I am fire. You come to me knowing you’ll get burned & be left as nothing but a pile of ash when I am done with you. Unworldly & new, you cannot stop yourself from burning for me. Featuring the following Fetishes: FINDOM – IGNORE FETISH – HUMILIATION FETISH – TEASE & DENIAL -ASS WORSHIP – FOOT FETISH – GODDESS WORSHIP – CBT – CEI – JOI – SPH- SISSIFICATION – – SMOKING FETISH – coerced BI & MANY MORE.
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Harlow Money: Hah =] Yes, it has definitely been an all my life thing. It started young, I was in first grade the first time a male tried to touch my ‘big pretty feet’. Consequently it freaked me out and I kicked him. Raised with siblings and learning to control their friends was just practice for my everyday life now.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MHM: I am dominant to a fault. It has been fun for me to try and see the other perspective of things, but I will forever be Dominant with no hopes of ever submitting to another, unless it is my higher self. The ability to be dominant comes from the ability to submit to things larger than us and out of our control. My submission to where my life has taken me continually and shows my need to be in the position I am in now. Guiding others. I have learned what many have not, because of this I am always going to be that guiding light for others.
sbs: Have you ever dominated any celebrities?
MHM: Confidentiality contracts, they exist… for this reason.. Next question. =]
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
MHM: Every man is drawn to me. Woman as well. I exude an auric understanding of this planet that many, at this current moment, cannot grasp, let alone imitate. I offer an energy that is impossible to deny or replicate as it is simply an extension of me and not something outside of me, and for this reason, those in need of my energy gravitate to me. Like the sun pulling the planets into it’s orbit. There is an alchemy that takes place. The dimensions cannot be put back to where they once were. I do more than get a human off. I speak to the existence of who and what pulled their soul to that sexual desire to begin with, alchemizing their conditioned realities while doing so. You are pulled to me because you know that once you come out the other side you will be forever changed, and more in alignment with self than ever before.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MHM: I am not a “regular” Domme in that fact, and let’s face it, I didn’t get into this genre of porn because I like to follow the rules. In fact, if there is a norm I pride myself on it is being the one who fucks up the status quo by doing things her own way. Submissives must come to me. I will never chase any of them. I know who I am, what I offer and what I am becoming. My price will only go up from here. Those who cannot afford to serve, can work harder to do so or miss the chance. I do not lose anything if they do not serve. I am already abundant in happiness as I have learned the algorithm to this life. This alone ensures that only those with the innate understanding of my rules can ever reach me.
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
MHM: To be honest my biggest kink beyond Findom right now is a fetish I created after my spiritual awakening. The ALCHEMIZING fetish meshes the art of self alchemy into any type of fetish clip I may choose to create. I love kink and I love the changes I am seeing in my own life due to the application of what I know versus what I was conditioned to think. I slowly began to implement these types of clips into my work until I was landing on the top selling pages. Now they are 99% of the work I create, unless I am vibrating lower, then I will have fun with a “normal” fetish clip! To self alchemize is to lose all control of self. To submit to the unknown is to understand that once you do so, you won’t have any control after accepted…Sound familiar? I am an advocate for self love in most raw sense. To give to another, is to give to self. What I share doesn’t make sense to those not ready, but lucky for them.. my clips will be there when they finally start to see things for what they are.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MHM: It is as if a wave of life comes over me. Knowing another has full trust in their next step, if though they cannot see the outcome. It is beautiful. I cannot explain the ocean of emotions I swim in other than to say that if you haven’t experience the sub/Domme relationship you can never truly understand… I live in this ocean and Ill never stop swimming with these waves.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MHM: There is an understanding of the words I say, where before…there would be an agreement with no awareness of the truth behind what was being said, like a blank stare or a weak nod. It is like levelling up in a video game. Their mind ALLOWS them to go even further. That allowance signifies the mind did not just change via the dimensions but the perspective changed as a whole. When I have managed to lead them to viewing the same thing with a NEW perspective, I have changed their understanding of it. In short, their alchemization is visible to see.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
MHM: YES. HAHA! I live in a tiny town. He tripped, almost fell into the road of oncoming traffic. Mumbled sorry Mistress and literally ran the other way down the sidewalk. It just happened before AVN.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MHM: Following on EVERY social media account I have (See links below)
Basically DO THE MOST to be seen, I spend more time focused on my goals and where I am headed than the world around me. In short, you must shine on me harder than I shine on me =]
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sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
MHM: My work has changed significantly. Those who come to me for the same mundane fetishes will find themselves in for a surprise! The algorithm of LIFE has changed, thus changing the way we must live to survive. There are SO many falling away from the vibration necessary to survive through the changes simply because they do not understand what it is they must do. I am here to guide those ready through that. I film most every day. Not because I HAVE to but because I am passionate about what I do. The subs who have been around the longest know I won’t take the time out to do things as often as I should, like a spa day or travel to see my girlfriends. Those who encourage that with tributes and gift cards to ensure my health stay high, they always have a special place in my life. Many of us are so great at looking the way we do, and it really has become an everyday thing for us, but it means more than you know when someone takes the time to pay for that makeup, or handle an upcoming bill…just because. That is thoughtful… Thoughtful goes very far, not just with me… but with humans in general. I’d like to see more be thoughtful and aware of the reality of others — Also — Retweet ALL my tweets. Because retweets say I love you, without making it weird.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MHM: The same way it ends with you hundreds of miles away from me…you falling over my honey smooth voice as I explain the world to you from the perspective of a Goddess. All while opening your wallet and handing over everything inside…Without me even having to ask you to do so… It’s okay love… It happens so often I actually forget it isn’t supposed to be the norm, but then again.. I’ve never been normal either. =p
