slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, I find myself kneeling before the beautifully wicked Miss Maya Sinstress. Thank you so much for allowing me to interview you today, and welcome to DA.
Miss Maya Sinstress: Thank you for the opportunity.
sbs: It is a privilege for us to feature you Sinstress. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of your story of how you began with an entrance into the world of Femdom, and a little about your experiences that have come up along the way.
MMS: I began My career as a professional Dominatrix in 2000. After apprenticing at a commercial dungeon, I went independent after a few years. It’s been a very long journey. But through it, I have refined My skills & focus on the kinks I can truly excel at. Some balls were broken along that path. But, it happens 😛
sbs: Collateral damage, I’m sure 😉 Have you always trained slaves and explored female domination in real time as well as through online avenues? Are the two different in substantial ways?
MMS: My focus has always been on real time training. I’m a very hands on Domina and really like to sink My nails in. Playing online and over the phone can certainly be fun. But, it lacks that total power exchange and full mental manipulation that you can achieve in person. Cyber play seems to have more of a focus on the conclusion rather than the journey to get there. I prefer the roller coaster of steps along the path.
sbs: Just from your response, I think our readers are imagining what an amazing experience it must be to be in a live session with you. Are there specific fetishes you truly enjoy exploring in your sessions with slaves?
MMS: Bondage is My absolute favorite. I love putting slaves in predicaments where they are completely helpless and forced to struggle. From there, it’s easy get inside someone’s mind and create the element of fear or arousal or anticipation. Coupling that with sensory stimulation in a soft and sultry way or a fierce & stinging way really adds to the scene. On the other end of the spectrum, I enjoy heavy degradation based play. Forced cum eating, shower consumption, bi conditioning, cuckolding and raunchy play are exciting on a different level. Top third would be medical play. Play piercing, suturing, sounding and electrical play are amongst My favorites.
sbs: That’s a significant menu of fetishes to explore, and I’m sure our readers are dreaming of their favourites from your list. Is there a particular type of slave that is drawn to you, and do you have a favourite type of slave that you enjoy having in such a predicament?
MMS: Seasoned players are My absolute favorite. I appreciate people who have been around the block and have already pushed their limits. Then when I step in, I offer a fresh perspective and get them to sink even deeper. My play style is more intense, not for the faint of heart. Because of this, I rarely see novices. I’m not the type of Domme who is going to hold someone’s hand through a first experience. There are plenty of providers out there who will do that. I am someone you see when your fetishes are more refined & you want to be pushed.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, bound tightly before you, completely vulnerable to whatever you wish to inflict upon them, who might it be, and why?
MMS: Automatically, I think R Kelly. I just finished watching Season 1 of “Surviving R Kelly”. He certainly needs to be tied up and mercilessly tortured for his repulsive behavior. But, that would not be consensual. Ha ha ha.
sbs: Perhaps not, but it’s well deserved from all that I have read as well. That said, consensual is of utmost importance. From your previous responses, would it be safe to conclude that your style would be closer to the strict end of the spectrum than the sensual end?
MMS: My rules are very much set in stone and I expect them to be strictly followed. So, the tone is on the heavy and darker side. However, I am also very sarcastic and playful. I’m usually making jokes and laughing to break up the intensity. I can play on a more sensual level, but the chemistry has to be there for that. I enjoy seducing people when they have earned seeing that side of Me. Spoiler alert- It’s usually a trap.
sbs: A trap that simply cannot be resisted, I’m sure. I’ve been there a few times. Your mind is screaming not to go there, but your body betrays you and next thing you know, you’ve fallen into the trap 😉 When you have a slave in that position, they’ve fallen under your spell, their resistance and hesitation has evaporated, and they are yours to do with as you wish, can you describe that feeling for you from a Domme perspective?
MMS: That high intensity place is where I thrive the best. It’s a very powerful feeling knowing you have the ability to break someone or completely open up their mind or anything in between. When someone gives Me their complete trust and can just fully let go, I make the most of it. And we both come out with a huge endorphin rush afterwards.
sbs: Is there a Domme equivalent of sub-space for you, Miss Maya?
MMS: Absolutely! It’s a very rewarding feeling. There’s a sense of accomplishment & being content. I really put a lot of Myself and energy into playing. Another reason why I am very selective about who I play with.
sbs: For those slaves that are unable to see you in person for a session, be it because of geography, or the inability to summon the courage, what other training options do you offer from an online perspective?
MMS: Custom POV videos are My favorite means to play with someone from afar. I can show them what a scene would be like in My dungeon in Las Vegas. I also offer phone sessions and webcam by appointment. Info is listed on my website Sinstress.net
sbs: I promise to be a good boy and include all links to any way our readers can serve you in person or virtually, Sinstress. For those who are eager to serve, what advice do you offer to ensure they make the best possible first impression upon you?
MMS: Every Dominatrix is going to want a potential slave to do their research ahead of time. Review the websites provided, find out what a Mistress’ specialties and limits are. Comprise a formal email of introduction. Be polite, patient and respectful. It’s really pretty simple. Too many people just browse pictures and send an email with one hand on their dick. Those people don’t make it through the screening process. Don’t be one of those people.
sbs: Good advice indeed. Thank you again for taking the time to join me today for this interview. Any final words for your adoring slaves and admirers worldwide, Sinstress?
MMS: Thank you for taking the time for Me. I’d just like to remind people that there is no time like the present. With SESTA/ FOSTA laws as they are, more and more providers are going underground, being hidden online or leaving the community. If there is someone you have wanted to play with, you should do so soon while you still have the opportunity.
sbs: Very well said. With your permission, may I please ask one final question of you before crawling away, Miss Maya?
MMS: I guess. lol
sbs: I can beg if that would please you 🙂
MMS: Yes, that would please Me.
sbs: Well, I’m already kneeling, so I would be looking up at you with pleading eyes….please Sinstress, just one more question if you would allow it. I promise to be a good boy and put together an amazing feature to promote you.
MMS: I hope you can formulate a worthwhile question while I am leaning over and squeezing your balls. Let’s hear it.
sbs: Oh god! Well that actually leads into my final question more perfectly than you could imagine. If we were conducting this interview in person, with me trying to compose myself as I ask questions, overwhelmed by how beautiful and dominant you are, how might the interview end?
MMS: Well, the interview would have started with a remote control shock collar on your balls. That would make your job as an interview slave much more difficult. If you were able to complete the interview in a humorous but thorough manner, I would reward you with one of your favorite kink activities. But, only if that was an interest of Mine also.
sbs: I’m sure that from that extensive list you put forward, I would have no difficulty choosing something to explore with you! But the shock collar on my balls…oh my!
MMS: You’ve got to earn those rewards. Thanks again for your time. Have a wonderful weekend.