.
sbs: Something for everyone…I like that. I’m not Chris Hemsworth in Thor, but there is one final question I would truly love to ask you if you would allow me to Madam Poison.
MP: Of course!
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, with me kneeling before you, asking my questions as I tried desperately to remain focused and professional, how might the interview end?
MP: I would place ear plugs in your ears. I would blindfold you. Tie your hands behind your back and gently breathe against your neck… Etching my name into your skin with my nails. I would remain still for minutes at a time before making physical contact with you again… Breathing… Whispering… Touching… Then nothing. Silence. You would wait patiently for my next breath, my next touch. Totally unaware that I left the room a lifetime ago.
Madam Poison works and travels around the north east Wales and Liverpool area
