Findom Mistress, Keyholder, the woman of your dreams, your ultimate fantasy fetish Queen. Today’s Feature Domme, the alluring and impossible to resist, Mistress Ava Black, isn’t like any other Domme you’ve encountered. If her introduction video didn’t give you a clue as to what is in store for you, her sensual and seductive responses to my questions will leave no doubt that you are going to fall hard for this exquisite Ebony Queen. She is an intrepid explorer of arses and wallets, and you will find yourself offering her full access to both. Are you ready to bow before Mistress Ava and admit what she already knows…you NEED to belong to her?
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Ava Black: Thank you. I’ve always known I had great power over men. I developed very young, and had perky tits by the age of nine. I saw even then how confused and compliant my male schoolmates were. They were just mesmerized by my tits. I used to get so much free stuff and favours and primary school was heaven! I also learned very quickly that I could get whatever I wanted from guys without having to give them anything – or even promise anything. It was too easy.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MAB: I am probably what you would call a controlling bitch. I come from a long line of tough controlling women. I was always taught to stand my ground and go for what I want in life no matter the obstacles. So my Femdom style is less screamy and shouty in session and more controlling and prescriptive in the way they live their lives. I am a total power exchange Mistress inside and outside of my sessions.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
MAB: I have always wanted to completely own Vin Diesel. I find him so fucking sexy! My type of bad boy. I would hurt his body so good. And I know he could handle it. Oh the things I would do to him!
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
MAB: There is no one type of slave that is attracted to me, no. Social class, personality type, age, all these things don’t mean anything when it comes to attraction in Domme/sub relationships. I think submissive people are drawn to my natural power, so that makes them more willing to do what I prescribe to them. And I have always said that even if a slave comes into my life for a heartbeat I will turn them into my total bitch for the time they are mine.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MAB: A mix of both depending on my mood. It’s all about the chemistry with the people that come to me. I’ve had guys that I’ve worked on for months before they completely broke. They are beautiful to own because when they did break they were like putty in my hands. Then I’ve had submissives who have come into my life and just been immediately subby to me and the natural connection was intensely horny for both of us.
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite of many Dommes, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
MAB: I will explain why financial domination for me. I am a total power exchange Mistress. My personal interests are chastity and cuckolding. I like to control men’s cocks while enjoying as much cock as I can. I am polyamorous and love dating several guys at once. But I love rubbing this in the faces of guys I am with in a ‘nucleus relationship’ so I allow these two things into my realm of Domination. Now money is the one thing that makes the world go round. No matter what kinks or desires or whatever anyone has, the one thing that makes all these things possible is money. I love dressing up in latex and leather. Money buys that. I love to travel. Money pays for that. When I prescribe to someone that they sacrifice the things they love and want to do with their money so I can indulge in my desires then that act of true submission is a total mindfuck for anyone. Giving up meals out, holidays, putting money in savings, all that kind of stuff. That is the total power exchange. Knowing that everything about you belongs to me really brings submissives to their knees! So my only kink is true and absolute control over every part of a slave for the long run. Not just one part of their desires. I love pushing my slaves’ boundaries too. Getting them to do things they would not normally do because it pleases me is what Domination is about in my books.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MAB: Every act of submission to me is intensely powerful. I know that we all have everyday hats and personas that we wear. So when a slave gives up all that and bows completely to my will – even for a short time – I find that magical. It’s kind of like that glow you get when you’ve had several orgasms (*the ladies will understand this*) and you could just keep on going. It’s like I’m the cat that’s purring with every stroke. Divine.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MAB: It’s all in the eyes baby. The tough ones are the fun ones. Because when they break their eyes just glaze over. You can tell they look high and are just floating. Dreamy. Like you could walk them off the edge of a cliff and they would happily come along.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
MAB: I’ve been spotted by clients that I had sessions with, yes. I just smile and walk past them. I’ve also had possibly someone who knew me but I didn’t know them. I had a guy follow me around the supermarket and up and down aisles for a few minutes once. He was really obvious and I felt like walking up to him and just saying, “Are you going to get my shopping then slave?” But in the end I just stared at him and he must have realized that I had noticed him and just kind of ran off.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MAB: Action. I need action. Always. So you can say all you want about how you will please me. But send me a tribute. Binge on any of my thousands of clips. Buy something from my wishlist. Join my fan club. Promote my stuff online without me asking you… All that counts towards a slightly less than irritated Mistress…
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
MAB: Yes. You belong underneath me. Every day you must rise to an image of me. My presence must always be with you. Because you are mine.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MAB: Haha! I would slap you in the face and tell you off for daring to conduct the interview at face level with me and not on all fours. Then I would push you to the ground and sit on your face until you begged me for mercy. Then you would have to worship my arse until I tired of you and left you to rest at my feet until you were dismissed.
