THE BREATHTAKINGLY BEAUTIFUL, MISTRESS NIKKI WHIPLASH!
I think referring to all submissives as ‘slaves’ is hugely inaccurate. It’s a bit of a fantasy buzz word – very few people actually REALLY want to be slaves… they’re usually more subs/sluts/kinksters from my experience. And with those words, Mistress Nikki put this slaveboy clearly in his place. She is a woman who truly knows all levels of male submission and female dominance. My first taste of how amazing Mistress Nikki is was when I watched a clip from lethalbitches.com and watched in awe as this perfect blonde Goddess wearing thigh high black boots and a little thong, slowly lowered herself onto the face of her victim and chastised him in the sexiest accent ever until he slowly faded into unconsciousness. Quite the first impression made! Since that time I’ve been a huge admirer of her work and when Mistress Nikki agreed to allow me to feature her, I confess, it made this slave’s week! So without further gushing and ramblings, I give you a woman who really needs no introduction, the gorgeous and wickedly cruel, Mistress Nikki Whiplash.
slaveboysmith: From my interactions with you, and from seeing you online in session clips, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case?
Mistress Nikki: Yes, I have always seemed to know what buttons to push in order to get results from a certain type of man!
sbs: Would you say you are naturally dominant, or is it more of a roleplay when you are in session?
MN: I’m naturally dominant.
sbs: Some women would say they could do your job in a heartbeat, but it requires far more than being beautiful and looking amazing in fetishwear to take control of a slave. What skills do you think a successful Dominatrix such as yourself needs to have?
MN: It’s less about skills and more about qualities in my opinion. A good dominatrix should be able to empathize with her submissives, she should have a good understanding of human nature, she should be intelligent and most of all she should have integrity.
sbs: Can you explain what makes a man want to be a slave? What motivates them to surrender absolute control to you?
MN: That’s very subjective; it varies widely from person to person and everybody’s motivation is different. You don’t get a stereotypical ‘slave’ in my experience and they should all be viewed as individuals.
sbs: What are your favourite fetishes to explore with your slaves? Do you find that these have changed over time as you have evolved as a Domme?
MN: I don’t have one particular favourite as, again, it depends who you’re playing with. I love ball busting but I won’t want to do it to a ‘slave’ against their will, who isn’t going to gain something from the experience. Yes, the activities I enjoy participating in have varied over the years as I have developed my skills and understanding.
sbs: Are there any negatives involved in being a Dominatrix?
MN: Not really, apart from the incessant unsolicited photos of penises I get sent on twitter. I mean, do they not think I see enough cocks as it is?! And what do they think is so special about theirs precisely?! 😉
sbs: Have you met many other Dommes? Do you ever do sessions with other Dommes involved?
MN: Yes – I operate 7 femdom websites for which I’m the director and producer, so I have tended to meet around 2 other dommes/models a week for the last 12 or so years. That’s a lot of women. Yes, I session with many of my friends.
sbs: Can you describe how you feel when you are in a session with your slave? Is it a feeling of power, pleasure, control, or a mix of all three?
MN: Again, it depends who I’m with at the time. But it’s always a good feeling being in control.
sbs: Are most of the slaves you see “regulars” or do you see many new clients? Do you prefer one over the other? How do you feel about seeing 1st time slaves?
MN: It’s a mixture. It’s always fun meeting someone new and putting them through their paces, but overall I prefer subsequent sessions with people I have had the chance to build up a knowledge of and a rapport with.
sbs: How do you know when you have truly broken someone and are completely in control of them? Is there a look you see that tells you when you have a slave completely vulnerable?
MN: I don’t set out to break anyone. Just to dent them a bit. 😉
sbs: Do any of your slaves serve you outside of sessions? ie. real-life slaves in everyday life?
MN: Yes a few.
sbs: Have any of your clients tried to reverse the power dynamic and top from the bottom with you? How do you make sure they realize they are there to serve you, not the other way around?
MN: They wouldn’t get as far as visiting in the first place if they were going to do that in any major way. I only ever do what I want to do.
sbs: Are the people in your personal life aware of your work? Does this pose any problems being as you are so high profile?
MN: Yes and no it doesn’t pose a problem. I’m not sure why it would.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? How does the slave react to seeing his ultimate fantasy Domme in person?
MN: A few times. They either don’t approach at all and email/tweet me later to say they saw me, or they approach and get tongue tied. It’s quite cute I suppose.
sbs: What role does social media such as Twitter, Skype, etc. play in your business?
MN: I only really use Twitter. The Facebook account claiming to be me isn’t me, it’s a fake. Twitter is a good tool to keep people informed and promote my websites.
sbs: Thank you so much for taking the time to answer these questions Mistress Nikki. Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers, and potential future clients, reading this interview?
MN: You’re welcome. I have no particular gems of wisdom to share at this time!
Mistress Nikki is everywhere online. She is available for session in person, for online training, and through multiple websites, many of which are listed below. Trust me when I say, you won’t find a more skilled, enthusiastic and dominant Goddess to kneel before anywhere. She is truly one of a kind and is exceptional in every way. Thank you again, Mistress Nikki, for this great honour 🙂
http://www.mistresswhiplash.com/
http://www.ballbustingworld.com/
http://www.facesittingbitches.com/
http://www.mixedoilwrestling.com/
