I AM MISTRESS MARCHESA & HERE IS EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO BE AWARE OF:
Psycho Mistress.
I’ll be your prison & your freedom.
Sociopath in love with every kind of sluttish, unconventional,
blasphemy outside of the box.
Female Boss.
Hater of human kind.
Hater of lazy minds and freewill ignorance.
Need and looking for cerebral input, adrenaline,
strong emotions.
That’s ME.
A Dark Nephilim who will turn your favorite Dreams into your worst Nightmares.
You’re at the edge of the Hell…I’m Miss M, shall I show you the way?
slaveboysmith: Welcome to DommeAddiction, Mistress Marchesa. It is a privilege to be in your presence. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Marchesa: Not at all…my own personality is full of sides, sometimes dark sides which I still don’t know. I love to say I have a multiple personality disorder, just for fun. And I love to explore all sides of my mind deeply.
Being a Dominatrix is one of my sides, which I’ve always had, but which never got fully realized due to our patriarchal society which supposes that men control everything. I have always hated this concept, and that’s probably one of factors which turned me into an Alpha Woman.
I’m quite satisfied with my route. Now I’m into the Femdom lifestyle, and it’s a status that grows day by day. I don’t allow this side to take control, because I guess it’s quite important be humble when discussing myself. Being too self confident can close a lot of opportunities to improve as a human and as a Professional Dominatrix.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MM: Again, not at all. First I need to explain my personal domination concept. I don’t think being a Domme involves behaviours like arrogance, prevarication or rudeness. I guess it’s more like charisma.
Of course, I’ve always had dominant features in my behaviour, but otherwise all I do in my work it’s about acting. In my “normal” life, I can even sometimes be nice and polite too.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
MM: Good question. Very good question. In our age power is all about knowledge. Knowledge and information…I don’t care about money, I do care about power. So I guess I would choose someone who already works for the CIA or something else. Maybe someone who has an important political role…the USA President, why not?
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect Mistress Marchesa slave”?
MM: Of course I do, but I’m quite demanding. The perfect slave doesn’t exist, otherwise what would I derive the pleasure of punishing him from? What I want my subs doing is different from the kind of sub who makes me curious. My rational side wants a sub always ready to respond to my needs. He has to be a driver, he has to be able to take great pics and shoot videos if I need it, he has to know BDSM protocol as well as possible when he follows me to lunch, dinner, a party, and so on.
He has to know not just the classic D/s protocol but even my own personal protocol. What he can say, how he has to say it and when he has to speak, just for instance. He has to be limit free. I want to use him for my videos, for my personal fun, or just to do practice, so he must be very open-minded, very clever, polite, humble, curious about new practices and new experiences and so on.
I’ve never had a personal sub which has not been drawn to me in some way. But in that case, in that moment, it’s all about feeling, no rationality at all. Sometimes brats are more arousing, and I really enjoy dealing with them…but this kind of feeling only lasts just a few days.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MM: As I said, totally the first ones. How can I ever check my Domme skills if everyone’s obeying me without any hesitation? Building a D/s relationship is something deep, it’s like playing chess with the slave’s mind. It has to be stimulating for both of us.
By the way, a well-trained sub, for sure knows Femdom protocol, but may still bond to their previous Mistress’ protocol. So the brainwash work could be more difficult to undo than the new untrained slave. Sometimes the hardest thing is to get him to drop his old habits. But I can tell, I have to win this war. Nobody can be dominated if he doesn’t allow it. I could be the best Domme in the world, but if a sub wants to pretend to be strong and denies every game, every order, just to appear bratty, just because he wants to be different and interesting, I could never get inside his mind. The resistance has to be spontaneous, like the will to give up.
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves, and does that differ between real time sessions and online training?
MM: It’s not very different… Pro-Domming for me is side work. I’ve already had one, and I love it, I’m not gonna leave it. But it’s not easy to get as my free time is limited. Even if 500 subs text me for a session, I don’t have the time to meet up with everyone, even if I wanted to. So I need to be selective. I do sessions only with subs who I like. And I do sessions just with the subs who enjoy what I like.
I’m open-minded, so I don’t often refuse to play something new. If in my Domme life I’d stayed just in my comfort zone, without any new experiences, I’d never improve and learn, and I’d never became who I am now.
It’s not about the practice, it’s more about the feeling with the sub. With my personal slaves, we know each other, they totally trust me, so I can push harder and play harder, or play more erotically. This may include things which I don’t do in normal sessions.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to Mistress Marchesa?
MM: No I can’t describe it. It’s unbelievable. You know what…I still remember my first time. It was just fetish stuff, so nothing too hardcore. The day after I was super happy, trying something new, finding out a new side of myself but.. when I was in the middle of things that night I realized that there were no words to describe it.
I tried. It was all about emotions. That night gave me more emotions than many other sessions, with hardcore practices, but not the same level of emotions. I remember muffled noises in my mind. No time sense. All my senses sharpened, ready to notice all inputs.My sadistic smile which I tried to hide. The powerful feeling to have everything under my control, the amazing sensation to feel as a Goddess when I allowed my sub to look at me. It wasn’t necessary to stop to think “what do I have to do?” I didn’t need to stop to ask “what am I doing?” Just ecstasy.
Not all sessions are like that. It was such a utopia! We really need time and energy to build a deep relationship to reach that kind of feeling. Both the Domme and sub have to match and go in the same direction. But when this happens, it’s better than anything!
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MM: I feel it. BDSM is not just bondage play, it’s a deep soul bonding. I am the Domme, but everything I do comes from feedback I receive from my submissive. When to stop, go faster, change practice…if this kind of perfect D/s match is built, my slave can totally lose control and live the sub space experience.
When I play, the most powerful, satisfying moment, comes when my sub says “Mistress do whatever you want, I’m yours.” And not just because he has to say it…because he feels it. That’s my goal, the moment which I try to reach in every session, which tells me a sub is totally under my control. I truly love to hear it.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MM: Hold on tight! I’m not kidding. In this whole period, I have known different kinds of slaves. Most of them just text me because they see a womanly image on FB, IG and so on.They don’t even read my bio.
This sucks. It means that me, or another Domme are all the same.
I’m quite demanding, I know, I know. But being sub doesn’t mean being a stupid man, unless I want you to be. So I want clever, sharp, cultured subs, able to read more than 10 words, able to understand what I say, using the brain and not the cock, even if I’m pretty understanding… if all the body’s blood end up in their cock and their brain doesn’t work anymore.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview Mistress Marchesa?
MM: Yep. Just watch out. Everything I do, from the moment when any sub texts me, and tries to impress me, is strategically calculated. I mean, they can say everything by text message, or by voice call…but it’s just words. I want to check facts. Facta, non verba. So I try to test this sub in any way that comes to my mind. And I can tell you, mostly they fall down just at the first contact because they try to appear as someone who they are not. They try to cheat…but I’m smarter than all of them.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MM: Well, I guess we both love and have a passion for this work. It’s not just a job. And we’re both human, probably the worst kind of pervy human, luckily. So, after answering questions, responding, recalling any important past moments, talking about projects and so on…it’s time for you to fuck off with questions, kneel and worship me! And don’t forget to fetch me a nice cocktail…talking like this has made Mistress very thirsty.
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