You crave something no other Mistress has been able to provide. You have a deep, dark yearning that eats you up inside. I know what you are thinking about every time you masturbate, whenever you wake up, as you fall asleep, and even in your naughtiest dreams.
I am Sadistic Stacy, a professional Dominatrix based out of Seattle, WA. I offer online, and in-person domination experiences of the highest caliber. I’m into a plethora of fetishes, but my biggest request is cock worship. The stature of my womanhood is world renowned. Some of my other favorite kinks include sissification, rough sex, humiliation, CEI, SPH, JOI, chastity, and cuckoldry.
Once you offer yourself to me, I will own your cock, bitch! Your slut mouth will be mine too. Take off your clothes and get on your knees. I’m going to train you to be a dirty little cocksucker. I’m going to put a collar & leash on you, then pass you around to all my friends. Sounds like exactly what you’ve always wanted, doesn’t it slut? Are you ready to offer yourself to me and become my obedient little plaything?
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Sadistic Stacy: I wouldn’t say that it has always been the case, but I have always possessed a certain charisma that tends to attract people. Many people of all genders have told me that I have a sort of ethereal energy that draws them towards me. I think that stems from my desire to be genuine and transparent, and also from having a passion for what I do. People can pick up on that, and it’s something they want to be close to. I have honed my natural ability to control people by attending classes, studying discourse on forums like Fetlife, and reading books like Dale Carnegie’s classic, “How To Win Friends & Influence People”. Some approaches generally work well for all genders, but I’ve come to realize that men are much more emotional than society would have us believe. Controlling a man involves connecting with desires they may not even know they have. Because I often understand men better than they understand themselves, they see my abilities of control as almost magical.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
SS: Yes, I’m dominant in all aspects of my life! I’m a bit of a control freak. I just can’t stand to see other people in charge of things if I know the end result won’t meet my high expectations.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
SS: I’d love to shoot some hot BDSM porn with Bailey Jay. I think working with her is the dream of almost every trans woman that gets into adult modeling. For me, that would be a sign that I’ve “made it to the big time”. She is gorgeous and she’s an icon. As a business person, I really respect how she transitioned from making money for big studios, to going independent and running her own website.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
SS: There are a lot of common traits my slaves possess. Many of them have small penises. They are attracted to me, because mine is so large by comparison. This usually manifests into kinks like humiliation, chastity, cuckoldry, and feminization. A lot of them are interested in feminization regardless of penis size, and I think that has to do with my knowledge of gender, and experience with my own transition. I’m also very tall and fit, so that attracts a lot of short submissives that enjoy being bullied. I have a few finsubs, but financial domination isn’t a very popular kink for me.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
SS: Bratty subs can be a lot of fun. Resistance play is great! A well trained sub is an incredible gift too, and the two types are not always mutually exclusive. Some training can be fun, but the kind of training I have to do with newbies isn’t always pleasant. It involves a lot of education, and unlearning of societal norms. Eager submissives are often disrespectful without intending to be, and that’s not fun for anyone. A lot of the training teaches men how to act like adults, how to talk to a woman like a normal human being, and how to communicate effectively. When another Dominant has already trained a submissive to do these things well, it allows me to jump into the fun part of my job right away. These submissives have the ability to be bratty without being disrespectful. They know what pushes the envelope, and what crosses the line. I don’t mind when these subs resist, because putting them in their place is a lot of fun.
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring with your slaves?
SS: I have a big ego. I love being worshiped, in whatever form that may be. I love being pampered, and treated like a Queen. For that reason, I love all kinds of service subs. If you have a skill or talent that could make my life easier/better, then I want it. Aside from that, I really enjoy things like feminization and forced cum eating. Society puts so much pressure on men to be masculine. It’s really rewarding to see men set aside that way of thinking in order to make me happy. As for the cum eating, it’s something that really puts men in their place. It’s ironic how much men fear the taste of their own cum, while assuming that women should swallow during oral sex. Making them eat their own cum is very humbling, and one of the best ways to increase obedience.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
SS: I think it’s something akin to what an artist or athlete feels when their craft is going well. Everything flows. There isn’t a need to stop and think about what the next move will be, it just happens organically. I feel very connected to the submissive. I can anticipate their next move, and intuit the feelings they’re experiencing.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
SS: People express it differently, but one of the most common signs is “loopiness”. They will start having trouble talking, mixing up words, mumbling, and saying silly things. They may start to make silly mistakes because they are so out of it. I notice a decline in the ability to complete tasks that require active thinking. Their penchant for obedience increases. As submissives go deeper and deeper into sub space, they lose their own personal thoughts and agenda while becoming better listeners. It’s as if they activate a certain part of their brain that is only good for listening and following commands, while the rest of their brain goes quiet.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
SS: No I haven’t. I’m kind of disappointed it hasn’t happened yet, but I do take steps to stay under the radar.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
SS: A good submissive will send a tribute before messaging me. This goes a long way towards building a rapport, and proving sincerity. I like when my submissives have their shit together. A good submissive knows what fetishes they are interested in, can provide references from other Dominants, and has a date/time in mind for their requested session. A good submissive knows when it is time to play, and when it is time to discuss the serious details. A good submissive will not try to engage in D/s dynamics when outside of a designated session, or without prior payment.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
SS: Don’t let your fantasies be fantasies. I see far too many people going through life wishing for something, but failing to take the steps needed to achieve it. I know certain kinks can be intimidating, but once you take the plunge, you’ll be glad that you did. There are so many wonderful things to experience in this world, it would be a shame to end up on your death bed with any regrets. If you would like to explore your submissive desires with me in person, you can contact me at StacySadistic@protonmail.com. If you are still getting your feet wet, and looking for ideas, you should check out my porn: StacySadistic.com.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
SS: We would probably take a selfie together for my Instagram, then I would tell you that you’re dismissed.
