The Bitch you thought was only a fantasy until now…
I was always “Alpha” and independent by nature so my experience as a Cuckoldress, Keyholder, Dominatrix and both a sensual and sexual creature with a big brain comes from my real life experiences. I decided to make my lifestyle my career later in life. Here I am and welcome to my world.
I despise stereotypes especially when it comes to sex and fetishes because no one person is the same. I am great at honing in to your kink. I will allow you to be free sexually when you’re with me. The largest sexual organ is the brain and I know that and use it. Specialties/realities: Cuckoldress, Domme, JOI, CEI, worship, humiliation, financial domination, chasity/keyholding, BDSM, kink.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today, in an interview long overdue, is the extraordinarily beautiful and sexy, Queen Arena Rome. In all that time I was reviewing your amazing clips, and in contact with you, Queen, how did we never arrange a feature? Welcome back to DommeAddiction and it is indeed a privilege and pleasure to kneel before you here today.
Queen Arena Rome: Why thank you, mike, remain on your knees like a good boi for Me. I’m grateful to finally get the chance to take a breather and take another’s breath away… It’s been quite a HELL of a year for Me. I’m just grateful that My subs, slaves and fans have carried Me through these tenuous months.
sbs: I will remain kneeling as long as you wish, Queen Arena. I promise to be a good boy for you the entire time. If it pleases you, may I begin by asking how you got your start in the world of Femdom, and ask you to share with our readers a little about your experiences along the way that have made you the amazing Femdom Queen you are today?
QAR: Good. I was Dominant from an early age. For instance at the age of five I began My first of two official cults that I ran before the age of 18. People (male and female alike) were willing to follow Me and do whatever I said. I would create mantras, rules and activities that they’d gladly participate in while accepting that I was the sole leader. During other points of My younger years, I would easily sniff out weak, older men that I’d tease with the hope of ever having any relationship with Me and since I was under age they’d agree to all of My requests, such as gifts or trips, and any attempts to push forward I’d deny them reminding them of their weakness as well as My being underage. I’m not so proud of having a skill for that, as I look back it was a dangerous game, but I didn’t see it as such when I was so young. I only sought to push the limits of the power play and looked at it all as a game. In high school I got away with most anything. There was a time wherein a classmate (who was a male friend) planned an attack on Me with slander and continued it. he called Me some choice names in the hallway, under his breath, so I took him down physically which he didn’t expect. Long story short, because of My long history of being able to explain the truth of My side of the story so eloquently, I would get affirmation from people such as O/our disciplinarian. That final time was My senior year and instead of being expelled I got to graduate but also got to stay home for the final two plus months and take My final exams only by Myself in one day. Would you like for Me to cite other examples that begin during adulthood?
sbs: I think we should, but perhaps before we move on let me just catch my breath imagining you from such a young age in complete control of the world around you. I think I mentioned at one time to you that I’m a high school teacher and I can only imagine what you were like as a student. My god, you’d have had whatever you wanted in my class that’s for sure! Please continue beautiful Queen. I think you have our readers spellbound with your account…I know I am!
QAR: I’m laughing because I’m a former educator as well as a Mother of four (older children) who thankfully were not like Me in the least, but then again, My former students and My children had the disadvantages of having Me where I can see right through their shenanigans. As an adult it was so easy to spot a weak man and dive right in. I don’t mean weak in every sense of the word but I could (and still can) find the soft spot in the belly to know how to get what I wanted and that was NEVER through using the “fainting couch” technique. I was just fierce and perhaps that’s because My idols growing up were powerful Men. The closest examples to Me were My Dad and My older brother. They were the opposite spectrums of examples though. My Dad was silent and very straightforward type of strong/power. My brother was another story and I won’t go into what all I learned from him, that would kill My parents! But I digress. I could go on forever but I believe this is enough to set the tone for what carried Me naturally into FemDom as a career. I have always utilized My brain, My quick wit and My sense of being acutely aware of who I was surrounded by while navigating through life attracting exactly who and what I wanted into My own world.
sbs: A wise man once told me to never ask a woman her age. That said, you’ve had 4 children and clearly a ton of life experience, yet you rock a bikini, latex or whatever else you wish better than girls half your age. What’s your secret to being so spectacularly fit and beautiful Queen Arena?
QAR: A real Woman doesn’t mind facts. I turned 37 on May 25th of this year. I didn’t birth all four of My children but I will say that My eldest son chose to dance with Me at his wedding this year for the Mother/son dance. That sheds a little light into how the four children view Me and I view them. Now back to being fit? LOL- currently I am very unfit compared to past years. Genetics mainly. I do try when I’m able to eat pretty strictly for reasons that keep Me able to move, lessen inflammation and other “issues” that I have with My body. When I’m able I squat. When I’m REALLY able then I box. I began training to box to compete when I was 20 but I didn’t last long because at that time I lacked discipline. I am thoroughly looking forward to returning to boxing as well as grappling/MMA after a round of physical therapy is in order for Me. I love how I feel when I eat well and My body thanks Me for it. But back to genetics: you’d never guess her age. People still cannot get over how young I look… “I get it from My Momma”! 😉
sbs: Well you look absolutely amazing and I’m sure everywhere you go men are falling over themselves trying to gain your attention. Has it become an expected routine that men will submit to you, or is there still a thrill when you bring a man to his knees, willing to do anything to serve and please you?
QAR: I still find it thrilling, honestly. I am told that I have a powerful presence but I am very down to earth in real life. I love people. I usually garner attention from a magnetic type of draw that I do possess as I am an oxymoron or enigmatic to most.
sbs: I know you drew me in the first interaction we had when I was reviewing an amazing strapon clip you did with Lance Hart. What other fetishes do you particularly enjoy when in session with slaves, or in the making of your clips?
QAR: In My marriage I’m a Cuckoldress so there’s been years of chastity, FLR, humiliation and degradation. In sessions and in filming I love strapon (I’ve been wielding a strapon since I was 15 years old with females), CBT (particularly ballbusting and ball stomping), breath play, boxing/grappling/chokeholds/reverse scissor holds, tease and denial, human furniture, human toiletry, OTK and any form of spanking, caning, whipping… I could go on for days about what I love. Some things I will only do in clips and in personal D/s relationships so My videos will sometimes reflect what I love in real life and emulations of those activities because I never cross the line in a session. The dungeon is a sacred space where My latex, leather or lingerie leave you longing for more but you’d never EVER experience in real time. That’s where some men get confused when contacting Me regarding sessions.
I should mention My first sessions while on the subject matter! I found a man online before I even began doing this for a living where he was enamored with My personality. I’d allow him to treat Me to large meals and he’d just sit back and enjoy the conversations W/we would have as he’d never met a Woman that could disagree with him yet match and surpass his intelligence. W/we met five times and then after lunch I’d bring him to whatever place I wanted clothing from and just load up on whatever I wanted. He’d never even question the amount at the register. Fast forward two years later and I had My first pro-session. It was a guy who was into feminization and humiliation in My city that couldn’t find a Pro-Domme to serve… W/we met online then had a consultation over coffee. After giving him My price I arrived at My first session with My first sissy/fem boi who was humiliated and denied by Me. That’s when I realized this was for Me outside of My lifestyle experiences as a Domme.
sbs: Anything a slave experiences with you is a privilege, Queen Arena. Wow…that is some kind of list of kinks and fetishes. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, in your dungeon, eager to obey your every command, willing to do anything you desired with you, who would it be, and why?
QAR: Let Me go with something not controversial. Lol… Conor McGregor. Why? Simply put because he’s not fit to be placed in a choke by Me so it wouldn’t take him long to tap and gag his loud mouth. Any one with that much faux machismo also needs to experience a deep pounding of his ass with My strapon while gagged and bound then left to quiver in a real cage for the night.
sbs: Oh my! If that’s you not being controversial, I can only imagine where this could have gone lol. Safe to say his strapon training wouldn’t be tender and gentle like some of your amazing work, Queen?
QAR: No, this would be nothing like some of My FLR or prostate milking videos. This would be likened to a brutal takedown without lube for the boisterous, wee Irishman! I’d have the best of times and he’d at least be the recipient of another belt: a male chastity belt!
sbs: OMG…I’m going to guess that might scare him more than any of his MMA competitors! Wow! I’m not sure how I recover from that and formulate another question, but I’ll try lol. When you have a slave at that breaking point, willing to do anything to please you and surrendering completely, is there a “tell” that lets you know you own them in that moment?
QAR: It’s a quiver and lowering in his voice that makes any response to Me inaudible wherein I must command him to speak up so that I may understand the response to My prompts.
sbs: You’re bringing back some very fond memories with that response, Queen Arena. I remember being virtually unable to speak in session when I reached that point at times in the past. What about from your perspective? What is the feeling that surges through you when you have a slave so vulnerable and exposed and eager to serve?
QAR: It’s an absolute thrill and an honor. That is the truth in submission because it shows the shift of power. If one has zero power then there is no submission. That’s the basis and the point at which the subject becomes a sub.
sbs: That sounds like the perfect feeling for a Queen. The idea of bringing you that kind of pleasure truly appeals to the submissive in all of us. So what comes next for you Queen? Anything upcoming that your admirers should be eagerly anticipating?
QAR: I’m a Queen of mystery so you’ll just have to be good boys and keep an eager eye out for what comes next.
sbs: I wouldn’t expect Queen will be resting on her previous accomplishments in even the slightest. You mention your studio and you’ve produced some absolutely remarkable clips. For slaves who have yet to experience Queen Arena in action, what one clip would you recommend/demand they purchase to begin their addiction and become completely infatuated with serving you?
QAR: If I were to rest on past accomplishments that’d be both arrogant and boring! I still view Myself as a newcomer to Pro-Domination as well as the video production side of things. There is so much more for Me to learn. I believe that when one ceases to grow they die. Just one? Ugh! That’s a tough question. I’ll name a few: Cuck Home Early, Crawl Boy, Alrik Angel is Taken, Elan Vital, Anal Hand Jive, Cock Cage Clitty Cum Challenge and JOI Games of Rome… to begin!
sbs: Well because you’re a Queen, you get to choose as many as you like. That will just set the bar higher for an admiring slave to explore more clips. Speaking of which, for a slave reading this feature, intrigued and enchanted by everything about you, what advice would you offer them to ensure they make the best possible first impression up their Queen?
QAR: Read up on Me through each link on My website and get to know Me through My work and My words. Then when you contact Me you won’t waste My time nor have your message deleted. Oh, and don’t ever do the following things: 1. Never have purchased My work 2. Found and watched My videos on (fill in the name of pirated/free site) 3. Not address Me as anything other than “Queen”— I didn’t choose that “title” it’s paying honor to My Dad who gave Me that “title” at birth. Plain and simple: have decency and manners.
sbs: More than reasonable for any slave to abide by when approaching a woman of your impressive physical and psychological dominance and superiority, Queen Arena. With your permission, may I ask one final question of you before crawling away?
QAR: Indeed, shoot and score…
sbs: Thank you Queen. For my final question, let me ask you this…if we were conducting this interview in person, with me kneeling before you, completely overwhelmed by your presence, how might the interview end?
QAR: With Me pissing all over you, spitting on your face and then laughing uncontrollably as I exit this space with sheer delight leaving you to clean up My Divine mess.
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