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slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this slaveboy on his knees before the beautiful Miss Cameron Cabrel, a woman who lives by the credo: abstinence, submission, control. Safe to say that any cock within your control is likely to be caged, Miss? Welcome to DA, and please don’t lock me up!
Miss Cameron Cabrel: Haha! Thank you for having me! Don’t worry, lockups only come when you’re serving 😉 Yes, my intention with every submissive and slave is to be making the decisions about their releases for them. I’m starting to dabble a bit with Femdom camming, which makes it a little harder because mostly submissives want that to end in an orgasm, but I’m definitely more of a discipline and orgasm denial personality. It’s a lot more fun to watch their desperation turn into true servitude.
sbs: Well let me begin by asking you how you got started in this world of Femdom. Have you always found it easy to control men?
MCC: I was actually a camgirl for three years before I got into Femdom. It wasn’t exactly something I disliked, but there was too much of a “submissive man gives me money so I have to do what man says because he gives me money” aspect to it that I didn’t vibe with. Even in my vanilla life, I know how to get my way and what to do to get where I want to be. I could go out to bars and have my entire tab paid for by the end of the night and leave them there without even thinking of going home with them. Some of them actually loved it – they’d come back on nights they knew I was going to be there and pay for it all over again knowing I wasn’t going home with them. I started on NiteFlirt once a camming regular pointed out to me that I needed to be on the more dominant side of things. I wasn’t even sure what it was when he brought it up. Once I got into it, though, I realized my personality fit WAY better with being a Domme, and I’m a lot more passionate about it. I’ve learned so much since starting that it actually amazes me.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave that is most likely to be drawn into your Femdom web, and do you have a favourite type of slave you particularly enjoy toying with?
MCC: It usually tends to be the ones who don’t believe me when I tell them they very rarely, if ever, will get an orgasm from me. They show up and say they understand, but then they try to work around it in some way. As I said, I’m good at getting what I want – if it’s a submissive I’m particularly fond of, I work on planting the seed of discipline. They go from desperate for orgasms to trying as hard as they can to make sure I’m happy. My favorite submissives are the ones who are as creative as I am, and are serious about the fact that they’re submissive and want an arrangement with a Domme. I tend to have the most fun playing with them because they’re open to a lot and they give me the opportunity to grow instead of just dropping me if there’s something new I’m trying that I haven’t quite mastered yet.
sbs: You mention chastity which is clearly a favourite of yours, but what other fetishes do you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
MCC: I really love coerced bi. I love the ones who are already into it and are going to do it just because I said so, but it’s fun having the ones who are new to it and need a little bit of guidance. I think a lot of us ladies are into Financial Domination, though I believe in the longevity of it so I’m not going to just drain an account on the spot. I had to become tolerant of math because I like to help my submissives budget for tributes and gifts. I’m not really into anything “extreme” (though that’s a subjective term, I think) but I’ll try something new if a submissive comes to me and presents it maturely and with an intent other than “Miss I just want to jerk off to you.” In clips, I really enjoy homewrecking, and I love roleplay in MP3’s (but not real time or on the phone/cam, which is odd I suppose).
sbs: Can you explain what it is about coerced bi that you enjoy so much, Miss? And homewrecking…now I’m imagining a husband sneaking away from his wife to suck cock just to please you and that’s quite the delicious fantasy!
MCC: Mainly it’s the fact that a ‘man’ is doing what is supposedly the most degrading thing to his gender just because I want him to do it and it’ll make me happy. I do enjoy the humiliation aspect of kink in general as long as everyone is on the same page, but to be able to sit and know that someone is desperate enough to make me happy that they’ll go as far as sucking cock for me is such a turn on. I don’t allow orgasms on my phone, so everyone always asks me what I get out of this, and it’s that. The power trip and knowing someone is doing it because I said so. And I have 100% had men in their forties and fifties call me with their wives in the next room and suck a dildo for an hour!
sbs: That is a delicious image of servitude…willing to do something beyond comfort to please their Goddess. I’m more than a little familiar with that feeling! Any plans to bring this fantasy to life in real time sessions?
MCC: Maybe one day. I’m not really in a living position to be able to go out and do it in my area right now, but maybe in the future if I can get to a more fetish-friendly area. I have this ridiculously pleasing fantasy of a submissive on the ground sucking a dildo while I’m sitting over him with my feet on his back counting the money he paid me before we started. I fully intend on making that one come true one day, even if it is simple!
sbs: That sounds like perfect scene and I’m sure you wouldn’t have any difficulty finding a willing submissive eager to obey your every command. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, in that position, kneeling before you, sucking a huge black dildo while you count their tribute, who would it be, and why?
MCC: Honestly, I’m weird. The ‘celebrities’ that matter to me are all singers, and I’ve met almost all of the singers I really admire. So I can’t really say there’s a celebrity I’d want in that position for me. The concept is interesting, but status doesn’t matter to me as much as it does to the general public. I don’t want a celebrity in front of me sucking a big black dildo – I want a consenting individual who is doing it specifically for me. It wouldn’t really get me off to be able to say “Look at this celebrity doing this for me! Look how much power I have!” It’s different with owners of multi-million dollar companies, because they’re giving their money to me. But when it comes to celebrities…honestly, whichever celebrity is into the idea and I have good chemistry with. That’s the important part for me.
sbs: Chemistry is definitely crucial. When you have a slave in that moment, completely under your spell, willing to obey your every command, can you describe the feeling it gives you? Is there an equivalent to subspace for you as a Domme?
MCC: Yes there is. I definitely get into a headspace that resembles a massive power trip. It really does feel like being able to accomplish anything. I just made this human with free will do whatever I wanted him to do without question. I’m free, I’m powerful, I’m in control, and it feels amazing. I can remain aware of myself, the submissive and what we’re doing, but I definitely do hit what I call a Dommespace. I end up having to read or watch television after a session to bring myself down out of that high.
sbs: Can you describe the typical reaction of a slave as they find themselves in your presence, in that moment before a session begins?
MCC: Well, I don’t have much in terms of real-time experience, but the one that I have had a real-time experience with seemed more nervous and curious than anything. It was interesting because it was also my first real-time session in a dungeon with all kinds of different toys, and it was the exact reaction I was expecting before it started. Even with it being my own first experience, I was a little too smug knowing that he had no idea what was about to happen and had a very serious case of nerves over it. In terms of on the phone, I can practically taste the anticipation. I don’t allow orgasms on my phone often, if at all, so there’s always a sense of “Is she going to let me go all the way, or am I going to get denied like everyone else?” It’s beautiful.
sbs: Once you’ve built that anticipation in a slave, wrapping them tightly around your little finger, is there a “tell” that let’s you know you own them in that moment?
MCC: That differs per submissive. A lot of them just start offering me whatever I want, which is both satisfying and a little concerning. They don’t really have their well-being in mind anymore and trust me to take care of them in that state of mind. But when it comes to ‘tells’, there isn’t a universal tell for all submissives. I have one submissive that only wants to be reminded of how above him I am and that’s it. When he slips in his subspace, his voice changes completely and he sounds so small.
sbs: I can imagine that must feel immensely powerful for you to sense that reaction in a slave. With what you’ve accomplished already as a Femdom, what comes next for you, Miss? What can your devoted slaves and those who wish to earn such a privilege, eagerly anticipate from you upcoming?
MCC: I’m working on a chastity course at the moment that was originally being released in MP3 format, but I’ve put on hold so I can record it all into video to make it more personable. It’s going very in depth into what chastity is as a whole and how to serve me in chastity, which I’m very excited for. I’ll also take this opportunity to formally announce that I’m starting Femdom camming for the first time in the next couple of weeks. I have an account on Streamate and I have a Phone With Cam listing on NiteFlirt now, so I’m looking forward to experimenting with that aspect. I’ve rebranded a bit recently, so there’s a lot going on and not enough space to talk about it all. My website is about to become a pretty big staple in my Domme life, too. So much happening at once, but I love it!
sbs: It certainly sounds like there is much to anticipate for your slaves, Miss Cameron. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions today. Any final words for our readers, anxious to know as much as they can about you and your Femdom world?
MCC: To ALL submissives, not just the ones interested in me: RESPECT your Domme’s time. I always expect a tribute if you’re trying to approach me. I never expect a ton of money to be dropped in one go, but you’re being disrespectful if you approach me without paying. And that’s the same for any Domme. Have respect and show you’re willing to give a little, and you’re going to get a lot further in this lifestyle. And I hope anyone that does come to me is open to some fun and experimentation because I’m definitely looking for some new experiences lately! My world is unpredictable and I like it that way.
sbs: Well stated Miss Cameron. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before this interview comes to an end?
MCC: Of course.
sbs: Thank you. If we were conducting this interview, in one of those rare occasions when a submissive is granted an audience with you in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, how might the interview end?
MCC: Well, since you’re already kneeling, I’d say with you handing me money as a thanks for my time, and then possibly a taste of the lockup you begged at the beginning not to be put in. 😉 We’d leave it to the readers to guess how long you’d stay in it.
