Mz Dela Florez knows that getting what you want, isn’t what you want. She is a sensual & sadistic tease & denial Findom force of nature. Unsettlingly intelligent, capricious, and strict, Her core kink is reducing men to mindless wallets, desperate to fund Her every whim. Tribute is the key to earning Her attentions – shower Her in money & gifts to invoke Her sadistic machinations into your disordered sex life.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling before the beautiful and powerful Mz Dela Florez. Thank you for this privilege today. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mz Dela Florez: I’ve always been able to easily establish a strong rapport with males. So much so that long before I’d ever let one touch Me, I had a bit of a “reputation” since I was always surrounded by them.
I’d also had an usually intense interest in human psychology and behavior from an extremely early age, inspired by watching My Mother’s university psychology tele-classes with Her as a pre-schooler.
And then there was the fact that language came easily to Me – I was reading NYT bestseller novels at age 3, writing My own stories & scripts by 4, and performing Shakespeare professionally by 8. I knew words were weapons of great power more or less from the get-go.
Those three factors were a synergistic powerhouse of possibility waiting to be tapped. All throughout My early years, I utilized it to get pretty much whatever I wanted from adults – usually access to resources, privileges, and experiences reserved for bigger kids or grown-ups.
It became a conscious erotic pursuit in high school when hormones ran rampant & everyone begins exploring their sexuality. I started experimenting with the ways words could seed and trigger thoughts and impulses in others. Much to My amusement, I also quickly discovered that many men were willing to subject themselves to all manner of humiliation if they thought it might earn them access to sexual gratification. That’s when the fun really began!
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MDF: I am definitely naturally Dominant. My entire life I’ve been described as an “intimidating Woman” even when I went out of My way to seem approachable.
In the vanilla working world I was always immediately placed in positions of authority, even if that wasn’t the role I was seeking. In every area of life folks just seem to instinctively sense that I’m creative, clever, and someone that can be looked to for structure & guidance …and who is not to be trifled with. I was, am, and always will be the Main Character. That organically carries over into My erotic life, much to the benefit of My subs.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to Mz Dela Florez? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
MDF: I value strength. I often say, I don’t want to be $erved by some sniveling, mewling worm. And I don’t personally find Power in brute coercion – anything can be broken by force. It’s the subtle unraveling of their resistance in My Presence, and watching them melt into subservience as My suggestions and reprogramming take hold of their subconscious that is the beauty I like to watch.
While I adore when subs are weak for Me, I want a strong, intelligent individual who is choosing to put their resources to work for their beloved Liege. The service-oriented devotional attitude of a knight is what is most valuable to Me. My favorite submissives tend to come from social service and military backgrounds – men who naturally have service and gift-giving as their love languages.
I choose the titles Goddess and Queen because I feel they express the sort of awe-struck worship that I wish to receive from inferiors. Yes, I want submissives broken and bowed. But why should someone of My station have to exert themselves to enforce the obvious?
The words I use to frame My Dominance tend to organically draw submissives who have an appreciation for the sensual & sophisticated, and who value an aesthetic imagination. They are often established and hold respected positions in their vanilla lives. They know what want, are confident, communicate well, and are willing to put their money where their mouth is. This is by design. Moths to a flame.
I view Myself as a quintessential Bad Influence. The Devil on your shoulder. The Temptress. I present submissives with a myriad of ruinous paths, and take pleasure in observing which they choose to walk down, how far and how fast, and which of their own boundaries they will push past to impress. I love to sit back and watch while they break and remake themselves in order to please Me.
you see, the seduction goes both ways. submissives are seduced by My Presence, charisma, sadistic humor, and dangerous intellect. And I, in turn, am seduced into providing more and better access to My private attentions through their enthusiastic efforts to spoil and please. I always say I invest in My subs as much as they invest in Me.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MDF: I know many Dom/mes enjoy playing with themes of aggressive subjugation, but performative resistance does nothing for Me, and I have ZERO tolerance for brats. I don’t consider Myself a breaker or a conqueror. I’m more of a Force of Nature. Beautiful, brutal, inescapable – worshiped to invite My blessings & offered $acrifice to avoid My wrath. Nature doesn’t have to TRY to destroy you. She just will unless you learn the secrets of survival.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to, Mz Dela Florez?
MDF: It’s quite intoxicating! I think the closest feeling I can liken it to is when a performer really has a crowd in the palm of their hands – every move & word feels electric, and carries a tangible weight that ripples out, the audience moving in response as if by magic. When a sub becomes a mere puppet in My hands it’s an ineffable experience.
But it’s a bit of a hedonic treadmill. Breakthroughs in training are always exhilarating! The first time a sub makes a 4-digit $end is always delicious. Or witnessing the rapturous ecstasy a sub reaches when they’re finally rewarded with release after a month (or more) of edging. Or seeing the heady mix of fear and arousal in the eyes of a submissive when they realize they actually enjoy anal training and find themselves begging Me for more.
But it’s like “baby’s first steps” – amazing the first time, and then quickly routine. Both Domme and sub can burn out fairly quickly if you’re always aiming for Big Drama. Rapport must remain grounded and balanced for it to have true impact and longevity. Meaningful transformation takes time, and I aim to make My subs better men in all areas of their lives through My training.
I’ve learned to not try and chase the D/s dragon. Celebrate the achievements, be creative to keep the journey exciting & progressing forward for both players, but it all needs to be kept centred on $ervice and personal evolution. Then when those paradigm-shattering Dionysian moments happen – through careful curation, or spontaneous happenstance – they mean that much more.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MDF: Of course. Much more of their money starts hitting My account much more often! But it’s really when they start earnestly asking after MY needs, and expressing surprise & delight in finding that $erving Me – truly $erving with no selfish ulterior motive – is every bit as satisfying (and usually more so) than essentially seeking Me out to play masturbatory Simon Says.
That’s usually about when they start relinquishing financial control, planning their household budget around providing consistent & meaningful $ervice. That is when things really begin to get interesting for both of U/us, as the real D/s dynamic can start to evolve, and I can begin guiding deeper psycho-sexual exploration.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MDF: I’m first and foremost a FinDomme, so My core kink is very clearly receiving monetary $ervice. I want to be worshiped with cash. I deserve a life of ease and luxury handed to Me on a golden platter. Money is power and freedom – and I want every bit of what you have for My own. Their money looks better on Me anyway. So $end.
But consistency & thoughtfulness is key. I absolutely notice when a new sub checks in with a tip & a short respectful message every day. The ones that go a step further, and take the initiative to ask Me if there is anything that would make My day easier, and then promptly follow through definitely find themselves shortlisted for My favor.
When subs take the time and effort to truly care for and spoil Me, it makes Me want to know them more & ensure they are also taken care of properly.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MDF: I think after all this talk of Power & energy, when I stood to leave & rose up to My full boot-wearing height of 6’4″ you might feel a bit smaller & find your knees a bit weaker than when things began. What you chose to do with those sensations once I walked out the door is really between you and your accountant. 😘
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