I am the Queen of Dommes in My freak show. Bow down accordingly, peasant. I direct the biggest freak shows this life has ever seen, I can smell a sub, and I can read minds. I will show you who your Goddess is.
I am 5’0″, 105 lbs, with long, thick Blonde hair, Blue eyes, of Italian Descent. Professionally Trained, Sadistic, Highly Educated, Extremely Creative, Intelligent, Petite, Fit, Gorgeous, FemDom, Vixen, Tiny Terror, Evil Genius, Strict, Findomme, Naturally Dominant, Goddess, Disciplinarian, & Humiliatrix, with Perfect Size 5 feet.
I love eager, willing, respectful, subs with superb manners, of course. I appreciate a hard worker who tries their very best, at everything they do in life, above all else. I do not like to repeat Myself & I cannot be bothered with unintelligent individuals.
I host fetish play parties in North Hollywood at Lair De Sade every 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month so find Me there, as well.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, our feature interview is with the wicked and talented Mistress Liz Says. Thank you for joining us at DommeAddiction. If it pleases you, Mistress, may I kneel before you as I begin to ask you questions?
Mistress Liz Says: Yes, absolutely. I love it when I get a chance to give feedback!
sbs: It’s a pleasure to kneel before you and to open that door to having you share with our readers. Perhaps we can start with how you became involved in Femdom and what your journey has been like to this point.
MLS: Sure, it’s actually a pretty funny story. I was engaged for 3 years and this was the first guy I had ever been intimate with. He was into Muay Thai and I was into boxing, and it became a routine for us to start each sexual encounter by basically beating each other up, that was our foreplay. When I broke up with him, I dated a beautiful Russian girl and the first time we were intimate, I tried to do the same thing my ex and I had been doing, but to her. She stopped Me and said, “this is NOT normal, let me take you somewhere you are allowed to do this. She took Me to Threshold that night. I walked in there with a strap on and a lot of built up excitement and we took over the school room for the entire night playing. Anyone who walked in, we would play with, but most of the party watched eagerly from the door. I scared the DM’s a bit cause I was such a naturally strict intellectual Domme. She brought Me to Lair De Sade the next night where I switched a veteran Dom for 4 hours. Offers for performances and teaching and event hosting all came from there. I have been in a lot of different parts of the industry by now.
sbs: That is one amazing immersion to the industry lol. You obviously had a natural affinity for it. So you mention dominating both men and women. Are there significant differences and do you enjoy one over the other?
MLS: I am very Queer, and gender doesn’t matter to Me, it’s all about chemistry. I enjoy great chemistry and an awesome submissive who works hard to please Me. Good manners & intellect are essential to ideal play for Me.
sbs: Are there specific fetishes you particularly enjoy? You mentioned strap on play but what else do you really love to get into with your slaves?
MLS: I started with strap on play because I love a great ass and putting the biggest things in them. I also love medical play, electrical play, the sound of chains, I enjoy mental games most. I am fascinated by psychology and body language reading. I feed off of a crowd, I am a natural exhibitionist.
sbs: I want you to imagine a room full of guests. You’re wearing your favourite strap on, hungry to put it to use. In the center of the room strapped to a padded bench is your choice of any celebrity, or well known person, you desire. Who would it be and why?
MLS: Lol, I guess I do not have a celebrity crush. I love a good challenge though so it would have to he someone very intelligent and engaging, who is mentally capable of playing My type of extreme games. I have switched a celebrity in a room full of people and took his anal virginity by fisting him while I had the crowd count down how many fingers where still on the outside until I laughed sadistically and let him know he was My puppet now! I would never say who that celebrity was though & this is a “party trick” I do on a regular basis now, ever since. I do have a rather big crush on Lance Hart, though & would love to play with him!!
sbs: Does breaking a supposed Alpha give you an extra sense of satisfaction over the usual men that drool over you and throw themselves at your feet eagerly?
MLS: As I said, I do like a challenge so I do like the extra satisfaction of proving who the real Alpha is, when someone could use a bit of a humbling.
sbs: I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing “sub space” on several occasions in session. Is there something comparable for you as a Domme?
MLS: Yes, I would say I the adrenaline high of being in Domme space is close to the same. I tend to do extreme scenes and the bigger the crowd watching, the more creative of an evil genius, I turn into. I feed very much off a crowd.
sbs: That sounds amazing. I’m sure I’m not the only one reading that response and wondering what it would feel like to watch you work! When you have a slave completely broken down and under your spell, open to anything you desire to do with them, is there a “tell” that lets you know you own them in that moment?
MLS: People tell Me they love to watch Me cause they never know what I will do & never know what they would learn. I like to compare watching a scene with Me like a slow moving car crash- it is horrifying but they cannot look away. I read body language so there are always “tells.” I tend to pick out the most extreme playmates, by body language alone. I like to do this thing at parties where I point out some stranger who nobody knows around Me and point them out as the person who is going to completely submit to My will that night. Then I wait until I catch their eye, which I know I will very fast, I motion them over, I make them sit directly across from Me and then it always goes down exactly as I read from their body language it would. They are willing to do anything to please Me. I am not mean during scenes, I am much more in their heads and laughing like an idiot. I have a great sense of humour and I think it is important for subs to be humble, so I tend to laugh and make intellectual jokes, a lot.
sbs: It sounds like being in your presence is absolutely intoxicating, Mistress, and I’m getting a sense of that as I kneel before you. With all that you’ve already experienced in the Femdom scene, what is next for you? What should our readers be eagerly anticipating from you in the future?
MLS: I am now hosting events at a North Hollywood dungeon twice a month and I plan to expand more into hosting, live performing, & I love sessions so I will always be doing those. I will be hosting a BDSM/ fetish event the 2nd and 4th Thursday of every month at Lair De Sade. The events will be listed on Fetlife, along with My own personal social media pages. I plan to expand My travel schedule quite a bit going into the next year with more trips to bigger cities like NYC & Vegas. I love performing and doing sessions so I plan to do more of these things, as well.
sbs: For slaves reading this interview, aching for the opportunity to abandon all thoughts of resistance and experience what it feels like to be yours, what advice do you have for them to make the best possible first impression?
MLS: Don’t waste My time by sending “hello/how are you/etc” type of messages, in your first 1/2/3 messages. Make your intention to session with Me (Professionally) VERY direct. Use manners. Respect My limits if you expect Me to respect yours because this is supposed to be an equal power exchange, type of thing. Be sure to browse (READ) My website “about” sections on MistressLizSays.com before your initial message so I do not have to answer questions that I have already taken the time to answer.
sbs: Thank you so much for allowing me to interview you Mistress. With your permission, may I please ask one final question before I crawl away?
MLS: Yes.
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, just before one of your play parties was to begin, with guests beginning to gather and look on at me kneeling before you as I ask you questions, how might the interview end?
MLS: Obviously, with you thanking Me and using proper protocol, just as you are, right now. All scenes should end with the sub thanking his Mistress and using proper protocol…
