Aloha, I’m Laila, your newest crush and kinky queer playmate. I love being active and using my body outside, nude sunbathing, yoga, and hiking. My body is tight and strong and read to play, hard or soft. I am a dominant switch, gender queer and fluid. I enjoy rope play, D/s, roleplay, and naughty texting. I write poetry and erotica in my creative time. I wonder what we can inspire together?
slaveboysmith: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
Goddess Laila: As a rule, I try to be more cooperative than dominant. That being said, I am usually the one organizing plans, initiating projects, and generally hate being told what to do. My sexual preferences vary from partner to partner. I enjoy being submissive with the right partner/s. I am very kinky and open minded, I like to play a lot. Femdom is as much a part of me as any other fetish. Findom turns me on a lot so, it’s not really roleplay outside of any fantasy I am already incorporating. The act of paid submission is delicious. And I eat it every day.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
GL: I want Jeff Bezos as a Findom slave. For as long as his empire stands, I would redistribute his wealth to indigenous people and ecological restoration projects including the creation of sustainable agriculture systems. I believe that healthy food is a human right, to be freely provided at the grace of our mother, Gaia. Nothing would satisfy me more than to take the owner of Whole Foods into financial disaster. I have other dreams, but this is one I like to think about when I feel the world burning around me.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
GL: Slaves often come to me desiring both devotion to divinity and a desire to self improve. I know most men are losers, but I don’t honestly believe it has to, or should be, that way. They can learn to be better and I am here to assist in their edification. I am, at my most basic level, a teacher. I like slaves who are self aware. It’s much easier to teach and train people that are aware of how they are feeling, acting, and impacting people. I trust that the people who need me, find me. I believe that with the right Domme, all minds can be changed. I might not be the right person for every slave to submit too. That is just fine with me, I am just in the infancy of my career. I’ve been dabbling in this for the past year or two, imagine as I become more powerful. Fewer and fewer will be able to resist.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
GL: I am only interested in slaves who truly desire to worship and serve a divine Goddess. I have no use for toxic masculine ego. It happens naturally of course, but I don’t take responsibility for people’s personal enlightenment. I feel like every new relationship with a Domme changes a slave and I really trust that the right people find and serve me. It’s not about breaking someone for me, they should already know what I am when they kneel at my feet. I don’t like to play games, to try and convince a pathetic cuckold that I’m the Mistress for her. Never, for they are all replaceable. Those who can’t keep up fade away and new devotees crowd around me to plead for recognition.
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
GL: I loved coerced bi-play. We are all so gay, but some men just need to feel like I’m the one forcing that cock down their throat. They love to suck dick, and they can’t admit it and it pleases me to tie them up and stuff their various holes with the shafts of greater men. As a phone sex Domme, my roleplay skills have improved greatly and I love improvising a story and scene around a few details from a sub. I love to talk to men about getting spit roasted, just my personal fetish, I guess.
In a larger context, I admire the submission and I thrive on the feeling of trust. They accept what I give and it’s exciting. I couldn’t do what I do unless you were willing to submit and that’s to be appreciated.
I enjoy muscle worship and domination a lot as well. I’ve been working on an erotica series involving myself and a submissive boyfriend. I find varying ways of stealing his strength, becoming stronger both from my own efforts at the gym and by taking his height and muscle mass. This is a great example of a sub teaching me things, I didn’t realize this was a fetish at all until he brought it to my attention. As long as they aren’t trying to do it on purpose, I love learning from from my sluts.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
GL: Tributing is the best way to get my attention. It’s the most interesting thing about you that you can start with. I can do stuff with your money. I am here to serve myself, not you. Unasked for gifts show that you’re thinking of me, even when I’m not thinking of you. That being said, I do genuinely enjoy getting to know people, my slaves included. But I only extend that gift of my interest towards what serves me. Once my interest is open, I love to discuss many things and enjoy talking with my subs and slaves about meditation, yoga, philosophy, eating healthy and favorite tropical travels. People’s specific/niche fetishes also fascinate me. If you can’t donate to me directly, but still want to be of service, there are still options. Making donations to causes supporting indigenous people, people of color, trans people and people with disabilities also impresses me. I am currently accepting a few charity slaves, who will be directly tributing to jointly-agreed causes, as part of their submission agreement, rather than than my traditional methods.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
GL: If you are feeling drawn to Femdom, you are being led to a world of honored submission. The act of monetary sacrifice is one thing, the one thing in this colonial patriarchal capitalist society, that truly matters. You are part of a movement, and it’s an honor to give to a Domme. But you can do even better by giving to Dommes representing the marginalized people of the world. Submit to black Dommes. To trans Dommes. To indigenous Dommes. To disabled Dommes. Give them your money. Especially if you are a white cis-gendered man, which I know at least some of you are. Maybe even most…you have benefited from the system, so the best reparations are to submit and give over that money, even if it hurts you, even if you aren’t rich. Give because you should and maybe you’ll be lucky, good things often cum around.
And because you’re here and read everything else, please read this, because it’s honestly more important that anything I say or do:
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