Of course she is irresistibly beautiful…alluring and enticing. She builds desire in you that few women ever could, and the element of danger is highly seductive. But with all that said, what is it that brings us to that brink of sacrificing everything for that ultimate erotic experience? Today’s Feature Domme is the spectacularly gorgeous and sexy, Lady Olivia Fyre, and as she will tell you, there is never a shortage of requests by desperate men to have her play out their Executrix fantasies on film. Sometimes your ultimate demise is unforeseeable and you are manipulated into a vulnerable position that will cost you everything, but often, the end is clearly in sight and yet, like moths to a flame, we simply cannot resist the lure of a seductive and beautiful woman. We willingly surrender our lives to please her and to satiate that unquenchable lust for an even more explosive encounter. Welcome back to DA, Lady Olivia, and as always, it is truly a pleasure for me to feature your astounding clips you create. For any of our readers somehow unfamiliar with your work, they simply cannot imagine what they’re missing out on. Her clips are works of art, sensual and teasing, dark and mysterious and always testing the boundaries of your favourite fetishes. So sit back, take a sip of that drink that may or may not have been laced with something lethal, and enjoy your final moments with the ultimate Temptress and a selection of her greatest Executrix hits!
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction, looking devastatingly beautiful as she always does is the one and only Lady Olivia Fyre. She is not only alluring and seductive, but today Lady Fyre will be enlightening us about one of her absolute favourite fetish clip genres, the one in which she plays a Femme Fatale preying upon weak, unsuspecting men in their final moments. Welcome back to DA, and I have to ask, did your huge collection of Executrix clips come about as a result of custom requests from slaves seeking them, or is there something dark within you that should have Laz Fyre sleeping with one eye open?
Lady Olivia Fyre: August 16th, 2013 is when I posted my first executrix clip*. It was a custom request and a sequel to six stepmother clips created for the same person. That same customer still orders from me, five years later. In fact, Laz is editing a scene for him right now. As far as I can tell, there were only a few other studios making clips in that category when I began.
My submissives and customers are truly my guides. The “dark fantasy” niche chose me, and I’m glad for it. It’s one of my favorite genres to shoot.
*You can view my first executrix clip, “The Final Orgasm” here: clips4sale.com/studio/60555/9133433
iwantclips.com/store/221/LadyFyre/4671
sbs: What is it that draws men to this kind of dark, and perhaps a little morbid fantasy? What is it that excites men so much about being taken out by a beautiful, dominant woman?
LOF: What better way to answer this question than to ask a man drawn to the fantasy? I asked one of my long-time customers & fetishists for a quote and he wrote this, “My love of the executrix fantasy started when I watched horror movies as a boy. I can’t really explain why, but the evil Temptress who lures men to their death or into Hell always turned me on. I’ve always loved the idea of being unable to resist someone, no matter the cost. What’s a bigger cost than your life or soul? Also, the women are so far out of my league that I feel I should have known better, but I still can’t resist. Dangerous women are a turn on. Fear combined with lust is a potent mix that makes the orgasm more powerful.”
sbs: From your own perspective, how do you feel when you’re in character, seducing a man into total vulnerability in this kind of clip? Can you describe why you enjoy making them so much?
LOF: Executrix fantasy (in videos*) is one of the safest forms of edge play because it is imagined. If I’ve done a good job, I help the viewer to experience the rush without the risk. I experience that adrenaline rush as well.
Dommes like to use the phrase, “You’ll do anything for me.” In the world of online domination, “anything” is usually defined as humiliating tasks, gift-giving, and tributing. Yet willingly giving your life is the ultimate sacrifice. There’s this misconception that the fantasy is about that sacrifice. I don’t believe that’s what the executrix fetish is about. It’s about the eroticism of fear; it’s about the adrenaline rush… for me and for the viewer. It’s about exploring and exploiting the haze that clouds the mind of a male when he’s promised as yet, never experienced pleasures.
I meet a man and I seduce him in order to get him alone. Maybe I see that spark of desire in his eyes and I make the decision for him by giving him a little liquid persuasion. Maybe he comes with me willingly, unable to resist my charm. In the back of his mind, he already senses my intentions. He knows the truth. Perhaps in the fog of his lust he misinterprets my fatal intent as the energy of a “sexually liberated woman”. Yet he must suspend his disbelief and ignore his instincts– his hard-wired, evolution-gifted instincts– in the pursuit of pleasure.
I present the unattainable and then spin a web of lies using my body, my mind and my words. I excite him, bring him to the precipice of attaining the unattainable. Obtaining the unobtainable. I bring him to the brink of orgasm, bring him right to the edge of impending bliss. I promise him, with my perceived power, that it will all be worth it. When he believes me, my perceived power becomes real power. I get the biggest rush from that singular moment, that shift.
In most of my executrix scenarios, the men are willing. They might be tied, but they are willing. In some of my scenarios, men must choose to accept their fate and make the most of it. What a rush that is, to feel the shift inside a man, from fearing death to ignoring the permanence of death, either through convincing himself that this temporary pleasure is worth the loss of all possible future pleasures, or by acknowledging and accepting his powerlessness.
Men are not sacrificing their lives for me, they are imagining sacrificing their lives for one taste of the unattainable, and perhaps for one sip of the freedom that comes with complete powerlessness. I am the conduit for achieving the ultimate “letting go”. I believe it’s freeing.
“Men are weak” is a cop-out. It’s an oversimplification of the complex nature of humanity. Men are not prey. Men are not weak. Except in the moment when they are. I take pleasure in finding that one small weakness, that one moment in time, and then inserting myself into it. In my stories, I exist in the veil between fantasy and reality. I insert my sexuality and become a protective conduit between the two worlds. It is my hope that my viewers are so immersed that, as I puncture a hole in the fabric of that veil, they follow me through. In their minds, fantasy becomes reality if only for a moment.
*Don’t play along at home folks. It’s a fantasy for a reason. Keep it safe. Once you start playing along for real, it becomes potentially unsafe*
sbs: In your clips you’ve disposed of men by suffocation, stabbing, smothering, choking, inducing heart attacks, and probably numerous others I have neglected to mention. What was your favourite technique of all that you’ve filmed?
LOF: I prefer any scenario where the “victim” is willing, where he knows what will happen if he takes that pill, or that drink, or gets up on that stool & lets me put the noose around his neck. I do think heart attack is my favorite method though, as it more fully exhibits a man’s willingness to sacrifice everything for that one blissful moment on the edge. There’s no going back, like with the other methods.
sbs: Given that any slave exploring the Executrix fetish will instantly realize your talents in this area, I think I’m safe in assuming you get many custom requests from admiring slaves. What’s the strangest request you’ve ever received in this fetish realm?
LOF: I value my customers and don’t want them to feel alienated by me labeling their requests as “strange”. Let’s talk “unique” instead. I once seduced a monk and forced him to worship my pussy while I chanted. I have also done a karate clip though I don’t know karate. I’ve danced and hip-thrusted to pop music though I can’t dance. As for executrix, I think the most twisted was when I hanged a guy by noose then revived him only to hang him again.
sbs: For those reading this, thinking “if I have to go, what better way than at the hands of a beautiful dominant Goddess?”, how can they best show their appreciation for all your hard work and absolutely beautiful clips you produce, Lady Fyre?
LOF: I love receiving tributes at iwantladyfyre.com or gifts from my wishlist. If you’re not into giving gifts, you can show your support by signing up for a membership on my new site houseofyre.com to watch 4 new xxx scenes and 3-4 new solo scenes per month, plus see behind-the-scenes footage, photo sets and exclusive content. You can also buy scenes individually.
sbs: Thank you so much for taking the time from your busy schedule to speak with us today. For those who are simply dying to know more…sorry I couldn’t resist…do you have any final words to share?
LOF: Fantasy is not reality. Don’t be afraid to explore the darkest of your fantasies in a safe, consensual manner. If you have “dark” fantasies, don’t be ashamed. We all have thoughts that we’d rather not share with others because of our upbringing or societal conditioning. It’s in ignoring and subverting those fantasies that we set ourselves up for future trouble. There are people like me willing to facilitate your exploration of those fantasies. Ladyfyre.com/custom-clip-requests.
If you have yet to explore your fantasies or you have explored them and you find that they are detrimental to your mind, to your life, please find someone to talk to. While I believe in exploration, I also believe that sometimes exploration leads to the truth that change is needed. Please don’t be afraid to reach out to someone you trust.
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, with me nervously kneeling before you, looking up and wondering what dark and devious thoughts might be going through that deliciously wicked mind of yours, how might this interview end?
LOF: I’d silently walk out of the room.
