Deliciously seductive, disarmingly sensual, Mistress Lola Ruin is the Temptress of your dreams and nightmares. There is no resisting this redhead Siren anything she demands of you. Your resistance will collapse, your ego will be devoured. Welcome to the world of a woman so beautiful and powerful she’ll consume your soul. Are you ready to be a good boy for Mistress?
Bossy From The Beginning
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this very lucky slaveboy on his knees before the breathtaking redhead Temptress herself, Mistress Lola Ruin. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and thank you for this opportunity to bow before you and look up at you from the floor. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Lola Ruin: I’m thrilled to be featured in DommeAddiction. Let’s give your readers a peek into my world of sensual domination! I can honestly say that controlling men has always come easy to me. Now as a Mistress with 15 years of experience, it has become as natural as breathing to me. You know how cliche it is for people to joke about Dommes being called ‘bossy’ as kids? Well, in my case, it’s a delicious truth. Once I realized I could turn my assertiveness and feminist ideals into a career where I’m the one calling the shots, I never looked back. I’m in my element, always in control, and still loving every second of it!
Bringing a Vampire To His Knees
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MLR: In reality, my life is a delicious blend of contrasts. I’m a fiercely independent and unapologetic control enthusiast. I am convinced that women are the superior sex and that most men require a firm hand to guide them…. All things that have served me well as a Dominatrix. But outside of my play space, I’m a fairly wholesome hippy at heart… I adore getting my hands dirty gardening, foraging, long leisurely walks, yoga, and getting lost in a good book. By prioritizing self-care and nurturing my own desires, I’m able to show up even more dominant and mercilessly cruel for my submissives. It’s a beautiful balance.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
MLR: Right now, I am completely crushing on Lestat de Lioncourt! My dear friend Mistress Pomf and I have been indulging in a marathon binge of the latest ‘Interview With A Vampire’ series. And I confess, we’re obsessed. I love the idea of a double Domme session, where we bring this flamboyant, cruel, bratty vampire to his knees, submitting to our every whim. We would have great fun. And let’s be real, those cheekbones don’t hurt either…
Mistress Expects Complete Surrender
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect Mistress Lola slave”?
MLR: My ideal submissive would be someone who’s not just obedient, but truly gets the thrill of submission. They’d be all in. Ready to follow my lead, but also savvy enough to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication. What really gets me excited, though, is when our deepest desires line up perfectly. I’m talking about the kind of play that sends shivers down both our spines. The sweet torture of orgasm control, the maddening tease of edging, the beautiful surrender of chastity. And yes, even the delightful wickedness of ruined orgasms. Those are the experiences that really make my pulse race.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist? Or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MLR: I’ve yet to meet a submissive who’s perfectly attuned to my desires right from the start. Every Mistress has her own unique approach, and I’m no exception. Even experienced submissives need to adapt to my specific style and expectations. It’s a process of refinement, really. And for those who think they can resist my charms or play games? Well, let’s just say I have ways of dealing with that. I’m not interested in defiance or power struggles. What I demand is complete surrender. Those unwilling to give it will find themselves missing out on quite an experience.
Deliciously Sadistic Orgasm Control
sbs: In looking through your Twitter, it is obvious that using your beauty and power to completely weaken slaves is a recurring theme in many of your tweets and clips. Would you consider yourself more of a sensual teasing Domme? Or are you more sadistic and cruel, and do you have any specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
MLR: I’m unabashedly a teasing, sensual Dominant. There’s nothing I enjoy more than crafting an intricate tapestry of seduction and control that leaves my submissives utterly spellbound. While I’m certainly skilled with more sadistic implements like a whip or a cane, even my most intense sessions have a certain… meditative quality to them. I’m not really about brute force or cruelty for its own sake.
That said, my true sadistic side really comes out during orgasm control sessions. I’ve discovered that denying my submissives the release they so desperately crave is a far more exquisite form of torture than any physical pain I could inflict. It’s a form of psychological torment that’s simply unmatched. Of course, a little pain could always be a delightful seasoning – a sharp contrast to the frustration as they writhe helplessly under my control.
Anticipation & Satisfaction
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MLR: There’s something truly intoxicating about holding a submissive’s devotion in the palm of my hand. Watching them tremble with the desire to please me never gets old. It’s a fascinating paradox – a feeling that’s both familiar and thrilling at the same time. Even after all these years, it still gives me goosebumps. I’d describe it as the perfect cocktail of anticipation and satisfaction. While I’ve come to expect this level of submission, given my experience and expertise, it never fails to give me an exhilarating rush. That surge of power and dominance is simply addictive, a reminder of why I love what I do.
sbs: Of all the amazing clips you have created, is there one that you would point to that every submissive reading this feature must buy immediately to begin their addiction to your hot content, Mistress Lola?
MLR: It’s so hard to choose as my back catalogue is quite extensive now, but I’d like to recommend my ‘Superman Trilogy I’, a sizzling collection of my first three clips that showcase my mastery of editing and Cosplay.
Creative & Unrestrained
And, of course, my infamous ‘FemDom New World Order‘ series. Imagine a mythical future where women have rightfully taken their place as the dominant sex, and all men have been reduced to mere submissives and pets. It’s a fantasy come true, and I get to play with it in the most creative and unrestrained way possible!
However, I understand that this might be a bit too niche for some of your audience… So, for your readers who crave something a little more traditional, I have a treasure trove of orgasm control instructional videos that are sure to satisfy. I recommend checking out my recent hit, ‘Cruel Ruining‘. It’s sure to leave you begging for more… or maybe I say, begging for mercy?
Do Your Research
sbs: For potential slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MLR: I am actually in the process of putting the finishing touches to a blog on this very topic, as it’s so essential to make a good impression if you want to avoid being dismissed…
So, I’ll give you the takeaway as a sneak peek: do your research! Make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into and show that you’re knowledgeable about MY world of FemDom. It’s not just about throwing yourself at my feet (although that’s certainly a great start); it’s about showing respect and a willingness to learn, showing an understanding of my unique style of Domination, showing an appreciation of my body of work.
And my final tip… a small token of your appreciation in the form of a gift, no matter how extravagant or small, can go a long way in getting you on my good side!
Tantalizing Content to Captivate
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
MLR: Oh, I’m so glad you asked! I’d love for my devoted worshipers to know that their adoration is truly appreciated. Your worship fuels my dominance and inspires me to create even more tantalizing content. Speaking of which, if you’re eager to experience more of my captivating domination, I highly recommend visiting my IWC store. There, you’ll find an exquisite collection of clips that will leave you weak at the knees and begging for more.
My IWC store is a treasure trove of Femdom delights, from sensual tease and denial sessions to intense orgasm control experiences. Whether you’re a longtime admirer or new to my world of domination, there’s something there to satisfy every submissive craving. And remember, every purchase is not just a token of your devotion, but also supports your Goddess in creating more deliciously dominant content.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I lose myself in your striking beauty and irresistible power, how might such an interview conclude?
MLR: If we were doing this interview face-to-face, with you kneeling before me, looking up at me with that mix of awe and submission, I think it’s only fair we’d end things with a little…demonstration of my power.
Ruining This Interviewer Forever!
Picture it: My voice is smooth as silk, full of tempting promises, as I guide you through a journey of exquisite, orgasm controlled torment. You can’t help but follow along, even as you realize you’re walking right into my trap.
And just when you think you’re about to reach that blissful peak, I snatch it away, leaving you trembling and whimpering. You beg for release, plead for mercy, but it’s too late. The deed is done… as a ruined orgasm trickles out, leaving you utterly unsatisfied!
So yes… if this interview were happening in person, I think it’s only fitting we’d wrap it up with a ruined orgasm. Anything less would be practically criminal. 😈
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