FinDom Lady Stefanie – Strict Dominatrix – Passionate Fetishist
I am Lady Stefanie, in my early 30s and come from the Frankfurt a. M. area. Due to my job I commute a lot, so it’s possible to meet with me in several German cities from time to time. Most of the time you may be able to meet with me in the area of Mannheim, Franfurt a. M. and occasionally in Hamburg.
My focus is on long-term D/S relationships. I train my slaves to fit my preferences, so they’ll be able to grant me the utmost joy and benefit. Submissives, fetishists and BDSM novices are welcomed alike and in good hands with me.
At the moment there are no fixed studio rooms available for me, but this will change soon. So if we will decide to meet it’s your responsibility to look for suitable locations/rooms in advance.
I explored my dominance at a very young age and I am the born diva with a touch of natural arrogance.
Even back in kindergarten I knew how to twist the boys around my little finger. I have a talent for making the male nature bow to my will and forming men into my obedient, little dolls. Likewise I have mastered the art of oppressing, commanding and tormenting to make the weaker sex lay the world at my feet.
‘Tis early practice only makes the Master …
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Lady Stefanie: My effect and my inclinations got me noticed very early. In fact, I was already very dominant, demanding and bossy at kindergarten age. At this age you notice that you are different from the rest of your social circle, but of course you can’t really understand yet what it means.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
LS: I am by nature a mixture of dominant, arrogant, condescending and diva-like. It’s the healthy mixture that does it. However, I am quite able to be neutral towards people who have nothing to do with this scene. I don’t see Femdom as a role play. For me it is a character attribute and a lifestyle.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
LS: A well-known or prominent person. Hmmm. I can think of a few right away. But I don’t want to name any names here. It would be a satisfaction to me if I could dedicate myself to punishing rapists, child abusers and murderers to live out my sadistic inclinations. I would have no doubts about that. Slowly and painfully. Apart from that, I just remembered a well-known director who’s an avid foot fetishist. A foot worship session would be interesting.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
LS: Hmmm, difficult question. I am of the opinion that devotees always have to take care of the financial well-being of their worshiped Goddess. Why wouldn’t the slave want to present a gift to his Mistress? Money is power and the more slave money the Mistress has the less “own” power the slave has over himself and his life. A slave who refuses to be financially useful must have other qualities that are indispensable for me to consider him as my property.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
LS: A slave who serves out of true worship does not have to be broken. If he is not willing to serve me in a way that pleases me he is not interesting to me. Newcomers are formed by me and already experienced slaves are corrected in such a way that they please me. I always act within common passions, respecting limits on both sides.
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
LS: Oh yes, my preferences, inclinations and fetishes are broadly diversified. For example, I love humiliation, foot fetish, ballbusting, cum eating instructions, human ashtray education, spitting, slapping and so much more.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
LS: It is a fulfilling feeling. And honestly, it’s everyday for me. My slaves have to work continuously to please me and to get my attention.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
LS: I am very picky about slaves. Those who are allowed to call themselves my property have worked hard for it. I have a talent for quickly binding my slaves emotionally to me. There is no escape.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
LS: With almost all my slaves I have real contact. This is very important to me. I do not believe in pure “internet dominance”. Theoretically everyone can embody a dominant personality online but to embody this authentically towards a slave in your presence is another matter. That’s where the wheat is separated from the chaff.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
LS: The best way is to inquire intensively about me before making contact. Furthermore you should contact me with a gentle and meaningful letter. Here I advise you to do this via my homepage. There is a category which is titled “slave application” and offers various tips about my requirements.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
LS: Impress me when you offer yourself. Make yourself interesting and indispensable for me.
