“I’m going to leave my mark on you… one way or another!” – Goddess Adelinde Desade
She is seductive, darkly sensual & completely alluring. You will feel her power, you will fall under her spell. Throughout this interview, I was spellbound by her responses and I truly enjoyed the opportunity to interview this amazing Dominatrix. She, like so many of us, is eagerly looking forward to returning to in person sessions for those deserving slaves. And believe me, once she sinks her claws into you, you’re Hers!
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling at the feet of the beautiful Goddess Adelinde Desade, a woman who promises to leave her mark on all men before her, one way or the other. That is both arousing and terrifying Goddess! Welcome to DA and please be gentle!
Goddess Adelinde: Such a pleasure to be part of this, and I will try to be as gentle as possible but I cant promise!
sbs: Of course…and part of me deep down doesn’t want that anyways lol. Let me begin by asking you about how your journey began and what it was that drew you to Femdom.
GA: Well that is a long story, but I will try to make it short! My journey started over 7 years ago, when I joined the adult industry as a cam girl. I knew nothing about BDSM or fetishes, but what makes it funny for me every time I go back in time is that I was attracting a lot of submissives both in my online work and in my private life, and I was just doing what I was feeling. And I was good at it! Later I started to learn more and more about BDSM and I figured that my aura was what attracted all the submissives to me. And I was loving the power and all the control I was having over men. And here I am today with a perverse need for power and a guilty pleasure of having men at my feet!
sbs: Indeed…and is it just men who submit to you? And is that submission in person when possible as well as online?
GA: Well I am bisexual, so I don’t have only men at my feet. I had a few lovely kittens (as I like to call my female subs). I enjoy it online as much as in person. But let’s be honest, it’s way more fun in person than online. But lately due to this world wide situation I had to stick to online. I do miss the in person fun with my subs, but it is what it is for now! We need to put safety first!
sbs: Absolutely and hopefully you’ll have eager boys and kittens on their knees before you very soon. Are there favourite fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring, and does that differ depending on the type of session you are having?
GA: Yes, I have a few fetishes I enjoy the most. But before naming them I have to say I am a sadist. I just love inflicting pain in any possible way. From impact play to mental torture. But beside that I enjoy foot fetish, CBT, smoking fetish, sissification, tease and denial. But rarely I enjoy other fetishes as well, and that is due to the type of chemistry I have with my boys. I get inspired by my subs, each having a different personality awakens a different beast in me (as I like to say). So that makes each session different and unique.
sbs: How does it feel in that moment, a slave on their knees before you, perhaps nervously anticipating what they are about to experience with you. That must be an intoxicating feeling for you as a Domme.
GA: Ohh yes. It is very intoxicating to see a slave on his knees willing to do anything to please. All that adrenaline rush, a little fear lingering on my sub, nervously shaking due to the anticipation is very empowering, gives me a strong power trip and I just want more. Having the sub at my mercy is very addicting. I would say a very strong drug for me.
sbs: I can imagine it must be something to behold for the submissive as well. What are the ideal traits of anyone who wishes to submit to you and become yours? What is the “ideal” Goddess Adelinde slave like, and what should we all aspire to?
GA: That is a very good question. I have never made the portrait of an ‘ideal’ slave, but as you asked there are a few traits that are a must have: the willingness to surrender ( I never liked forced things, I enjoy seducing my subs into submission, getting deep under their skin), a pinch of masochism (if not more, as inflicting pain is a very strong aphrodisiac for me), deep self-awareness ( because is very important to know yourself and your needs), also the sub should understand the meaning of trust, which is very important in D/s relationships.
If you really want to serve me and be mine, you need to understand that my trust is earned. And, of course, the sub needs to have clear boundaries, because for me it was always a turn off to hear that someone has no limits. That is not healthy, and most of the time it never works. From my point of view it’s important to have a chemistry between the dominant and submissive, and fetishes in common. Of course there can always be an open door to explore new things, but at the beginning it’s important to have things in common, and go from there. These would the most important things I am looking for in a submissive that is applying to be my slave.
sbs: You mentioned that both men and women submit to you, so let me ask you this: if you could choose one male and one female celebrity to be on their knees before you, willing and eager to do whatever it takes to please you, willing to surrender completely, who would you choose, and why?
GA: Well I am not a huge fan of celebrities, but to answer to your question if I would have to choose a female I would go for Maria Brink, the singer from In This Moment, one of my favourite bands. Why? Well she gives me this vibe of a dark wicked vixen, and I would totally love to make her mine. And a male celebrity… pff this is a hard one because it really should have something special to spark my interest…
I keep digging in my brain for a male celebrity but the only one that comes to my mind is Chriss Cerulli from motionless in white (yup, I know I like heavy stuff). Why Chriss? I think it’s because he seems quite dominant from outside in attitude and presence, but something makes me wanna see him with a leash around his neck following my every order and fulfilling my every desire like a good boy.
sbs: I apologize for such a challenging question, and my nervousness has just amped up…I would never want to displease Goddess :). How has the recent pandemic impacted you as a Dominatrix, and how have you perhaps expanded your online availability methods for eager slaves to serve you?
GA: Ohh don’t worry, I do enjoy a challenge. About the pandemic…it was pretty hard for me, not only as a Dominatrix, but outside of it as well. It’s been pretty difficult for the subs as well, affecting everybody mentally and financially. But I did my best trying to be online as much as I could both for my eager slaves and my greedy needs. But I am still human so I needed my mental breaks, I have to put myself first. I tried to avoid the madness that was taking over the world and lock myself in my virtual dungeon enjoying quality time with my slaves, and it helped for some time. I just hope everything is going to get back to at least close to normal if not completely normal soon because I do miss the in person fun.
sbs: It has definitely been a challenge and yes, nothing quite compares to the sting of the whip, the fullness of a strapon as it slides deeper than you could have dreamed, and the smell of leather and arousal. For those unable to see you in person, or not yet ready, what type of distance/online domination avenues do you offer Goddess Adelinde?
GA: I need to mention something, my personal toys (as I call the slaves that have the honour to serve me in person) are very few and unique. The rest of the subs that I am playing with online are mostly sticking to the online environment. First because it’s pretty hard to prove to me your worth to be part of my closed circle. Second due to multiple factors, one would be that I am very very picky when it comes to who gets to feel my power and wickedness on their skin for real. So in the online area I am offering Skype sessions and lately I’ve been thinking of opening a fan page so my subs would enjoy more content and engagement with me.
sbs: It’s only reasonable that a slave must prove themselves worthy of an audience before a woman like you Goddess Adelinde. Speaking of which, thank you for the privilege of this interview today. For those reading this, falling under your spell as I have, what advice might you offer to them to ensure they make the very best first impression when approaching you?
GA: The pleasure was mine. I totally loved it. And the advice I would give to all the subbies out there, just be yourself, don’t try to be something else and be willing to suffer and sacrifice for my pleasure!
sbs: I’m so glad the interview pleased you Goddess Adelinde. Being in your presence is truly intoxicating if only virtually. With that said, if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling at your feet in your dungeon as I nervously asked my questions, how might such an interview conclude?
GA: Oh well, I am delighted to hear that. And the only thing I will say is that such an interview would conclude with at least a kiss on the tip of my shoes. I won’t say more, I will just let your imagination run wild.
