Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).

 Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and neverending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.
She considers her style to be that of a succubus, a demonic feminine creature used in Christianity that would drain the souls of innocent men, in part to her spiritual background of being a LaVeyan Satanist with a penchant for occultism. Her curves, dark eyes, and large ass have left men salivating, which gives her the perfect opportunity to slip her hands into their wallets and take what is rightfully hers. The easiest way to her affections is spoiling. Do it enough, and you’ll be one of her “good boys.” Welcome to her kennel.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction I am joined by the beautiful and sexy Mistress Alexxxia. Welcome to DA Mistress. Would it please you to have me kneel before you?
Mistress Alexxxia: What can I say? The pleasure is all yours. I quite enjoy good boys in a good kneel.
sbs: It is indeed a privilege to interview you Mistress. How did you first enter the world of Female Domination and were you always a natural?
MA: It’s going to surprise a lot to say that I did not start out as a Dominant. I began seven years ago as 100% submissive, but I think in part that was due to not having the knowledge or experience to attempt the other side. I attended local munches, learned from various people my parents’ ages who were extremely experienced in the D/s dynamic, and when I was in my early 20’s I began my first relationship as a submissive. But, that is where I got 98% of all of my training and experience. I learned the importance of proper protocol and the varying degrees of both pain and aftercare. I took blows from multiple pieces of gear and felt the different sting of each. By the time it had ended, I had an encyclopedia of knowledge not many are lucky enough to obtain. However, it wasn’t until I was 23 that I had heard of financial domination, and wasn’t until 25 that I had my first session as a Dominatrix. It was more of a fluke experience, but it felt like the needed last piece of a kinky puzzle had nestled itself naturally into place. Since then, I’ve been doing nothing but intensifying the experience for those that wish to bend to me, all the while intensifying my own luxury at the expense of their bodies and brains.
sbs: Are there specific fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring as a Domme? Are they typically the same ones you enjoyed as a submissive previously?
MA: My interests are extremely diverse, and I’m normally the most eager one you’d see when I find out about new kinks or techniques that I had never discovered before. As a Domme tapping into what I enjoyed as a submissive, I love four main kinks: humiliation, cuckolding, orgasm control and impact play. All of them elicit the most precious sounds from subs — little puppy whimpers, whines, and begging. God, begging gives me a body and ego high like nothing else. And I quite enjoy using a slave’s back, ass, or balls to test varying acoustics of a flogger versus a cane versus a single tail!
sbs: I may have shivered a little reading that response! Wow. Are there particular types of slaves that are drawn to serving you, and do you have a favourite type of slave you enjoy playing with Mistress?
MA: I tend to have that effect on men. I attract all walks of life, but one main type comes galloping to me: nerdy men. I am a bit of a nerd myself, and my local spa can attest to seeing me playing games on my phone or reading comics. I have always been a proud nerd (I love books, mythology, various pop culture niches, etc.), and being in the same range as your opponent — but being extraordinarily attractive and silky in voice, demeanor and stride as well — it gives you the upper hand to know their weaknesses and pick at them.
However, my favorite type? I love subs that look to grow through my power, and never succumb to being a mere jerking drone. I love when they are fully comfortable and find new, overwhelming arousal in providing for the comforts and luxuries and enjoyments of the one they consider God — ME. They know their place, and they know that a girl like me would never do anything but look upon them and laugh in pity at their existence. Yet that doesn’t stop them from doing ALL they can to be a part of improving my life, even if the pain from it becomes unbearable. They learn to twist that into pleasure in the end, intentionally or not.
sbs: You do have an amazing effect on us, I can attest to that! If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, on their knees, taking unbearable pain because they know it pleases you to see them suffer, who would it be, and why?
MA: It truly depends on my mood being either greedy or sickly sadistic. If I’m in the mood to drain someone over the course of one long, painful day, keep their balls almost black from torment, and sweltering in their well-tailored slacks, and make their ego crumble into the dust, it would be Mark Cuban (Shark Tank, owner of the Dallas Mavericks). I’d probably take him to Japan with me or walk him down Wall Street on a gilded leash. But if I’m in the mood to emasculate someone to the point of tears, it’d be Gordon Ramsay. I’d love to show him his sarcasm and “biting” insults are about as impactful as a pillow fight with a child, and that he’d be bending to the crop and tongue of a REAL sadist.
sbs: Those would both be lucky men to experience what you have to offer Mistress. When you have a slave at that breaking point, all resistance crushed and completely under your spell, is there a “tell” that lets you know that you own them in that moment?
MA: It depends on the slave. At the start of a session or interaction, I catalog each move they make and each word they say and remember it, and once I see a drastic crack in that foundation, I know I have them. I’ve made subs drool all over themselves during a whipping. I’ve made them tear up as I describe my sex life to tickle their cucky insides. I’ve made them go all-limp, ass-up when they finally relax under the hammering of a pegging. Normally, it’s at a point where they’re begging for the worst of it, completely unbridled, or unable to form coherent sentences. I turn them into zombies and know they’ve become addicted.
sbs: Addicted zombies…that’s a powerful visual! Drooling, mindless and completely overwhelmed. How does it feel for you to turn men into such a state? What thoughts go through your mind as you see all resistance melt away?
MA: It’s an arousing high for me as well. I’ve felt myself getting sexually excited when I see that I’ve broken a man down to his lowest state. I’ve taken the power society has demanded he build up, stripped it away, turned it to ash and shown him the worthless worm that not only he is, but what he wishes to be. All men are held up, but I love exposing them to the proven fact that whether financially, physically, or mentally, they want to be held down.
sbs: Have you ever broken a so called “Alpha” male and turned him into a worshiping little drone? How must that feel if you have?
MA: I can tell from one look that 99.9% of these “Alpha” types are full of shit, and one look at me tells them they know that I know. I see no need in breaking down the select few worthwhile men, because I make use of them as bulls and companions, and they quickly do what I say anyway because they know that I’m at the top no matter what. My own partner is as close to “Alpha” as a man can get and as close as I’ll allow him to be — not only from his authentic demeanor, but his intelligence, eloquence, class, and size — and I enjoy having him as an accessory and cohort to breaking down those that want to put on airs about being Alphas. Ultimately, I am above all, as “Alpha male” is nothing more than an oxymoron. There’s a simple checklist men just need to run through, and I drill it into their heads until they’re saying it as their nighttime prayers and begging to be a cucky little wallet drone:
- You’re aware I am a Goddess? (Yes)
- Are you aware that I’m being fucked by/bred a real man? (Yes)
- Do you know that’s not, nor ever will be, you? (Yes)
- Do you know that if a Goddess doesn’t want you, you clearly aren’t worthy of the title? (Yes)
- And are you aware that if you want to be of use to me, it will be under my terms only? (Yes)
sbs: That list certainly makes it very clear where a man stands…or kneels, I should say, with you. You’ve produced some very hot clips for your IWC clip store. Which one clip would you demand all readers of this interview buy to immerse themselves in your world of Femdom?
MA: “My Addicted Little BITCH” is my top seller and my must-have for humiliation junkies. But I dare real betas not to cut it short with one clip. Binges are the most fun and really get it into their heads that men are just meant to be abused, guided wallets in life.
sbs: I’m sure buying one would most definitely lead to more and the rabbit hole would open up before them. What can your devoted pets and adoring slaves expect from you upcoming in 2019 Mistress?
MA: I’ve been experimenting with so many styles that 2019 is going to be the year of the sadistic, true Gothic Cash Cuckoldress they’ve been jerking in anticipation for. I might have even worn my man down to help get some ludicrously hot cucky content out there. 2019 is going to be a year to test who will rise as the most dedicated Alexxxia Acolyte. Maybe it might be you, sitting in your chair reading this interview? In fact, I know it’ll be and the clock is ticking…
sbs: Mmm that does sound impressive and something to anticipate, Mistress. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions today. For those reading this, dreaming and drooling over the idea of worshiping and serving you, what advice would you offer to ensure they make the best possible first impression upon you?
MA: I don’t just expect, but I demand three things before approaching in servitude. The three R’s: recompense, respect, and research. Send a nice cash offering to show you truly acknowledge my expertise and influence. Show respect by asking about me and offering to me before going on about what you want, as your wants come after mine are thoroughly satiated (after all, I am a Goddess, and omnipotent beings such as myself answer to and make exceptions for no one). And last but not least, know what you are getting into before contacting me. Look at my content and style, consider chemistry, maybe buy a clip or two, and mull over my influence before you jump in. I already know serving me will be the best decision you’ve ever made, but I want you to go in knowing you’ll remember that day for the rest of your existence on this Earth. It can be a fulfilling, full, and enlightening D/s dynamic, but only if you are ready and willing to do everything it takes.
Without these three things, expect to scream and beg into the void of my inbox, my shadow cast over you forever.
sbs: Scream and beg into the void…perfectly described as a slave is ignored by the woman of his dreams if he’s not willing to obey and respect. Thank you so much for the opportunity to interview you today, Mistress. With your permission, may I please ask one final question before crawling away?
MA: I suppose I can humor you. Ask away, pup.
sbs: Thank you Mistress. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you, overwhelmed by your presence and beauty, how might the interview end?
MA: Several bills in my hand, a kiss to my Demonias, a slap in the face, and a playful rustle of your hair before I want you slink away into the darkness.
“Don’t get lost in heaven, dog~”
