Miss Beth Bates… sadistic, sarcastic, demanding manager of subservient souls. Bossy, English Brat with a fetish for cold hard cash & crippling credit scores… Are you brave enough to check in? I have to warn you, Miss Bates victim count remains unknown. You may never check out. Have a good look round, everything you need to know about your stay is easy to find.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction, standing over me as I kneel before her, is the very sexy and beautiful Mistress Beth Bates. Welcome to DA Mistress, and thank you for allowing us to share your story today.
Mistress Beth Bates: Thank you for having me, and good observation skills there! Looking forward to sharing.
sbs: The view from below is spectacular. I freely share that with our readers who would be jealous of where I am right now. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of your backstory and how you got into the world of female domination. Have you always known the power you hold over men like myself, or was there a moment when you realized it that led you to where you are today?
MBB: I’m sure they would be! Well, where do I start? First off I’ve always been dominant, in personality and in the bedroom, but in 2017 I stumbled upon Findom Twitter after a particularly chaotic event in life. I think it was around then the light switched and I started to realize exactly how powerful and perfect I actually was. It gave me the confidence boost I needed and it just went from there! Obviously it was a match made in heaven. I’m a sarcastic seductive little ray of sunshine with a bossy bratty streak with a massive ego and sense of self worth, and I’m pretty funny too. It’s not hard for me to make my submissives feel secure but intimidated which made moving into FemDom sessions in 2018 a breeze. I was already pretty self aware and sure of my power before, but there’s nothing like giving a sub a good pegging to remind a girl who’s boss.
sbs: I could not agree more. Having been on the receiving end of a good pegging, or two, I don’t know that I have ever experienced anything more humbling and felt more submissive than in that moment as you are bent over and in anticipation of what is to happen. Beyond pegging, are there other fetishes that you would consider your favourites, and any that are “no go” for you in session?
MBB: Impact play, Tease & Denial, Foot worship, CBT, ballbusting and sissy training are some of my favourites, but I’m pretty varied. It all depends on my mood. My absolute no go’s are scat, needle or knife play, anything illegal or taboo, and I do not session nude.
sbs: Some great options to choose between and very reasonable limits. Can you describe the feeling you get when you’re in session, a submissive completely under your spell and willing to do whatever you demand of them?
MBB: Pure and simple. Empowered.
sbs: Empowered is a good word. What is the typical reaction for those who kneel before you, and does their reaction feed into that power?
MBB: Oh so sorry! Almost forgot you were down there lol. Nerves, watching a nervous shaking hand attempt to hold my perfect feet. Small flinches when I move near. I notice little things like that.
sbs: You’re probably noticing little things like that as I kneel before you…nervously. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person in that situation, flinching as you approach and the sound of your heels clicking on the floor making their heart race, who might it be, and why?
MBB: Haha I’d noticed! And hmmm, Jeremy Kyle. 100%. More to the fact, I’d just love to kick him persistently. He’s such a cocky little hmmm…. I don’t know. I’d just find it really satisfying hog tying him and shutting his smug face up with my 10 incher.
sbs: Yes, with your 10 incher in use, I’m sure he would become a rather different kind of “cocky” than before. Never to be the same as well. Wow! Hard to continue after that answer but I’ll try! Lingerie or latex…which best describes your style as a Domme?
MBB: Oooooh! Tricky one. Both, with a splash of casual. I don’t have a particular style full stop. I just make everything look good…the only thing that’s a constant when it come to my style is red and black. I’m drawn to red and black garments.
sbs: Picturing your perfect curves in red & black lingerie or latex is enough to make any man kneel! Is it just men who fall before you, or do you also have female submissives that offer themselves and wish to worship and serve?
MBB: I don’t currently have any female subs, but I’d like them. Little unicorns, female subs. My entire domination style is completely different. I just cannot degrade another woman. Yet to have a female in a “professional” setting, but I just know my style would be a lot more seductive and playful.
sbs: That sounds like something that a male slave might be agonized watching while in chastity. Do you do Double Domme sessions any time, and how does that change the dynamic of a session? Anyone in particular you enjoy sharing a slave with, or would like to?
MBB: I do! I often double Domme with Mistress Monique. And it makes it more intense I find. Me and Miss Monique bounce off each other pretty well and we’re a good pairing as we make subs comfortable and nervous but we have a laugh too. And oh, spit roasting a sissy is on the “to do” list.
sbs: I have experienced a spitroasting and it is as erotic as it is humiliating. I’ve rarely felt so exposed and vulnerable. So this is something you have not yet done with Mistress Monique? Perhaps this feature will bring the right slave to your attention for such an honor?
MBB: Not yet unfortunately, but it is on the “to do” list. We tend to attract pain sluts and she’s got a little soft spot for busting balls. But haven’t we all? And oh we can only hope hey? It would be an amazing experience indeed.
sbs: Just wondering if I could still form interview questions while being spitroasted 😉 So in addition to searching for just the right slave to share with Mistress Monique, what else comes next for you Mistress?
MBB: It depends really, your mouth would be a bit full to talk…and elaborate on that question. You mean in general? My FemDom goals if you will? Is that what you’re asking? Or are we talking about sessions still?
sbs: Just in terms of general. What are you working on or have in the plans that you’d like to share with our readers?
MBB: Well, nothing’s set in stone, my beautiful brain is always coming up with new little ideas but I’m working on getting back into more sessions IRL so that’s something to look out for and 100% getting more creative with my content in the short run. The 10 year plan has a BDSM B&B on it. 2019 was a funny little year for me. I haven’t been as out there as I usually would be, but it’s a new decade now darlin’…watch this space!
sbs: A BDSM B&B you say? Oh my…now that sounds like a wicked little getaway for all of us kinksters! Thank you so much for sharing your story today, Mistress Beth. It has been a privilege to kneel in your presence. Any final words for those who desperately ache to experience this feeling I am currently blessed with and to offer themselves to you?
MBB: Yea! That’s the long game, I think there’s a little gap there for it. And I’m ambitious, I’m sure I can make it happen!… you’re very welcome, you’ve been a respectful interviewer and all I can think to say is, if any respectful submissives are looking for a fun but firm, strict but seductively playful Scouse Mistress, look no further! Oh that was fun! Thanks for the opportunity!
sbs: It was a pleasure Mistress Beth. Strict and seductively playful…now how could anyone resist that combination?? With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature, Mistress?
MBB: Of course ask away. You’ve been a very good boy today 😉
sbs: Thank you Mistress. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your dungeon as I nervously asked my questions, how might the interview conclude?
MBB: If I had it my way, and I always do, a kick for your balls and a kiss of gratitude for my perfect feet would make the perfect ending to this interview, don’t you agree slaveboy?
