slaveboysmith: Even for those who don’t think they want to, you have a knack for pushing buttons and triggering a breaking of barriers when it comes to coerced bi. What is it about having men weaken enough to suck cock and “go gay” for you excites, amuses and arouses you?
Goddess Valentina Fox: I love breaking barriers and pushing societal norms, so to take a “straight” man who has been conditioned his whole life to be “manly” and only think about pussy, put him on his knees, and make him beg to take cock for me instead….. UGH! It’s just so arousing to see my power and the urges I’m able to awaken in people. It’s usually especially entertaining when it’s new for them because they are so humiliated by it!
sbs: Your beauty is truly overwhelming, but I will confess, your gorgeous face is what first caught my eye! Is it common for men, and likely some women, to stop in awe of how pretty you are, or to comment in such a way? How does it feel knowing that when you walk into the room, every eye is on you, Goddess?
GVF: Pretty much everywhere I go, I get stares, even when I’m completely bundled up. I tend to have that “striking” effect on both men and women, and I get everyone’s attention when I walk into a room. I’ve always had fun experimenting with the power in my beauty, melting men and women alike from across a bar, and calling them over to me with a wink. I am told often I am captivating.
sbs: You took total control of my cock for 150 agonizing days, and it was life-changing for me. I’ve never experienced such desperation! What can you share with our readers about how you use orgasm denial to control your pets and what it takes for a slave to “earn” an orgasm with Goddess Valentina?
GVF: Pure selflessness is the only thing in my mind that deserves an orgasm. Sacrificing money, time, and your own physical urges, to suffer for me. Most men jerk and cum WAY too frequently. All men must be trained, completely rewired, and orgasms are the key. As you well know, the longer a man goes without orgasms, the more frantic and desperate he becomes to do whatever I demand. Taking control of a man’s cock simultaneously crushes his ego, he is no longer in control of his “manhood”. I prefer chastity above anything, but mental chastity and forcing slaves to edge endlessly is another level or torturous fun! I love to know that I truly control my slaves, and I don’t feel any slave is truly submitting to his Mistress while remaining in control of his own orgasms.
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sbs: What does it take to convert a man who is aroused and weak for you into a dutiful paying Findom addict? Is it always obvious to you when they reach that breaking point where they are no longer paying for their arousal but aroused by their paying?
GVF: Slaves vary. Some men come to me begging me to take everything from them, physically, financially, and emotionally. Those tend to be the one’s who already understand and accept their place. Other’s come to me unsure of why they are paying at first, or maybe they understand the value of my time, but paying for it does not arouse them. This changes when they understand that the only real way that they can serve Me, and contribute to My life is financially. I enjoy training slaves to be aroused by my power, success, and the exciting possibility that they can be a part of it as well. I can always tell when a slave is fully mine and money is no longer a thought in their mind. My wants, and needs always come first.
sbs: Your power over a submissive is electric, and dangerous. From a Findom perspective, how do you know where the line is between hurting them financially and training them deeper into Findom, vs breaking them too far and losing them completely?
GVF: I treat slaves differently depending on how they approach me. Some slaves I do drain hard and fast, without a care for them, and then they are tossed. These are slaves that I find to be self serving, and that kind of slave won’t last long with me anyways. Often times, they do end up coming back for more once they’ve recovered and often my flippant attitude towards them entices them to ask how they can earn a permanent slave position. With my slaves who approach respectfully, who genuinely seem to want to serve ME, better my life, and support all of my ventures, I am much more gentle with my training. With slaves I expect to stick around, I want growth for them.
Owning slaves with massive amounts of debt does nothing for me. I usually end up coaching my submissives on their spending habits, training them to work harder, look for more earning opportunities, and often times improving their financial situation, and helping them out of previous debts. I want them to make more and do better so that they can serve me to their fullest potential. Being a finsub is an honor, directly contributing to my success, and being a part of my growth is a very special opportunity that should not be taken lightly.
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