Who is Ms. Vanity Sin?
Sensual, manipulative, exotic and erotic, I am the Dominatrix you were born to live for. An intuitive Goddess with the ability to cause you to fall to your knees with one simple whisper of my silky yet stern voice. You will fall at my feet and beg to be owned but you will have to prove your worth. Are you ready to prove yourself to me boy?
I am based out of Las Vegas, where I practice the Art of BDSM along with Clinical Hypnotherapy. Psychology, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy and BDSM are passions of mine which resonate when you are in my presence.
I know I was born for this, so I am well aware of my female power that will make your weak male ego dissolve into a faded memory. Spiral down the rabbit hole that is sub space with me, into the land of kink and honey. Begin your journey into worshiping the most perfect and intelligent woman you will ever meet, Ms. Vanity Sin, The Ultimate Domina of your dreams.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction in an interview I have eagerly anticipated is the very beautiful and dominant, Ms. Vanity Sin. Welcome to DA Ms. Vanity, and thank you so much for allowing me the privilege of kneeling before you today.
Ms. Vanity Sin: First and foremost it’s a pleasure to be here. I’ve known DA for sometime and it’s an honor to be featured!
sbs: Well that is what we love to hear. It’s such a reward to know that Dommes of your stature are aware of, and pleased by, what we are doing. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of your story about how you entered the world of Femdom, and your experiences along the way that have shaped you into the incredible Goddess I look up at today from the floor.
MVS: The FemDom world called me once I became aware there was such a scene in existence. I was a 6 year girl taking dressage lessons, fascinated by my leather gloves and whip. I always found the scent of leather to be comforting and I loved competing with boys. As I became a teenager I always felt different. I wanted to humiliate my bf, not have sex with him. As I transitioned to college, the need was still there and growing stronger. I was into fetish modeling when I met a gentleman who wanted to film fetish clips with me. I was excited and totally on board. I introduced myself to the world as Mistress Vanity Sin and it made me feel powerful. I never stopped. From there I went on to owning slaves online to meeting them in person. Funny, today I still own and play with many slaves from around the world.
sbs: And you have evolved into one of the most desirable dominant women on the planet. Are there specific types of slaves that are typically drawn to you, and do you have a particular favourite type of slave you enjoy in session, or owning?
MVS: I have a tendency to attract intelligent, strong willed and powerful men. I like that. They crave a woman who can challenge them mentally, physically and emotionally. When it comes to slaves in sessions, I like a sub who is willing to trust me and let go in my presence, whether online or in person. When it comes to owning a slave…I need a person who can keep up with me. I am a woman who can do most anything herself and I’m very proud of it. I want my owned slaves to be able to accomplish tasks for me as good if not better than how I would have done them. I like a disciplined owned sub who understands that I am human. Empathy in a submissive is admirable. I dislike selfish subs.
sbs: Are there specific fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring with your slaves, and does that differ between online domination and real time sessions?
MVS: I’m an addict to forcing men to cross dress!! I will seduce any man into wearing my panties too. Erotic hypnosis, hypnosis in general, has been an obsession and a fetish. Power exchange along with strap on play. I like medical play but more twisted psychological scenes…using electrics, poppers, straight jacket, sensory deprivation and extended play. All of these activities I enjoy in real time sessions. For online, I tend to prefer exploring forced intox, financial domination, self masochism and erotic hypnosis.
sbs: All of those sound both intriguing, and a little scary from a submissive perspective, but I sense you are more than a little persuasive 😉 If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, dressed in your panties, completely under your spell as you circle them stroking lube onto your thickest strap on, who might it be, and why?
MVS: I’ve been told I’m elegant yet cruel. You win more flies with honey than vinegar. So, yes I can be quiet persuasive.
Tim Curry. I’ve always had a crush on him. First movie I saw him in was, The Worst Witch…then Legend as The Devil. Eventually of course, Rocky Horror Picture Show, but in Legend he got me. I would love to spit in his mouth while he lubes up my biggest dildo with his big eyes. Then to watch him spread his ass cheeks for me!!
sbs: Mmm…you can almost hear the excitement in your responses! Can you describe that feeling, the one that you get when you have a slave completely at your mercy, under your spell and willing to submit completely to whatever you desire?
MVS: It’s a total high!! I’m an addict to being in power and having control. I love the rush, it makes me feel alive. It’s why I enjoy getting paid to share my dark side with others. Aside from the “high” I enjoy the adrenaline come down. It’s such a difference and so I am aware of “after care” for my subs too.
sbs: It sounds like a session with you is something a slave would never forget! Are all your slaves men, or do you also have female submissives that bow before you? Is there a significant difference in the type of sessions if so?
MVS: I definitely want a session with me to be an experience one will never forget. Too many have shared stories of bad sessions. As for female slaves, yes I have a few along with couples. There is a difference. I find women are like cats, they need a little more time to trust me before we play. Men after a few minutes are ready. Women I feel are just shy and nervous so I try to be gentle until I know I can amp up the energy.
I must say, I do love strap on sessions with women while the husband watches. It’s another rush for me knowing I just might be making her cum harder than he ever could.
sbs: Now that is a delicious twist on the cuckolding fetish, isn’t it? Wow! Imagining watching your wife getting more pleasure from a Domme’s strap on than our own cock…that could really crush a man’s ego. For slaves unable to experience what you describe in your real time sessions, what type of online training opportunities are available?
MVS: I offer phone sessions, texting, Snapchat and cam sessions. It’s about keeping in constant communication with me, figuring out where I want you to be and begin molding you from there. Slaves are given tasks daily to follow, perhaps items to buy if they are to be my sissy, listen to recordings I send them for brainwashing, mantras and for a few…pay my bills. It all depends on the willingness of the sub who wants long distance training/sessions. Relationships are important to me, so I like to make that a point of focus. Long distance training is a “relationship” and it takes two to make it work.
sbs: And your clips that you sell, is there one you would point to and demand that any slave interested in immersing themselves in your world of domination simply must buy after reading this interview?
MVS: I would say one of my most recent clips which has a matching mp3 to enhance the experience…“Breathe In My Essence – Mesmerize HomeWrecking POV”. If homewrecking isn’t your fetish, the concept of the clip is to use NLP to relax the mind and slow down all those unwanted thoughts that bother you. I know what you need, I know you are unfulfilled and living a lie. I am here to help fill the void. The clip also encourages the use of poppers which I love!
sbs: I have never experienced the rush of poppers that I have read about, but I’m guessing that with or without, some marriages are seriously in jeopardy if you decide they should be 😉 Do you enjoy the homewrecker fetish and if so, can you describe what pleases you about it as a Domme?
MVS: The fact that I am distracting your thoughts. I suppose it’s arrogant of me to feel powerful that all men notice me and that most find me to be the perfect woman. I am the attainable yet unattainable. It’s actually arousing. I love being a tease and distracting a married man who really isn’t happy in the first place is arousing. It’s like playing a head game but really I’m just there not doing much. It’s all because you are weak. Don’t blame me for your being weak and horny. Hehe.
sbs: You are very obviously a breathtakingly beautiful woman and I’m sure everywhere you go men are falling over themselves for your attention. Married or otherwise, how could we resist? Has it ever become routine and expected that any man can be lured under your spell, no matter the consequences, or is there still a thrill in the conquest of yet another man unable to resist?
MVS: And I was a married woman once too…but he passed away some time ago. When I was married it would feed my arrogance that he was a lucky man and I would prance around in my lingerie prior to the session. I like showing him what I was wearing and telling him how I was going to tease others. Never does it feel routine! This is why I recently have taken up cam sessions on MyFreeCams and Vixy. I get to bewitch multiple men at once.
sbs: Married men lured into your sensual web and feeding your desire to be wanted and lusted after, wives taking your strap on and made to cum harder than their husbands ever could make them…I’m sensing a theme here, Ms. Vanity. You are an intoxicating and alluring presence. When you have a slave, or anyone for that matter, in such a state, that you can feel them submitting, feel them unable to resist, is there a “tell” that lets you know that in that moment you own them completely?
MVS: It’s a look in a person’s eyes. It’s like a drunken state type of pupil dilation. Just mesmerized and maybe even “stupified”. The heart is pounding and a certain scent begins to emanate. Lol…I sound like a predator, but I notice all this and I know the magic has just begun.
sbs: Sound like a predator indeed. Circling your vulnerable prey and the click of your heels as you do is making hearts pound and cocks throb with every answer, I’m sure. For those, like myself, rapidly descending under your spell as they read this interview, what advice do you offer them to ensure they make the best possible first impression upon you in offering their submission?
MVS: Approach me as your genuine self. There is no judgement. I like a gentleman and dislike impatient boys. Anyone can come to me and be themselves. I already know you’ve been hiding your “true” self, and you are coming to me to explore it.
sbs: I’m sure that you will explore and reveal many aspects that we slaves have either tried to suppress or haven’t fully realized. Thank you so much for this amazing experience today, Ms. Vanity. I knew interviewing you would be an experience I wouldn’t soon forget, and this was quite the learning opportunity. With your permission, may I please ask one final question of you before crawling away to get busy promoting just how incredible you are?
MVS: Yes you may.
sbs: Thank you so much. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked questions, slowly finding it harder and harder to focus on anything but your otherworldly beauty and dominant presence, how might the interview end?
MVS: It would end with you worshiping my boots while I dressed in leather, especially leather gloves. I would be smoking weed and making sure you are inhaling my smoke, causing you to feel a little hazy. I can handle THC quite well but you don’t smoke as much as I do. I would circle around you, running my hands along your neck and down to your shoulders. From there, I would surprise you with a choke hold…watching you crumble at my feet. I would then awaken you with a nice hard slap and a big smile!! More than likely you’ll be confused and disoriented but that’s the best part. From there, the fun is just beginning.
