Mistress Alexandra Wildfire

I am Mistress Alexandra Wildfire & I am a Lady who knows her craft.

I understand that you come to see a Professional Dominatrix not only because you want to submit to a beautiful Lady, but also because you expect domination at a professional level. This is absolutely crucial – after all you are entrusting me with your mind and body. Well, look no further – this is exactly what I provide.

Read my every word, and know that soon you will ache to bow before me. I am what you need and what you have always sought after aimlessly until now. You’re mine!

slaveboysmith: Sultry and mischievous, today’s Feature Domme, the beautiful & irresistible Mistress Alexandra Wildfire, has this very lucky slaveboy on his knees, looking up her leather boot encased legs, eager to share her story. Thank you for this interview today, Mistress. Welcome to DommeAddiction!

Mistress Alexandra Wildfire: Fabulous, Michael. With you on your knees, let’s do this!

sbs: Indeed. I’m very excited to share your story, Mistress Alexandra. What can share about the beginning of your entry into the world of Femdom, and your journey that has made you the powerful Mistress I kneel before today?

MAW: Hello DommeAddiction. Let me tell you a few things about the beginning and how I started. Well, I’ve always been kinky and my first boyfriend had a bit of a foot fetish and we just did a few things along those lines. He enjoyed massaging and kissing my feet and I didn’t think much of it at the time. I just thought it was a great addition to our otherwise normal teenage sex life. He was also was a bit submissive, which I didn’t see that way, but I enjoyed it and then when my next boyfriend didn’t have such qualities, I was deeply surprised.

I was always very naughty as well doing things while I lived in another country. When I moved to England to study and do my Masters degree, I discovered the kink scene over there and started attending some events and went from there.

But of course being a lifestyle Domme is very different from being a Professional, so at some point after finishing my Masters I got a job in an industry that was not very well paid, so I thought I needed to study some more and I did this accelerated legal course that was very expensive and I borrowed some money from my ex.

After finishing the program, I needed to give it back to him after we split up and that was a lot of money, about 15,000 pounds, so I thought I should really get some money quickly when I came across some workshops for Pro Dommes that I started attending. Here I saw that being a Domme would be perhaps a good way to make some money quickly and I also decided to stay in the industry because I thought it would be a much better job than being a lawyer.

I paid my ex his money back and never I never looked back. So yeah, that was definitely a very good choice and that was nearly seven years ago. Since then, I have done quite a few of those workshops to gain a lot of theoretical knowledge that is needed to do this job professionally. Even before I started at the very beginning, I found it very important and that’s why I try and teach young Dominatrices how to do it myself now.

sbs: For those who are not yet familiar with you as a Domme, how would you describe your style as a Dominatrix? Would you tend more to the sensual side of BDSM, or the strict one? And what are some of your favourite fetishes to explore while in session?

MAW: When it comes to my style, I enjoy a mix of styles. I believe what works best with my subs is a mixture in my approach, which means that I can be cruel at times, sensual at other times. Playful, sadistic, or a mixture of all of these. I also believe that it is the session that dictates the nature of my approach because there are some sessions that definitely require one style over another. Let’s say someone is coming for a facesitting session, well, lol, it’s unlikely that I will have many ways to express myself as strict. Though, if someone requested strict facesitting, I’m sure I could enjoy engaging in that too.

I do mix things up though, as I believe that creates the interesting mental element of domination for my subs, who most of all, are looking for intimacy. In order to achieve that you need to have some sensuality to your approach. However, then again, I have some of my subs that like the strictness of things and I enjoy that too.

In terms of fetishes, there are a few things I enjoy most. One is hypnosis, my specialty is erotic hypnosis and I really do love that. Facesitting, of course, because I have a really good looking bottom and I can sit on my slave’s faces for a whole day if needed. I also like rope bondage and Shibari, quite a demanding fetish requiring a lot of knowledge. I’m quite good at it and I enjoy it. I do like pegging as well and pretty much most of the fetishes you see. As a Dominatrix, you need to be versatile in order to do this job, and I genuinely enjoy most fetishes. There really isn’t anything in particular that I don’t like, so I’m lucky that way. But I do have my favourites, which are listed on my website.

sbs: If you could choose one celebrity, or well known person to have before you, under your spell, eager to please and to do with as you wish, who would Mistress Alexandra Wildfire select, and why?

MAW: That’s an interesting question and I have to think about it a little. I’m really not that much into celebrities and I don’t tend to follow them. But, I do like Jamie Dornan. I enjoyed seeing him in the film Belfast, and a couple of other things, apart from that awful 50 Shades of Grey, which I’ve never watched and have no intention of doing so. He’s a very good actor and I find him endearing and fine as a person, so it would probably be him. He’s a nice normal guy, so there…I chose someone.

sbs: He would be very lucky to serve you, Mistress Alexandra. For those who are unable to, or not quite ready to serve you in person, what online or distance opportunities are available to worthy submissives wishing to serve you?

MAW: I mostly do real time sessions, although once in a while I will have sessions with my slaves who can’t come serve me, so that is something I would consider. Also, I have a clip store and fan sites where people can view my content, enjoy it and get to know me better that way as well. There are a few opportunities but I mostly do real time with my submissive men.

sbs: I’ve just spent a little time looking through your iWantClips store, and there are some amazing clips you’ve created, Mistress Alexandra. I can’t help but notice that in a number of them, a male slave is having their ass used for your amusement! What is it about strap on pegging that so delights you as a fetish, and how does it feel for you to wield the cock, so to speak?

MAW: Yes, I do have a lot of pegging content and I do like it as one of the things I do most. On my website, there is a special page dedicated to it because I enjoy it so much. What do I like about it? I like the power exchange that it creates and the power dynamic change between genders in general. I like the way it makes my subs feel in that moment, achieving pleasure in a different way. A less common, and more submissive way, and I enjoy being in control of that.

sbs: I have often said, I have never felt more submissive and vulnerable than when restrained, bent over and being pegged by a beautiful Dominatrix. With all that you have already experienced and accomplished as a Domme, what comes next for Mistress Alexandra? Is there anything left on your Dominatrix bucketlist, so to speak?

MAW: I’m trying to buy a property, so that’s on my bucket list. I’d love a place to have my studio so that’s on my list to do.

sbs: You deserve whatever you desire, Mistress Alexandra Wildfire. Thank you so much for the privilege of this interview with you. For those reading this feature, falling under your spell with every answer, as I am, what advice might you offer them to ensure they make the very best first impression on you as they offer their servitude and submission?

MAW: The best first impression is made when a sub has read my website and can follow a booking order just the way I want it. And once that is achieved, I’m already quite happy, so when they come to see me, everything will go smoothly from that point onward. Of course, when they arrive at my studio, most of my subs are rather nervous, especially ones who are novices and have not seen me before. So, sometimes it is difficult for them to think about how to impress me as a result of being nervous and overwhelmed. For a session, it all boils down to being on time, responding respectfully to what I say when we have a chat prior to the session and then they can begin to impress me for real as the session begins. That’s when I truly love to be impressed by my subs!

sbs: Well I hope that during this interview I might have impressed you with my servitude, Mistress Alexandra. For my final question, if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling obediently as you answered each of my questions, leaving me more and more spellbound for you, how might such an interview conclude?

MAW: With you on your knees as the interview ended, perhaps, if Mistress was satisfied with your performance, I might allow you to worship me a little bit. You see, I do enjoy being worshiped by my slaves a lot. Worship is always a nice reward when necessary, and punishment if they don’t perform as I wish. And as you mentioned pegging so excitedly earlier, that too could be included in your reward lol. Remember, pegging is one of Mistress’ favourite things!