Mistress Alicia Zadig is a leading Dominatrix and BDSM expert with years of firsthand experience. She is a native New Yorker with a lifelong interest in psychology and sexuality. Her passion for helping others explore their unique sexuality and wildest desires makes her the perfect guide to lead you into the fascinating world of male submission. In “Yes, Mistress”, she shares a glimpse into the world of female domination and why men crave it, sometimes more than they care to admit!
As her submissive, you will be exposed before Mistress Alicia when She first looks into your eyes and penetrates your soul. And you will instantly realize that She is the woman who will guide you into the deeper and darker side of submission. From the moment you are in HER divine presence, you will finally understand the meaning of true submission to a Superior Female and will know the most powerful and real form of Female Domination. Whether you are willing or resistant, you will learn to please Mistress Alicia and find pleasure in seeing the smile on HER face.
Mistress Alicia has been described as a Seductress, Temptress, Role-play Extraordinaire, Fetishist, Humiliatrix, Sadist, Disciplinarian, and The Girl Next Door. She can be sensual or strict, playful or demanding, nurturing or cruel. Slipping in and out of these personas with ease, leaving you vulnerable, off-balance, and in anticipation about what to expect next.
slaveboysmith: She is a gorgeous Dominatrix and the author of the newly released “Yes Mistress! Why Men Crave Female Domination”, and today at DommeAddiction finds this very privileged slaveboy kneeling before the amazing Mistress Alicia Zadig. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and thank you so much for granting this interview and sharing your story today.
Mistress Alicia: Hello slaveboy! My pleasure. I’m excited to be here.
sbs: It is a privilege to be in your presence Mistress. Let’s begin by talking a little about how you entered into the world of Femdom, and some of your experiences along the way as a Dominatrix. Have you always known the power you hold over others?
MA: I discovered my dominant nature early on. I was 18 when I began dominating men regularly and it was simply a matter of embracing this natural part of my personality. As I describe in my book, I had a boyfriend who had a foot fetish and I quickly learned about this desire to worship and serve. Our play was very natural and before long I was sitting at his desk doing my papers with my feet on his face and using him as a footrest.
sbs: And speaking of your new book, “Yes Mistress!” is must read for all who wish to explore the D/s dynamic in more detail. Have you been thinking about writing for some time, and how did this project come about Mistress Alicia?
MA: Absolutely! “Yes, Mistress” is perfect for anyone who wants to understand this aspect of male sexuality. Giving up control is the most common male fantasy across men worldwide. All men crave a submissive experience so who wouldn’t want to understand it better? I wanted to share my knowledge, experience, and insights into what men crave. I also want people to hear from the men themselves and in their own voice which is so rare. In addition, I want to destigmatize and demystify BDSM and to let people know the many ways it can serve and benefit those who participate. The truth is that men of all types love it, crave it, and fantasize about it, and it’s perfectly normal and natural.
sbs: In your quest to discover why men crave female domination in your book, you sought input from several of your fellow Dommes. What did you, as a Domme, learn from the their contributions, and how did this impact the overall success of your book?
MA: When asking the question “why do men crave female domination” I found it most effective to ask the men themselves and the women who dominate them – the women with whom they share their secret fantasies. Of course a lot of it is based on my own experiences and clients but I wanted a wider lens. And so I interviewed some of the top Dommes to hear their perspectives and about the men they have dominated.
What I learned first and foremost was that these women absolutely love what they do and hold their submissives in the highest regard. They are intelligent, extremely skilled, compassionate and highly intuitive. They are all able to figure out what is important to their submissive and what is the ultimate feeling he is looking for while at the same time making sure he enjoys every moment of it. It also occurred to me that they are aware of all of the potential benefits that BDSM can provide. They have a deep understanding of how this serves their submissives. They are Dommes that go to the next level to ensure that it is a mind-blowing experience.
It was interesting to hear the different perspectives of what their clients are ultimately looking to achieve. I found each one of these Dommes fascinating. They all have created their own style and mastered their craft in their unique way – whether that be bondage, humiliation, role play, discipline, seduction etc. Any woman reading this book will get to hear what men crave from these leading Dommes. And the men will get to hear about other men through these Dommes. Their perspectives and voices have made “Yes Mistress” the book it is, and I am thrilled that they contributed in this way.
sbs: How has this experience changed you as a Dominatrix, and might we see more writing projects in the future for Mistress Alicia?
MA: I have always been curious about the psychological aspect of BDSM. Writing “Yes Mistress” gave me the opportunity to dig deeper and to discover what role history, religion, social norms and expectations, nature/nurture, human needs, and media all play in the most common male fantasy – the fantasy of submission. I enjoy creating and sharing my message on different platforms. As for my writing, I write feature length screenplays of all genres – including dark comedy, psychological thriller, and horror. In the future, you can expect to see both feature films and other books on sexuality and kink. My writing always has some BDSM element in it since it is a subject matter that I feel passionately about and know well. I am a lifestyle Domme and Female Domination is an important part of my day-to-day life and naturally it is sprinkled into my art.
sbs: For those who may not know you well, how would you describe your style as a Dominatrix?
MA: As soon as I discovered the world of Professional Female Domination I knew instantly that I wanted to become a ProDomme. It was a dynamic that fascinated me from the beginning and I knew that I wanted more than to just play with men and women In my personal life.
My style as a Domme is dependent on the mood I’m in and the person I’m playing with. I love humiliation, both verbal and physical, so that is generally incorporated into my play. Even though there is a specific time carved out for the session, my scenes are very real and authentic for both me and my submissive. I am always very engaged. I enjoy pushing my submissive’s limits and creating incredible and mind-blowing experiences. My scenes are spontaneous. I like going with it as opposed to having it all planned out.
I have quite the range, including sensual arousal/denial scenes, heavy corporal or discipline scenes and everything in between. What’s most important to me is the connection I have with my submissive.
sbs: When in session, what are your favourite attributes in a submissive that you have kneeling before you Mistress Alicia?
MA: I enjoy playing with a submissive who will tell me his interests and discuss hard limits, but also leave room for spontaneity and trying new things. I’m highly intuitive and creative and I enjoy the freedom to take the scene in any direction I like. I generally play with submissives who will appreciate that as well. With some, I enjoy their desire to serve me and their mind frame of “I am here to serve you and to make you happy. Please train me for your pleasure and as you see fit.” And for others, I appreciate their willingness to get lost in the moment and let go of any inhibitions and have fun. I also love to be surprised and have my submissive come to me wearing panties under his clothing. Knowing he had them on even before kneeling at my feet brings me pleasure.
sbs: Can all men be made to submit to the right dominant Goddess? In other words, is there actually a true Alpha male in the presence of the right woman?
MA: All men crave Female Domination to some degree. Even an Alpha male would enjoy a submissive experience with a sexy dominant woman occasionally. I am not talking about “being submissive” but rather an erotic experience of giving up control for a couple of hours once in a while. Even if that is as simple as being tied down and teased during a sensual arousal/denial scene. We act like it’s a small subset of men but that couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s just one of the many things we make believe about. And I am as sure about this as I am about Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy.
Even in my own experience I have come across countless men, whether they were friends, friends of friends, etc. who are convinced that it’s just not for them and they wouldn’t like it. And so I created the FemDom challenge. I challenge them to have a session with me and if at the end they can look me in the eye and say they didn’t love it, I will give them a thousand dollars. And guess how many times I’ve lost? Zero!! I am the Undefeated Dominatrix Champion! I challenge any man who is bi or straight who believes he wouldn’t love it.
sbs: Speaking of your connection with your submissives and challenging them, I’m sure you have been making us even weaker and more vulnerable to your considerable charms with your every response today, Mistress Alicia. For those reading your feature interview, eager to know more about you and to support your amazing work as a Dominatrix and writer, what advice might you offer to ensure they make the best possible first impression on the woman of their dreams?
MA: Thank you! If you are a submissive reaching out to me in hopes of serving me, check out my website. Send me an email telling me about yourself and your interests. If you are interested in knowing more about the type of Domme I am and my insights on Female Domination check out my new book “Yes Mistress”. It is available on its very own Yes, Mistress website and through Amazon as well. You can also follow me on Twitter and Instagram (@mistressalicia).
sbs: For our final question today, I have been pondering this throughout the process of arranging this interview. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions nervously, how might such an interview in your dungeon conclude Mistress Alicia?
MA: I imagine it would unfold like this. I would tell you that I know you think that we are done here but there’s been a change in plans. Goddess Jessica whom you serve, reached out to me and said that as part of your training, she has arranged for you to serve at our Domme Soirée. She explained that my girlfriends and I should feel free to have our way with you this evening especially with any slut training and forced feminization. And I will be kind enough to get you warmed up and prepared.
I will need to leave an insertable in you and have your mouth warmed up with my strap-on. But before any of that – let’s begin with a bit of hypnosis. It will be most effective to keep you in a deeply submissive state and remind you that deep deep in your unconscious mind you crave to serve us and you crave to be taken by us.
