I am Domina Bess of Barcelona…Welcome to My BDSM World!
My innate domination needs slaves to satisfy my demands. And I pride myself on my imagination! I seek perfection, I demand respect, adoration and absolute obedience.
Crawl to me, little slave. You will surrender at my feet!
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling as he crawls into the world of the beautiful and cruel, Domina Bess. Thank you for this opportunity to bow before you Domina. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case, and do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Domina Bess: Really since I can remember. Even dressed casually on the street, I know that my presence is imposed on men. My height, my body and my attitude when walking, like my movements, define me. Also my face. My marked and sensual features please and intimidate men at the same time. Only with my presence I keep them firm. Even dressed for the occasion in my SM sessions, the first impression of the slave is captivating. I am imposing to them, I know. I like this and it’s exciting for me. Control and power stimulate me. How could I not take advantage of my born power of domination?
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
DB: What I do know is that I am not submissive in any aspect of my life. I do not have a special desire to master everything that is not BDSM, but I don’t like to be dominated or told what to do. I feel safe being in control.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity on their knees, completely at your mercy and willing to do anything to please and serve you, who might you choose, and why?
DB: I smiled reading your question. Fun and daring imagination…Donald Trump is my chosen one. He deserves a good session of extreme humiliation to put him in his place and teach him courtesy and respect. I won’t go into his politics, as he may be playing a role. But you have to correct his rudeness towards people and the lack of respect he has towards women. His haughty, supremacist attitude would be taken away in a breath. Taking that ego away from him and seeing him exhausted at my feet would be a delight to me.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
DB: The perfect slave for me is the one that stimulates me, excites me and brings out the best in me. BDSM is pure instinct and that’s what I want from my slave. May my slave get carried away by me and his interior. A good slave makes me smile in session and after several days of our meeting, recommending him.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
DB: I enjoy it when my slave enjoys our time too. I like to tame and enslave men who are predisposed to be dominated by me. It doesn’t matter to me if they have experience or not. I don’t think I would enjoy enslaving someone who doesn’t want to be tamed.
sbs: In looking through your Twitter, it is obvious that using your beauty & sensuality is a recurring theme in many of your tweets. What is it like to have men so aroused and teased that they lose all control for you?
DB: Seeing my slaves aroused is a joy for me. It is a totally reciprocal game. They cross their limits when they are excited and this gives me more control over them and the situation. I also cross limits. BDSM has so many variations and games that I can never know them all. This stimulates me and pleases me.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
DB: The feeling is of power and control. Total pleasure. I know their looks. Their eyes speak. Their facial expressions. The sound of their moans. Their beautiful screams. Everything is important to me. I know them and I need to see everything about them even though I have gotten used to recognizing the signs.
sbs: Your love of tormenting and humiliating men is obvious to any who have even glimpsed your way. What is it about dominating men you enjoy most? And can any man be made to be submissive before a woman like you, Domina Bess?
DB: I enjoy all the flavors of my slaves. I don’t just enjoy humiliation. I am a very versatile Mistress. Intuitive and empathic. My character is dual as a good Gemini. I can range from sensual to strict, playful to sadistic… and always kinky.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
DB: The best way to impress me is for the slave to show himself as he is. Then I will decide how I allow the slave to pamper me and flatter me. Sincerity seems like a cliché, right? I accept everyone with their defects and their virtues. I also like imperfections. If the slave loves me with total devotion and is sincere, I will love him.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your Barcelona dungeon, nervously asking my questions as I feel your powerful presence, how might such an interview end?
DB: As you have asked me all your questions, our time would end with me interrogating you, little slaveboy.
