Ms. Talia Tate - Feature Interview

I am Ms. Talia Tate…

You’ve been craving to find the path to true and utter submission. You’re addicted to the thought of handing over complete control to a powerful woman such as Myself. Lucky for you, dominating comes natural to Me. I am a Goddess. A Queen. Your Mistress.

I am a Professional mean girl and fetish minx. I’m a playful sadist with a penchant for kink and perversion. Charming and flirtatious, but absolutely dominant, both demanding and deserving of your respect. My specialties include stretching your holes, cuckolding, sissification, chastity+keyholding, CEI, CBT, foot worship, wedgies, intox, sub training and more.

I have an insatiable appetite for control and domination over men. I thoroughly enjoy knowing that I can spark a ravenous lust and desire within someone with only a few words or simple gestures. My influence goes beyond just the physical and can find its way into both your mental and spiritual being, igniting a fire of purpose, awareness, and knowledge.

slaveboysmith: She is a remarkably beautiful and alluring Pro Domme who is equally comfortable bending men to her will in person, or online. Today’s Feature Domme, the stunningly sexy Ms.Talia Tate, is an unstoppable force. Welcome to DA, Ms. Talia, and may I say, the view as I kneel before you is simply amazing!

Ms. Talia Tate: Pleasure to chat with you, slaveboy. And do try to stay focused on the task at hand, despite the resplendent view before you.

sbs: Focused on the perfect woman I kneel before…got it. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of what brought you to the world of Femdom and how you first started to realize the power you hold over others.

MTT: Well, personally I’ve always been in relationships that were female-lead and then they would eventually drift deeper into a more D/s dynamic. I’ve never been one to hold my tongue when it comes to how others treat me or how I expect them to treat me. I found this transitioned very strongly into my relationships with men and to my surprise many of them were receptive to this sort of dynamic as well. I didn’t realize so many men had submissive desires and that women could capitalize on this until I discovered Tumblr and the world of indie porn essentially. It took me quite a long time to transition from lifestyle player to a more professional role, but once I did it was easy for me to figure out that I wanted to strictly participate in fetish/Femdom oriented play and content.

sbs: Present world limitations aside, do you conduct real time sessions and also do online/distance domination? Are there significant differences in what types of fetishes you can explore?

MTT: I do offer both real time and online sessions. Right now at Wicked Eden (where I offer in person sessions) we have special protocols in place for COVID and are currently accepting session requests. There are a few fetishes that I offer in videos that I do not offer during in person sessions. Toilet fetish is the first that comes to mind. I have some pretty raunchy clips talking about various toilet fantasies, but I typically only offer my piss for clients that see me in person. Once again, not during our current global health crisis. That has led to quite a shift in what we can safely participate in with our in person sessions, but we are creative and have found ways to stay safe while still providing a fun experience for everyone. We’ve had a lot of double sessions lately too, which has been very entertaining!

sbs: I’m sure our current world situation has created the need for significant changes indeed, Ms. Talia. What can you share with our readers about Wicked Eden and the amazing Dommes you work with?

MTT: Well, we are one of the few co-op modeled BDSM establishments, which means we are all independent and come together as a whole to keep up our space, toys, training, etc. This is really great because we are still our own “boss” running our own business AND there’s nobody at Wicked Eden that would ever try to convince us to do anything we aren’t comfortable with. Which unfortunately isn’t always the case when working in traditional BDSM dungeons/studios.

I really admire Domina Snow for not listening to the folks that said such a model would fail and still going for it. It’s proven to be truly beneficial for all of us in my opinion. And not only has it been a great business move for me, but I’ve been able to nurture and develop some really amazing friendships as well. I’m sure you see me posting quite often with my “work wife” aka my bestie, Mistress Noel Knight! We obviously spend a lot of time together and relish in the fun we have. It’s hard to get everyone together with all of our opposing schedules, but when the gals of Wicked Eden come out to play we always have a kick-ass time! I’m very fortunate to have such a solid group of women to stand beside in this very unique journey/career.

sbs: I’ve had the distinct pleasure and privilege of interviewing both Mistress Noel Knight and Domina Snow. Amazing women, as are the other Dommes you work with in the Wicked Collective! For those who are unable to visit you for a real time session, what type of online/distance training opportunities are there for slaves to devote themselves to you, Ms. Talia?

MTT: Currently, OnlyFans and Niteflirt are my two favorite ways to keep in touch with subs and participate in distance training. I love the FanClub aspect as submissives are able to binge on you and get hooked pretty easily. I feel more inclined to share with my fans there than I typically do on social media. It’s fun to curate different challenges, tasks, offer chastity/keyholding and other ongoing interactive dynamics for my fans as well. NiteFlirt will always be an old favorite. I started online there and have some really great subs that I’ve played and talked with for years now. Whether it’s a one off or an ongoing dynamic, both of those are the best ways to interact with me virtually.

sbs: Whether in person or online, anyone kneeling in your presence would be overwhelmed. Can you share a little of what it feels like for you in that moment to hold that kind of power over another person?

MTT: When the chemistry is there and I can tell the person I’m playing with is getting to their subspace, it’s quite enchanting for me. Perhaps even intoxicating would be a better word. I love knowing someone is willing to do just about anything I ask. It’s even better when they are a blubbering, little puddle and beg for more. If they shed a tear from all the excitement and stimulation, well that just really does it for me. I find my cheeks hurt a bit after a nice, long session because I tend to carry a very sadistic little grin throughout. Even during some recorded sessions I’ve edited, I notice I grin and giggle a whole lot while exerting that power over another. That type of exchange can be very fulfilling for me.

sbs: As a submissive, noticing how much a Domme is enjoying and getting into a session is very erotic and takes me even deeper. What you describe sounds absolutely intoxicating! If you could choose one celebrity, or well known person to have that experience with, to have completely under your spell, who would you choose, and why?

MTT: Oh that’s easy for me. Tom fucking Hardy! I mean he’s a slab of a man. The lips, the eyes, the accent….I just want to bite him. And I’ve seen some of his old racy MySpace photos, and he’s got an ass made for pegging. Definitely Tom Hardy.

sbs: Oh my Ms. Talia…now that was definitive right up to including what might be in store for him once you have him under your spell. Is pegging something you truly enjoy as a Domme, and what is it about it that is so popular among many Dommes that I interview?

MTT: I truly enjoy pegging as a Domme both professionally and personally as well. As long as a guy has prepped himself first to the best of his ability I really love to get in there. I have a lot of fun with a strap-on and any hole though really. As far as the community as a whole, I have no idea really. I can only speak for myself and the feelings of joy I get when a grown man is begging for more of my dick in his ass. It’s just another aspect of that power exchange we all love so much I suppose?!

sbs: I’ve said on a few occasions that nothing has ever made me feel more vulnerable, exposed and submissive than being taken from behind by a strapon. It’s the ultimate power exchange. Is it only men who submit to you, Ms. Talia, or do you also have female submissives that bow before you and offer themselves to you?

MTT: I have both male, female, and a few bottoms that identify as non-binary also. The majority of my submissives are men, but it’s not uncommon for ladies to want to submit and serve me. I love working with couples as well!

sbs: When you see couples, is it typically as both submissives, or what type of dynamic do you usually encounter with that type of session? Are there significant differences between dominating male, female or non-binary submissives?

MTT: A lot of times with couples it’s either teaching the woman how to dominate her husband or both parties are very new to the dynamic and really just want a mentor or guide of some sort to help them navigate boundaries and activities. The only difference for me when dominating those that identify as male vs female is I tend to gravitate toward denying men of their release…whereas with the ladies I very much enjoy seeing just how many orgasms they can have during their time with me. Call me old fashioned, but I believe ladies should come first and foremost.

sbs: That is the world I wish to live in…female led in every way. Just imagining a couple where you’re teasing them both but the male has to sit and watch his wife/gf forced to orgasm repeatedly until she can barely stand it any more…all while he’s denied. That’s some very powerful stuff! Have you explored this type of dynamic in any of your clip work to this point?

MTT: Unfortunately, I haven’t had the pleasure of a couple appearing in my clip store yet, though I have filmed with a few lovely submissives and am always looking forward to more opportunities to do so. I’d say about 95% of my sessions so far have asked not to be recorded or photographed, which I totally understand. I do have a few clients that love to have their full sessions recorded just for their own personal enjoyment. It’s very different to record a session that someone has booked for themselves versus setting up filming certain scenes with other kinksters and content creators.

There are times I can get great snippets like a 10 minute clip from a live session where my bottom has signed certain paperwork to allow me to use their image in my work and that’s wonderful. But for a lot of people as soon as you ask for a signature and certain identification it’s an instant turn off and a definitive no. As a professional and a lifestyle player, I wholly respect that boundary.

sbs: Of the amazing clips you have produced, Ms. Talia, is there one that you would point to and demand that all who are reading this feature purchase immediately to get a sense of your style as a Domme and begin their descent into addiction?

MTT: Oh that’s a good question. I would have to say my “Road to Submission” series (part 2 here). So far there is a part 1 and 2, and I intend to create more as well. It’s a bit of roleplay/deception in part 1, but it’s also a great foundation to start. I also really enjoy medical play clips so “Dr. Tate’s Prostate Clinic” and “Dr. Tate’s Trial Clinic” are favorites, and both of those are also two part features. And I can’t forget my strap-on/pegging clips, I love making those. “Caged and Fucked” being my favorite and one of my most popular!

sbs: That sounds like the beginnings of a serious clip binge for our readers! You’ve done a number of Double Domme clips as well. Is there one Domme you enjoy working with most, that fits your style best for working together? And does the dynamic change when there are two of you in a session or a filming?

MTT: I love working with other Dommes whether in a session or clips! It’s hard to pick a favorite, but I would be lying if I didn’t say my two mentors and closest friends in the industry Domina Snow and Mistress Knight were my top picks! They’ve both taught me so much and make me feel so comfortable in filming and sessions. The nice thing with that is there really isn’t a big jump in our attitudes with or towards each other in those areas…besides when we are filming it’s just us and we get to be more silly and goofy when the camera is off than when we are in the zone for a live session with a submissive(s). I’d love to work with even more of the amazing Dommes out there once things calm down again.

sbs: Two of the finest, for sure. Anyone in particular you would be eager to work with that you haven’t had the chance to as yet? Perhaps we at DommeAddiction can help make a match between two Dommes who wish to work together 🙂

MTT: Ok, now you’re just giving me a chance to gush about all my Domme crushes aren’t you?! It’s tough to narrow down the list, but for the sake of time and your readers I’ll try my best. I’d have to start with Ms. Tomorrow because her humor and creativity feed my soul. And also Cybil Troy and Madame Caramel. They are both so iconic and I feel I could learn so much from them. And not to mention their styles are both impeccable. I’d be honored to meet and interact with those mentioned and all the others I don’t have time to name.

sbs: You mention a few extraordinary women, and as you mention, I’m sure there are many more. Do you ever consider the flip side of this conversation, those Dommes who think of Ms. Talia Tate in the kind of regard that you do of , Ms. Tomorrow, Ms. Cybil Troy and Madame Caramel? Do you see yourself as a mentor/idol at any time?

MTT: Short and simple answer would be a no…When Domina Snow asked me to help with one of the content creator classes that the Wicked Collective held this past spring I was terrified and told her I didn’t feel qualified or like I had enough standing in the industry to teach others. She’s very good at persuasion, and she convinced me otherwise. So, I’ve tried to accept that role more openly and use what knowledge I know I do possess to help others succeed. I have helped quite a few girls in training, both during live sessions to learn technique and some brand building/skill building outside of sessions…And all I can hope is that I’m half as good a mentor as mine were to me. If anyone thinks of me in the same way I think of the Dommes I listed before, flattered would be an understatement.

sbs: Well despite your modesty, I’m sure even Domina Snow would agree that you likely have other Dommes who admire your beauty, your work and your Femdom presence. As it is timely, let me ask you how you have been impacted as a Pro Domme by our present world situation, and how has it impacted your ability to interact with and dominate your submissives? I hope you’ve managed to stay safe and healthy Ms. Talia.

MTT: Ah yes, our nemesis COVID-19 really threw a stick in the spokes this year for everyone I think. For me personally, the most obvious change has been lack of in person sessions. Wicked Eden did shut down for some time when our state introduced strict measures and we all agreed it was best to close the doors for the time being.

We are currently accepting sessions again, but obviously now we have a bit of a different protocol for our sanitation, scheduling, and activities that can happen. We make sure to check in with each other often about current events, making sure everyone is ok and comfortable with how things are going at the studio. And luckily with the way Domina Snow has decided to run Wicked Eden and everyone being an independent, none of us are forced to take sessions if we aren’t comfortable with the current climate. We all really appreciate that freedom of choice during these uncertain times.

Otherwise, it’s been rather easy for me to pivot and focus more on virtual interactions with submissives since I was already established online with clip sites, OnlyFans, and outlets like NiteFlirt and SextPanther. I’ve had a ton of cam sessions this year and the inquires about how to connect with me virtually just keep flooding in. I’ve also taken time this year to work on my clip production/editing and hone some other BDSM related skills which have kept me busy and profitable despite shut-downs and lack of in person dynamics. I’m very fortunate to be in the position I am despite the state of the world, and it’s not a privilege I take lightly considering how deeply others have been affected.

sbs: It certainly sounds like you, and your Domme colleagues at Wicked Eden are doing the best to continue with what you do and taking the right precautions. Thank you so much for the privilege of this interview, and please continue to stay safe and healthy, Ms. Talia. For those reading this interview, falling under your spell as I have, what advice might you offer them as they work up the courage to approach you and offer themselves in submission?

MTT: Be sure to bring your manners, an open mind, a clean ass, and a full wallet.

sbs: That is quite the trifecta, Ms. Talia! And it certainly leaves options open for a remarkable experience with you. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature?

MTT: You’ve been very polite, so I suppose one more question is agreeable.

sbs: Thank you so much Ms. Talia. If we were conducting this interview in your dungeon at Wicked Eden, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, how might such an interview conclude?

MTT: I’d let you kiss My feet and then send you off to the kitchen to prepare Myself and the other ladies refreshments before you make your way back home.