Even as a child, I knew that I was different. I had a burning desire to control others. An overwhelming need to torture and inflict pain which brought me so much pleasure. An unwavering inclination to lead, to dominate, to assume power. It has always been my nature and indulging in it and living it brings me endless pleasure and glee. As I’ve grown into the lifestyle, it has become more and more a part of me. I am a sexy vixen and a devious seductress. I seduce submission and devotion from those who serve me and love developing long term arrangements with clients, slaves and submissives that satisfy both my deep seated needs and theirs. The Goddess in me is always bubbling just beneath the surface of the girl next door veneer. I am the ultimate juxtaposition of sweet, kind and giggly with cold, hard and terrifying. I hone in on exactly what is craved and deliver an unforgettable experience. Every subsequent experience with me builds on the last. I terrify those who need to feel fear, sweet talk those who need hand holding and sooth those who need to feel acceptance for indulging in needs they cannot control.
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Ms Blaze: I knew at an early age that I was different. That people feared me. I used to tie up the neighborhood kids. But it wasn’t until I got involved with my first slave 20 years ago that I realized that men would do pretty much anything to please me. As I’ve learned to harness this power over time, the tools of control that I use have changed and maintaining control over men has become far more natural and instinctive.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MB: I am a natural Dominant. I live and breathe it. Even when I have to keep it under wraps around non-kinky people, it’s not a secret that I am a take charge woman who doesn’t take any bullshit.
sbs: Not all women are created equally, obviously, and you are most definitely as Alpha as they come. What do you say to women who are jealous of your success, or bothered by the lifestyle you are afforded by your admiring slaves?
MB: To be honest, I don’t pay attention to those who may be jealous of my success. I much prefer to give my attention to other Dommes who share my philosophy that by supporting each other, we all rise together.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
MB: I don’t actually do a lot of financial domination. I do have one pay pig who pays me a monthly tribute for the privilege of interacting with me. I tend to draw men who are submissive at their core. It tends to be part of their identity in much the same way that being dominant is a core part of my identity.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MB: I don’t generally have patience for men who want to resist. That being said, they don’t have to come to me well trained either. I prefer men who genuinely want to offer up their submission to me. Genuine submission cannot be forced, but it can be massaged to fit my particular set of needs and demands. Also, well trained slaves may be well trained for their previous Mistress, but need to be retained to serve me properly. Mistresses are not interchangeable!
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves.
MB: My specialties are definitely CBT, tease and denial and chastity play. Some version of these are almost always featured in all of the sessions I do.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MB: It’s a bit of both lol. I have learned to expect certain behaviours. That my coffee will be on my bedside moments before my alarm goes off. That chores and tasks are done without reminders. But when I make bigger asks, like making a slave stop edging right on the brink of cumming, and I get to watch their internal struggle of overriding their need with my orders, I still get that rush of power. Every single time my needs and desires cost my slave something he dearly wants, every time my slave denies himself for my pleasure, I get that rush. It’s intoxicating and powerful.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MB: When they hand me that key. Or give up their freedom. In some ways it’s easy to make men unable to resist me. I’m just selective of who I will take on that journey.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
MB: Sometimes, I get a double take and I’m not quite sure! I do a lot of volunteer work in my local kink community so my worlds often collide and I’m never quite sure if they know me for my professional work or my volunteerism. This one time, however, I traveled to Whistler for a holiday and posted that I was available for sessions during my visit. One young man booked an appointment but canceled a couple days before I arrived. At some point during my visit, I ended up at his work and he knew exactly who I was. Within the hour, he emailed me begging to reschedule. He said he just HAD to session with me after being in my presence!
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MB: Book a session and see me in person. Become a patron of my Patreon. Spoil me through my wish lists. Fly me to your city. Buy my clips. Promote me and retweet me.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
MB: They should know I really enjoy what I do and that who I am in the dungeon is who I am. I don’t play a role. I don’t try to be someone else. This may limit my client base, but the clients that jive with me generally stay with me.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MB: I’d let you sample my skills, assuming you’d be up for it!
