Queen Vi…Bow Down Before Me!
I love getting a little sub in my grasp. Putting them on their knees, my hands firmly grasping their chin, watching them squirm as I ask “Where did your spine go? I thought you’d put up a fight.”
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy in his rightful place, bowing before the gorgeous Queen Vi for a very special feature interview. I’m nervous, as she is well acquainted with my secrets as her Domme friends have shared more than I’m comfortable with. Forgive my nervousness, beautiful Queen, and welcome to DA!
Queen Vi: Thank you so much for having Me!
sbs: It’s a pleasure to finally meet you Queen. As you no doubt know, I’ve truly enjoyed serving some of your closest Domme friends lately. Let me begin by asking you what brought you into the world of Femdom, to share a little of your path to where you are today, and to let our readers know when you first realized your power as a Domme.
QV: Well, my first encounter with Femdom was around 18. A Tumblr friend and I were sexting and he called Me “Mommy”, which was equal parts shocking and arousing. He was my first sub and continues to serve!
sbs: That must have been quite a moment for you both. Do you dominate slaves both real time and online? And is it just men who submit to you, or do you also have female worshipers?
QV: I do both online and real time and have submissives of all genders! I actually dominate primarily women.
sbs: That is unique and intriguing. Is it by your preference that this happens or just which submissives are more drawn to you? Are there significant differences in the types of sessions and fetishes explored with different genders?
QV: It’s the women that are drawn to Me! I don’t seek them out. My femsubs are also primarily FinDommes, and they financially submit to Me.
sbs: Amazing! So other Dommes seek you out to submit to you financially?? Oh my! That must feel incredible. If their subs only knew that they were actually tributing financially to you indirectly. How does that type of relationship typically begin and proceed? Domming other Dommes…you really are the Queen!
QV: Yes! Most of them are actually quite public about it, and their subs LOVE it! They generally approach with a small tribute, and it only grows from there. You know how erotic sending can be, and they find it the same.
sbs: Yet they are dominant…I can imagine that must be conflicting for them to admit their desire to submit to you, setting aside the ego required to dominate others as they also do.
QV: Very much so. They have to leave their ego at the door to serve, and when they do so, we’re able to create an incredible relationship.
@ariesbaby46, @DandelionZan, and @venomousvi are three of my favorite girls!
sbs: So incredibly powerful! And in addition to Findom, are there specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your submissives? Any that are off limits that anyone dreaming of serving you need to know up front, Queen?
QV: It really depends on the relationship with each individual submissive as to what kinks I enjoy with them. I like impact play a lot, I’m a fan of drawing blood through bruising. The cane would probably be my favorite play tool. I love chastity as well, but I mainly focus on individual growth through kink. My hard limits ebb and flow, as funny as that is to say. As I continue to grow as a Domme, person, and sex worker, my limits are ever changing.
sbs: I’m quite sure your submissives’ limits are stretched and change as they desperately do whatever it takes to please you, Queen. If you could choose one celebrity, or well known person to have kneeling before you, trembling in anticipation, eager to worship and please you, who would you choose, and why?
QV: I’m not sure I’d actually let a celebrity serve! Too much ego, one semi-famous person has tried in the past. However, I would make considerable exceptions for Odell Beckham or Paul Rudd.
sbs: I have no doubt any ego they brought into session with you would quickly be broken down by your caning skills 😉 Can you share a little bit of how it feels in that moment when you have a slave in that situation, all resistance and will subsided, existing only to please and serve you? That must feel amazing!
QV: It’s almost like time slows. When in a kink scene, there’s nothing else in the world but myself and my submissive. To be completely in the moment, mutually vulnerable and open in completely different ways, expressing your most authentic self is nothing short of liberating. In my view, my practice of kink play is less about being broken, and more about allowing yourself to become whole through embracing “deviant” urges as something that exist, need to be satiated, and relinquishing not only power, but shame, fear, and preconceived notions of masculinity or femininity.
sbs: That does sound like an intoxicating moment. Would you describe it as comparable for yourself as a Domme to what submissives experience as sub-space, perhaps?
QV: 100%! Dommespace is real. As someone in an FLR and with a live in submissive, I live my lifestyle 24/7. That being said, play in a scene is a lot more intense than casual lifestyle play.
sbs: We’ve spoken a lot today about real time sessions, and they are clearly a passion for you. But with the world in such turmoil, I’m sure the need for an online Femdom presence has been more critical. For those unable, or not yet ready to meet you in person for a session, what kind of opportunities are available to serve and worship you from a distance?
QV: Fundamentally, I am a financial Dominatrix so online play, online service, and secret senders are always welcome. With My intelligence and eloquence, I find I thrive here with those who seek something beyond immediate gratification. I attract a certain type of submissive, I’m not the right fit for all.
sbs: Many of the Dommes we feature produce clips for a variety of clipstores. In doing “research” before this interview I notice you have an IWC clipstore and a small selection of clips. Is this in the process of growing, and of those clips you’ve produced, is there one you would point to and demand that all reading this interview buy immediately to sample your style as a Domme, and to begin their addiction?
QV: My clips are more of a fun, creative venture and less so an example of my Domme style! There are more to come, but it’s not a representation of what it’s like to be my submissive. My online finsubs mainly pay for my time, presence, conversation, and mind. My clips are more so ideas and fantasies that I think are fun to explore. That being said, I encourage any subs reading this to buy clips AND submit directly.
sbs: I’m sure there are many reading this who are eager to do just that, Queen Vi. What advice would you offer those wishing to express their willingness to submit so they make the best possible first impression upon their Queen?
QV: Approach with a tribute and be honest. Don’t have expectations. I work with submissives who seek to be Mine, but that does involve a considerable amount of work.
sbs: As it should…anything worthwhile requires work and devotion. So with all that you have already experienced and accomplished as a Femdom, what comes next for you?
QV: I’m looking to hopefully go to graduate school and study the sociology of kink! That’s a goal for the next year or so. Sub funded, of course!
sbs: Of course…you shouldn’t have to pay for anything. Thank you so much for the privilege of this interview. I’ve followed you for some time through your amazing friends that I have served, and you are everything I imagined and more. Any final words for your adoring worshipers and those who will soon be approaching?
QV: Thank you for having Me! So long as they leave their ego at the door and serve selflessly, they’re more than welcome in my court.
sbs: Perfectly stated. Before I crawl away to work on your feature, would you please allow this slaveboy one final question of you Queen Vi?
QV: Ask away!
sbs: Thank you. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, how might such an interview conclude?
QV: With a kiss to the foot and a pat to the head, as you’re eloquent, kind, and respectful. I’m sure you make Miss Nova and Goddess Valentina proud.
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