TS Mistress Mia is an experienced and trusted Transexual Mistress based in Dallas Texas USA.
She’s been safely and sanely performing successful in person domination sessions in her well equipped play space for more than a decade!
In person sessions involving bondage, toy play, popper play, sissy training and sensual latex worship ignite her erotic desires! She delicately incorporates her own unique brand of seduction, teasing, domination and control into every custom session to “seal the deal” like no one else can!
Terms like Mistress, Dominatrix, and Pro Domme seem very broad reaching… Kinky Minx, Latex Queen, Titillating Tease, Transformation Artist, Slut Mentor, and Sissy Trainer also seem to fit her style well!
On a more physical note, TS Mistress Mia is a “pre-op male-to-female transsexual”. This means she has male genitalia but she identifies emotionally and psychologically as a female in every other way. A few minutes in person with her and you’ll see just how natural and feminine she truly is. Most subs notice that apprehension and nervousness fall away and turn into excitement faster than they can say “yes Mistress”!
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy kneeling before the amazing TS Mistress Mia, and I will say that her long legs encased in latex and her sky high heels leave no doubt of who is in charge! Welcome to DA, beautiful Mistress, and thank you for the privilege of this audience before you.
TS Mistress Mia: You’re very welcome slaveboy, I’m as happy to be here as you are.
sbs: Thank you Mistress Mia. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of what drew you to the world of Femdom, your experiences along the way and what has made you the irresistible woman you are today.
TSMM: I wasn’t necessarily drawn to the world of Femdom in the traditional sense, the desire has always been there but whether or not I recognized it is another story. In the 90’s I was more interested in the underground fetish/club scene than anything else. I was a DJ and party organizer for many years and still dabble in it to this day when I get the chance.
The fetish events I attended, DJ’d at, or organized sometimes had Mistresses in attendance, and sometimes they would perform. I was always intrigued by them, partly because of their classy demeanor and partly because of the fetish style they seemed to wear so effortlessly.
Fast forward to 2008, a sex worker friend of mine who I hadn’t spoken to or seen in years called out of the blue and asked me if I wanted to “help” her with a job, a sexy job lol! She did body rubs out of her apartment and had several clients asking for kinky things she didn’t offer. That’s where it all started and I haven’t looked back since! A little known fun fact is that I still see the first client that I saw back then… “Awesome Jeff” is a regular client to this day!
sbs: It’s not difficult to imagine that once a submissive has experienced submitting to you, they would be hooked, Mistress. Can you describe how it feels for you, in that moment, a slave kneeling before you, perhaps trembling nervously as they hear your heels click as you approach…that kind of power must be amazing!
TSMM: I think you described it well, but it’s extremely difficult for me to answer this question without writing 100 pages on the subject. I can best describe the feeling for me as something like waiting in line to get on a roller coaster, nervousness and excitement, apprehension and anticipation, compelling and fascinating, thrilling and arousing all at once!
sbs: It only seems fair that you find it thrilling and arousing because I’m sure the slave trembling in your presence is completely overwhelmed. Are there particular fetishes you enjoy exploring more than others with your slaves, and any that are off limits?
TSMM: I enjoy most if not all fetishes, I do have a few favorites though. Personally, I like my clothing to be tight and shiny, latex seems to fit that bill nicely but PVC is great too (it’s more breathable). I like high heels and corsets too, they give me a more “powerful” feeling in a very feminine way. There’s something about being fully clothed in extravagant and extremely sexy clothing while my sub or slave is completely (or close to) naked! I think that fetish is called CFNM but I’m not sure what the acronym would be for a trans person lol.
As for fetishes that are off limits… that’s a bit tricky. There were a few things that I considered off limits when I first started but it seems that I am more and more drawn to those “taboo” things now more than ever. Breath play was a no no at first, but now I love it! I use my sexy latex gloved hand to achieve states unattainable any other way…
sbs: As one who is kneeling before you and seeing you dressed spectacularly in latex and extending that sexy gloved hand, it’s easy to see that your slaves would feel that power you hold over them intensely. Can you share a little about how your being a TS Domme impacts the type of sessions you do, the type of slaves you see and your experience as a Domme?
TSMM: I’d say that being a TS Domme has little to no impact on me or my clients. In my experience a session with me is similar to or the same as a session with a Female Domme. There are a few exceptions though. I’m very tall, around 6’4″ without heels on so that can be a bit intimidating at first for new subs and slaves, but once they get used to it they looooove it. I’m stronger than a genetic female and can “manhandle” subs in a way that’s very erotic, feminine but strong, some describe it as “comforting” and it allows them to “let go” easier.
I’d say that my style is more physical than mental though. I will definitely get into your head but not like a Female Domme can, they are much better at it than I am. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, and I play to my strengths and it serves me well. I know what you’re really asking and yes, I have a cock between my legs, yes it does work and yes I do get excited during sessions! Talk about tease and denial! I use this physical attribute to my advantage every chance I get, mainly as a fun mental game versus physical reality. It’s more about the fantasy of it with most clients, a big hard throbbing fantasy lol!
sbs: A big hard throbbing fantasy…oh my! My first session with a TS Domme was something like that as she allowed the tease of what was in her panties to consume me. I recall noticing a bulge and her arousal as she spanked me and how it made me want to take more to see just how much pleasure I could bring her. Is it always about denial, or do you sometimes allow slaves to earn the privilege of worshiping you?
TSMM: I love being worshiped and there are many fun and exciting ways an “eager” sub can accomplish that.
sbs: I’m sure you do an amazing job of building the tension, fanning the flames until there is nothing a slave won’t do for the privilege of worshiping you any way you demand of them. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person kneeling before you, eager to please, willing to obey your every command and serve you in any way you desire, who would you choose, and why?
TSMM: Honestly the cult of celebrity does nothing for me… contrary to popular belief, celebrities are people, talented people, but absolutely real human beings with feelings and desires. Time spent with me is precious, it’s time that you can just be yourself, your true self, no matter who or what you are in the outside world.
sbs: I’m sure once you have them kneeling before you in your dungeon, anyone is just a regular person and subservient to your wishes. How has the pandemic impacted you as a Domme? Have you focused more on online/distance domination, and if so, what type of opportunities to serve you are there for those unable to see you for a real time session?
TSMM: The pandemic has had a huge impact on me and my business. Back in late February I had flirted with the idea of continuing to do in person sessions but with masks and updated cleaning measures. I was very early with this and my clients just weren’t ready, and it was a strange feeling for them and for me. The last straw was in the beginning of March where I did three masked sessions in a row with subs I’ve seen for many years, each of them was a disaster and I had panic attacks after every one. I knew then that it wasn’t going to work and knew right then that everything would have to shut down until a safe way to session could be thought of… I have not thought of a safe way yet all these months later.
It’s no secret that I’m not a fan of distance domination, I’m a very hands on “physical” kind of Mistress. There’s been some hesitancy on my part to dive into Skype and phone sessions but I’m slowly coming around. The best way to serve me right now is with a phone session, I’ve really started to enjoy them. Being in my house all day every day gets a bit monotonous so phone calls are a great way to break that monotony up! It’s great to be able to escape into the fetish world again if only for an hour or so.
sbs: Your experiences are eerily similar to another Domme I have spoken to who hoped to take limited sessions and simply found it overwhelming. I’m very sorry you experienced that Mistress. I’m sure many of our readers would be more than willing to help keep you entertained and served via phone until the world reopens and you’re able to sink your claws into them for real. For those aching to serve, what advice would you offer them to ensure they make the best possible first impression in approaching you?
TSMM: I’ve made that pretty easy, everything someone “aching to serve” me would need to know is on my website. A quick read through it will get us on the same page.
sbs: Being on the same page with you sounds intoxicating. Although things are unsettled at the moment, can you share what your plans might look like moving forward? What can those who worship you in person and from afar eagerly anticipate from their Mistress?
TSMM: I’m always hesitant to make plans, but tentatively I’m looking at being back to in person sessions around April 2021. I hope to open back up with some new BDSM furniture and to revamp some of the pieces I already have. I’ve been dreaming up some pretty fun and devious devices!
sbs: It is definitely hard to make plans, but what you have in mind does sound very exciting. I notice in your Twitter feed that you and the very beautiful Miss Tracy Dallas often RT each other’s content. Have you two ever worked together, or have you had the chance to do Double Domme sessions with any other Mistresses?
TSMM: Yes we’re best of friends and work together every chance we get! We share the dungeon space and sometimes go out together to public dungeons and events like the Dallas Fetish Ball! She does Double Domme sessions with other well known Mistresses from around the world. I consider Mistress Tracy to be one of the best Dommes there is. Good looks get them in the door but skill and experience keeps them coming back for more!
sbs: She most assuredly has the looks to turn heads and I can just imagine the fun type of sessions you two get up to. That would be truly overwhelming for any slave. Thank you so much for the privilege of this interview, Mistress, you’ve kept me on edge the entire time with ease. Any final words to our readers who are likely aching for the chance to serve you in any capacity they may?
TSMM: You’re very welcome, I’m happy to hear you enjoyed this! If any readers would like to serve me there are many creative ways to be of service… liking and retweeting my pictures on Twitter is always a fun and easy way to start. I love the surprise amazon gift card here and there, always brightens my day a bit when I get one of those! Loving my content on FetLife helps and I do my best to let people on there know when I’m making public appearances so they can meet me in person (yes I’m a real person)! If you can think of any other ways to serve me until I get back to face to face sessions then please feel free to let me know!
sbs: I’m sure that anything they experience in serving you will only whet their appetite for a real time session that they will never forget eventually. With your permission, may this eager slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature?
TSMM: Yes, what’s the question slave boy?
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I look up your impossibly long legs, overwhelmed to be in your presence, how might such an interview conclude?
TSMM: I would take your chin into my latex gloved hand and pull you closer. I’d softly whisper into your ear “be a good boy and make this feature your best one yet”.
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