I’ve been a Dom/Mistress for over a year. A pro DOM, looking for local & online clients. Based in Missouri,USA, with almost 2 years in different expressions in the BDSM lifestyle. I DO NOT SWITCH, but will play to my client’s desires after we have agreed on soft and hard limits. I do not have sex with clients.
I accept Cash App:$LadyDomina, Venmo:LadyDominia-Byte, CirclePay, Paypal and Amazon E-Gift Cars as ladydominabyte@gmail.com. I am free to travel, at your expense.
If you approach me for training or offer yourself to me as a slave or for service, realize that you need to pay me for my time. Serving me means gifts, tribute or paid sessions- in person or online. This lifestyle is not free.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction is the beautiful and talented Lady Domina Byte. Welcome to DA and with your permission, would it please you to have me kneel before you for this interview?
Lady Domina Byte: Of course. Men on their knees pleases any woman.
sbs: Let me settle in and begin by asking how you entered the world of Femdom and ask you to share a little of your experiences along the way with our readers.
LDB: Well, I got into the world by way of my first college boyfriend. He was older and more experienced (switch) but he preferred being submissive. Long story short, he showed me what he liked and it turns out I loved it too. I also learned that I never favored being the bottom/submissive. He took me to some events, some play parties and I just naturally fit into the world of BDSM. I was welcomed with open arms. And as I found myself in the community, I found that many were looking for Dommes and wanted to pay for my services. I’d been in the scene for so long people began to assume I was a professional. I took my first paid job at 21 years old.
sbs: Just 21? Wow! Are there specific fetishes that you particularly enjoy? Is there a type of slave you prefer to have kneeling before you?
LDB: I love rope bondage. It’s become my favorite. The intricate details that go into the knots, the way the skin breaks with each movement, the change in the sub’s breathing pattern. It’s calming if done right. I’ve become quite a good rigger and my rope bunnies enjoy being played with when I practice. As far as the type of sub, each brings their own kind of personality. It’s more of the connection we make before I decide to accept their submission. Many offer but many don’t make the cut. If I don’t feel we mix well I won’t accept you. I’m above them in every way, and they know that, but I do enjoy when they can crack a joke in an email or letter.
sbs: Is there one celebrity, or well known person, you’d particularly enjoy turning into one of your rope bunnies?
LDB: Jason Momoa. He looks the alpha part but I have a feeling he’s all about serving women. And he wouldn’t look bad bound on my bed or better yet, mid-air.
sbs: I’m sure once you had him completely vulnerable a few ideas might come to mind as to what to do with your prey? When you have a man in such a state, all resistance extinguished and completely at your mercy, can you describe how you feel and what thoughts go through your mind?
LDB: It’s a high, just like when a sub is in subspace. My mind is still completely on the sub. Always on the sub. I have to be sure that his/her/they are always secure, safe and know that they are taken care of. Once the session is over I look back at each moment and relish it.
sbs: As do your slaves, I’m sure. Is rope bondage something you have learned along the way, or were you trained by fellow Dommes?
LDB: When you take the path of going out and meeting your local BDSM community you learn about, depending on your location, classes. I was lucky enough to be born by a city. It may be a small city but the BDSM community is large and diverse. I still go to classes if I have the time. Rope Bite’s we call them. Like-minded riggers gather together for food, drinks (non-alcoholic) and chat. This is how we meet rope bunnies that like to be practiced on. Sometimes their are other Dommes teaching but mainly rope masters that just love the techniques, but don’t actually Domme, but they do have D/s relationships.
sbs: I can imagine it must be something one is careful to learn proper techniques for and it sounds like there is an amazing community out there that is willing to share. When you have a submissive tied up and completely at your mercy, is there a “tell” that lets you know they’ve let go completely and are yours to own in that moment?
LDB: Yes, there’s a moment. A physical tell and a feeling. Physical is that exact moment the ropes are done, their bodies turning red and some skin is broken or I’ve emotionally broken them and they try to reach out to me. Whether moving their fingers to find me, their head if they are tied or their body tries to find my body just for a touch. It’s beautiful. Then there’s the feeling. Each sub is different. One sub goes completely quiet. All you hear is the harsh breathing and his eyes are closed. He’s non verbally telling me to continue, that he trusts me. Others do it in a different way. Some make a noise or moan and others breathing changes. That is also fun to detect.
sbs:I’m picturing you slowly circling your slave much like a predator sizing up their prey. Is that somewhat accurate?
LDB: Yes, I am very primal. I will go quiet sometimes as well. And I have circled funny enough. I just watch in silence. I want to see how they try to move with the restraints. I want to see if their hearing peaks just to hear my voice. Too many people want instant gratification while a slow tease and denial makes the end result much sweeter.
sbs: Slow tease is a delicious experience. I’ve been there and it recalls some very fond memories and electric emotions! For those that are reading this and loving a glimpse of your world, what is next for you Lady Domina? What can your admiring fans and slaves eagerly anticipate from you upcoming?
LDB: I’m slowly building up my dungeon actually. I eventually want one in my area. The only good one close that’s private is about 4 hours. We have club events and there’s one but it’s not welcoming to people new to BDSM. So my area needs to catch up with the times. BDSM isn’t going anywhere. So hopefully in the next two years it’ll be ready and waiting for new comers.
sbs: Indeed, BDSM is here to stay and thank Goddess for that! Thank you so much for taking the time to share with us today. It was a pleasure to kneel before you and learn about your experiences. For those looking to make a good first impression with you, hoping to be tied up by you in the future, what advice would you give them?
LDB: Approaching correctly. Many don’t and it warns us off. Many try to say baby in emails they send me. Don’t do that. We’re not your girlfriends. And read all the Domme’s media. Her website, Fetlife if its public, Twitter, etc. Most just send the email and never actually read our guidelines. Do the reading we take time to put out. Take the 10 minutes to read it and learn about a Domme before sending.
sbs: Sage advice for all submissives, Lady Domina…well said. Any final words for your admiring slaves before we wrap up this interview?
LDB: Yes, all men should know women are above them and should act accordingly. There’s nothing scarier than a woman with a closet full of whips.
sbs: Indeed, and with that response I just got a little more nervous about asking my final question! If we were conducting this interview in person, with me kneeling before you, how might it end?
LDB: You bound, but not gagged. I’d want to hear my name crawl out of your mouth. I would love to find your level of pain tolerance.
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