RIP Femdom_Glamour
As is all so often the case in this online world, the person behind the keyboard, beyond the handle, is unknown to us for the most part. Recently, in a heart-wrenching tweet from the amazing Goddess Poison, many of us learned that we had lost someone that had become an integral part of our online life of promotion and servitude to beautiful Femdom Women. On Twitter, he was @Femdom_Glamour, and I regret that I didn’t know him beyond that name, beyond the DM’s regularly and shared admiration for promoting Femdom content and the extraordinary women that produce it.
Fortunately, Goddess Poison’s much closer connection to him afforded us some measure of closure as we didn’t just have him disappear, never knowing what became of him. His passing will certainly leave behind a hole in terms of online promotion, but more than that, as you will read, Femdom_Glamour formed memorable and close connections with a great number of Dommes that will be feeling this loss…none more so than Goddess Poison herself. RIP my friend, my colleague and online confidante. You will be missed…
slaveboysmith: Recognizing that this is both painful and cathartic for you, Goddess Poison, your video tribute to Femdom_Glamour on Twitter lately let a number of us know about his tragic passing. What made you decide to put this video out, and how difficult must it have been for you to stay composed as you did knowing what he meant to you?
Goddess Poison: Thank you slaveboy. Femdom_Glamour and I spoke every day for 2-3 years. We had recently had concerns about his health and so conversations were had about his well-being, and when I woke up on the 6th of March without any messages from him, I knew something had happened. I spent the next two days in utter turmoil not knowing what had happened but knowing he wasn’t okay. It’s these two days of distress that influenced Me to reach out to Twitter to inform you all of his passing a few days after I had confirmation. There are many Women and also many slaves that he helped/supported. I didn’t want any of his connections here to feel as I did, or to think he had abandoned/ignored them. I felt it was the right thing to do so that we could all send him the best wishes in this next stage of his soul journey.
sbs: How did you first come into contact with Femdom_Glamour, and what was your original relationship like as a Domme and her submissive?
GP: Femdom_Glamour initially reached out to Me as a slave. He was very respectful, very generous and honestly the kind of man any Domme would be lucky to have. He worshiped Me but also gave Me excellent advice. He found Me at the beginning of My clip career and saw huge potential in My mesmerising skills. It was because of him that I went down the mesmerise path which eventually led Me to the successful Mind fuck career I have now. My highest selling clip ever was the first one he suggested that I make- “Programmed To Serve”. Even though I released that clip late in the year, it ranked top ten best selling clips for the entire year. He loved My lips and he also loved My voice. He suggested I use audio in My previews which also helped lots. He was full of amazing guidance and really wanted to help Me shine. I owe a lot of My success to him.
sbs: Clearly at some point, the dynamic of the relationship changed. How did the relationship evolve, and how did Femdom Glamour impact your personal life?
GP: Originally we were Domme/sub. It was based on a lot of respect, kindness and admiration. I trusted him and allowed his guidance/experience to help shape My career. He was very different than the others and I didn’t want him calling Me Goddess or Poison, it didn’t feel right from him, so I told him he was to call Me Princess. That felt more suited to our dynamic, and he did call Me Princess ever since. It’s something I miss hearing every day from him.
I think that his utter respect and gentleman vibe, along with calling Me Princess helped change the relationship. We also had a crazy connection that I’ve never experienced before. For example, if I had a tooth ache, I would say to him “My upper right back tooth is killing Me today” and he would send Me back a message to say “I literally had that exact tooth pulled out this morning!” Or I had a lump in My lip one day and he sent Me a picture of a cigarette burn he had in the same place from the night before. We were always in some weird energetic entanglement and I loved it. However, also, his Mum got very sick, she was dying and he was caring for her. He was going through a lot and I could relate to it from My own Mum dying. So we bonded a lot more over that time period, even more so than we had done previously. My level of support towards him through that time gained another level of respect from him and I saw more of his soul. He naturally became My Daddy and I was his daughter, his Princess. He often expressed his gratitude for My support in his life and for always being there for him when he needed it. Whether he had money or not, I was consistent and loving in his life and he was in Mine too, even when I was a nightmare. I think we were soul mates. I truly know we are connected even now.
Femdom_Glamour impacted My life in many ways but the most important of all was his consistency and support. My biological dad was an abusive evil man and it’s been over a decade since I spoke to him. I never knew a consistent male figure to be in My life. This is what Femdom_Glamour gave Me. He gave Me the love and respect that a real dad gives. He stuck with Me through My good and bad decisions and he supported Me emotionally. He has left Me knowing exactly what characteristics to look for in a man too.
sbs: In addition to the roles he played for you, Goddess Poison, Femdom Glamour was also a promoter of other Dommes and a devoted supporter of your initiative, The Poison Academy. What type of promo did he do and who are some of the Dommes he truly enjoyed promoting in his role as a submissive?
GP: The Poison Academy was born through wanting to eradicate the unnecessary hate between Females in this industry. I want to see true Female supremacy. This was a common interest that we both had. He was supporting Women from the other side of the fence though. He was SO proud of The Poison Academy. He was so full of awe and admiration for My generosity and help that I provide to so many Women, of all backgrounds. He would always look out for girls that had potential and get Me to guide them.
He had many special Women through the time I knew him, however more recently, he told Me that he wanted to pay for Miss Grace and Goddess Kate Alexis to be mentored by Me when My next enrollment started. Since his passing, I have reached out to these amazing Women that he spoke so highly about and I have offered them free mentorship and free studio time with Me in his memory.
He also recently mentioned Goddess Penelope, Goddess Jadah and Goddess Kym Sanders too. All Women that he loved and respected greatly. He served two of My TPA girls before they joined Me too – Asian Barbie and Mischa Goldy. In fact, Asian Barbie sent Me a screenshot of some messages he sent her recently, I’ll attach an image.
sbs: He leaves a big hole in the online Femdom community, in addition to the many relationships he formed during his time as a promotional slave. As the person who knew him best, was closest with him, and viewed him so fondly, how would you describe the legacy Femdom_Glamour leaves behind with his sudden passing?
GP: The legacy that Femdom_Glamour leaves behind is one of true support. Of true gentleman energy, of Women uniting too. Through his passing, I am now in touch with the Ladies he wanted to be mentored and I’ll make sure they succeed. He wanted us to shine so I will make sure that we do. He had such a big beautiful heart and I know that everyone who he served felt it. It’s also been a huge reminder to many that we are always dealing with souls, with humans, and we should remember that often too. I will do many good things in his name, already I have many plans, so watch this space – he lives on through Me.
sbs: Thank you for sharing your insight and personal experiences today Goddess Poison. Any final words to those who knew Femdom Glamour and for those who did not have the chance to before he left us far too soon?
GP: I am honoured to be able to share the news about him, because it shows the level of connection that we had. Although deeply sad, it’s also another reminder of how deep our bond was. That I was privileged to know him this well. To be a trusted person. To be his family and treated as such even after his passing.
You know, I have a story actually. When he didn’t message Me, I knew something was wrong. On the Monday, I had an appointment in London, and I cried the whole way because I knew he had gone, but there was one certain moment. I went into a room and the lights started flickering, electrical sounds too, it was like time stopped for a moment and suddenly I looked to the wall beside Me. There was no graffiti anywhere else apart from the one patch of wall that I was drawn to. The graffiti said “BYE”. I looked up and knew it was him. As tears rolled down My cheeks I could feel that he had gone. And that day I had the confirmation by the police call.
I am blessed to have known him and anyone else that knew him felt the same. He’s an amazing man and I hope this serves as a reminder of the connections we make being very real and a part of a much bigger story in life. Thank you all for reading. If anyone has any stories they’d like to share or any screenshots of times he’s mentioned Me, I’d love to see. A reminder to all – that beneath everything, Dommes are human and slaves are human too. Thank you slaveboysmith, and THANK YOU DADDY FOR BEING YOU. I LOVE YOU AND I’LL MAKE YOU PROUD Xx
