Miss Mae Ling
I am a well educated world traveler that has evolved to break away from social norms. Always learning, curious and full of passion and love. Leading with my heart, I’ve been able to surround myself with beautiful people. I have put the quest for self happiness above all else and discovered natural highs unlocking a path to hedonism. I enjoy challenging people intellectually, physically and emotionally in order to create a deeper human connection. I also thrive off creating intense situations that make you question everything you have ever thought about pain and pleasure, merging fantasy with reality.
Some time ago, I quit my job in order to liberate my individuality, seeking artistic inspiration and nurturing my creativity. Kink became a big part of my life and having to hide it was a lie that I did not want to continue.
BDSM became a lifestyle for me when I realized how therapeutic it was to harness my past traumas and let it lead me to forgiveness. I became boldly confident, accepting and loving of myself, learning from every caress, kiss, spank, bite, squeeze just how beautiful I am.
Will you prove yourself worthy of bowing before me as slaveboysmith did for this feature interview?
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, I have the immense privilege of bowing before the beautiful and devastating Femdom Goddess, Miss Mae Ling. Thank you so much for allowing me to interview you, Miss, and welcome to DA!
Miss Mae Ling: Hi! And welcome to my wacky world of fun, where creativity pushes the bodily limits.
sbs: So I have noticed watching you ball bust and otherwise destroy men you’ve brought to their knees. And here I am kneeling before you…nervously. Let me begin by asking you to share with our readers a little about how you began in the world of Femdom, and a little of your story that has made you the Femdom force of nature you are today.
MML: At the age of 16-17 I was held hostage by a family friend and was forced to do sexual favors. I didn’t understand what was happening, I was confused and brainwashed; but some part of me liked it, knowing it was wrong. After four years of therapy, a friend of mine took me to a dungeon. Watching all the different scenes, I felt like a kid in a candy store. I was watching what had happened to me, but in a loving environment where there was consent and aftercare. Femdom became so therapeutic and healing, to forgive what happened to me and be able to flip the perspective on it and use it to build a loving connection with my subs.
sbs: Well I have to say that is the most intriguing entry and I’m glad you were able to get through such trauma and find a silver lining as a Domme. Are there specific fetishes you particularly enjoy more than others, Miss?
MML: The obvious one that makes me giggle the most is CBT. Anything in public, I love the thrill of getting caught and people watching us, as it throws in extra embarrassment for subs as well. Impact, pet play, and Findom are ones I enjoy as well.
sbs: Can you share a story of some public humiliation that you particularly enjoyed?
MML: One of the perks of living in Vegas is that you can do this on the strip, and people just think it’s crazy Vegas tourists. I kicked a slave in the balls, grabbed him by the back of the neck while pushing his throat against a ledge to choke him. People walked by and didn’t even ask if he was all right.
sbs: My god…that must have made for quite a story for tourists to share when they went home! Can you describe how it feels for you, having a slave completely at your mercy, willing to take whatever you wish to give them?
MML: It makes me feel empowered, invincible, sexy, intellectually and sexually stimulated.
sbs: And what is the typical response to your presence and the vulnerability from your slaves? Is there a particular type of slave that is drawn to being humiliated and used by you?
MML: They always say I’m much more beautiful in person and that pictures don’t fully capture my personality. We are always laughing as I love cracking jokes as it eases into a more light-hearted and fun session. All types are drawn to me, but I only allow a select few to interact with me based off of their approach.
sbs: I’m sure you are in high demand and can have your choice of slaves bowing before you. Do only male submissives serve you, or are you also dominant with female submissives?
MML: I have a few female submissives, whom I adore the sensuality of. I also have a couple (bf/gf) who I play with, together and separately.
sbs: You’re obviously very beautiful and desirable, and I’m sure anywhere you go, men and women fawn over you, fumbling for your attention. Has it become routine, expected even, that anyone you wish to can be brought to their knees, or does it still excite you to have that kind of power?
MML: I don’t expect it, but it’s definitely fun to watch the extent of my sexual power bring even vanilla people to do things they never thought they’d do and get a confused boner/or get wet from it.
sbs: Well in just a short time, you’ve certainly made it very clear why you’re so incredibly irresistible to this slaveboy! If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do whatever you wish of them to please you, who might it be, and why?
MML: The Rock, Dwayne Johnson. He’s so charismatic and alpha male that watching him be beneath Me would give me the ultimate rush. I’m also impressed with his physical strength, so creating ridiculous tasks would be so much fun.
sbs: I’m sure he’d never be the same once you finished with him 🙂 And with all that you’ve accomplished so far, what comes next for you, Miss Mae Ling? What can your adoring slaves and fans worldwide anticipate from you next?
MML: No one is ever the same, they always come out better. I’ll be traveling around the world the next three months, teaching workshops, performing and building art installations for festivals. I enjoy spreading kink through different avenues, not just through Femdom. I believe the greater the outreach, the greater the community will grow and the more love and acceptance there is for everyone.
sbs: You’ve described public outings, intense sessions with humiliation and/or CBT. When you have a slave at their breaking point, ready to be made better, as you say, is there a “tell” that lets you know that in that moment, you own them?
MML: It’s a few things: the look in their eyes changes from a shining glisten of excitement to a glaze of submission; their breathing changes from a quick succession to a deeper fill of the lungs inhaling long breaths of me, their body sinks even lower to the ground.
sbs: That sounds like an amazing experience for any slave to give themselves over to you. Thank you so much for the opportunity to be in your presence today, Miss. Any final words for our readers who will no doubt be aching to experience the submission you describe?
MML: Come to me in your purest form. I do not drink or smoke anything myself and have zero tolerance for it. Thanks for the interview.
sbs: No need for any other vices when in the presence of such a tempting Femdom Goddess, I’m sure. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away?
MML: Yes.
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your dungeon, nervously asking my questions, how might this feature end?
MML: I would give you a friendly hug with you standing as a person. You have to pay me if you want to be treated as something less.
