“I can be your worst nightmare, or your dream come true. Which one is up to you!”
I can be bright and bubbly as a Spoiled Brat Princess who taunts you, a nurturing Domme who helps guide you onto the next step of your life, or a cruel and unforgiving mistress who forces you to do unspeakable things in the name of punishment for her.
I enjoy a bit of variety in My subs and sessions. So what you get is really all up to you, and how you fill out your submissive application, should you ever choose to apply.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction is the very beautiful and talented Goddess Nikki Kit. Welcome to DA Goddess. Would it please you to have me on my knees in your presence?
Goddess Nikki Kit: Yes, it would. I believe men receive and absorb information better when they are on their knees focused on the speaker.
sbs: You have my undivided attention Goddess. The view from below is magnificent and it’s easy to see why you control men so easily. Has this always been the case, and do you recall when you first realized the power you hold?
GNK: I’ve always had an aura of calm control that makes people feel at ease around Me, and later on in life it started to attract submissive men to Me. I always had a pet or two in high school. One did My math homework and handed it to Me when I sat down in study hall every day. I didn’t need help in math, it just came so easily to Me that I didn’t need to do the HW to get 100% on the tests. So I was making boys do the unnecessary leg work for Me from early on. I called it outsourcing, now I know it was My dominance. It was satisfying to know that there were boys (and some girls) out there that would happily serve Me in some way just for an interaction with Me. I only started seeing these patterns the further down the online FemDom rabbit hole I went. I mean, I made My very first BF wear My panties and dresses for My amusement, and only now do I see what was happening.
sbs: And how did that early experience manipulating boys lead you to Femdom? What can you share of your experiences both as a real time and online Dominatrix?
GNK: I also learned early on that I could build someone up or tear them down very easily within a few sentences. I’m a fixer by nature, so finding someone’s flaws is second nature to Me. To put it another way, finding someone’s weaknesses and using them against them. As far as a real time Dominatrix, I wouldn’t put Myself in that category. While I may have been involved in some kinky activities that I did not know were kinky early on in life, I just write that off as Me discovering some sexual aspects of Myself and My partner at the time. I was unofficially, and let’s be honest unethically, dominating men at that point. I was just doing what came naturally and easily to Me. It wasn’t My early experiences with men that led Me to FemDom. The idea was planted in My head on August 31, 2014. I had just graduated High School, and started working at a strip club the summer before college. I danced by the name Willow, and on My very first day I was informed that the last Willow who worked there went on to become a Dominatrix. I remember that moment ever so clearly, because 18 year old Me thought in that moment “Wow, that’s not something I could ever do… or could I?” I, like many, had a VERY wrong idea about what a Dominatrix was, or what she had to be, or be willing to do. All I saw was black leather, chains, and cruelty. I thought I could never use My power over men to destroy them, because I knew in My heart that I could. And while I am manipulative and power hungry, I am kind and caring as well. I thought that disqualified Me from being a Domme. So I completely wrote off the idea.
HOWEVER throughout My 5 years of stripping, My Domme side developed in the background on its own. I commanded respect in the strip clubs, men cowered at My gaze, and girls would run to Me and tell Me about any disrespectful man in the club and let Me go talk to them. It got to the point where I was almost waiting for a man to put a toe out of line and touch Me or disrespect Me so that I could discipline him. There came a day where a man somehow managed to grab My bare vagina in a nude lap dance, tried to penetrate Me, and I grabbed his hand and broke his pinky in front of his face and laughed… That’s when I identified the sadist in Me. (NOT A MOMENT I AM PROUD OF!!) I had recently broken into the online world, and chose a username that had “Princess” in it, not knowing that I had assumed a Domme title by doing so. All of these subs were coming to Me and talking to Me with the utmost respect and reverence that I deserved, and I knew I was home. It took Me a minute to put all of the pieces together that I was at heart a Dominatrix, but now that I have I am so thankful that I now know the ethics behind BDSM. I can keep Myself in check, and practice with willing and high paying clients. I love every day that I get to learn more and more about this side of Myself, and develop Myself and My flavor of Female Domination. Because I was right, I can’t be THAT Domme I saw in My head all those years ago, but I can be Me.
I plan on branching out into Real Time sessions in the future, but I want to take more time to learn about Myself and My style, and of course train under some wonderfully experienced dungeon workers, as I only practiced “real time” sessions with subs who wandered into the strip club, and I honestly wouldn’t consider a kinky lap dance as a session.
sbs: It sounds like you are well on your way and are very much equipped to keep men in line. Does that control extend to other women who might wish to submit to you Goddess?
GNK: Oh of course! One of the things that makes it so easy for Me to control men, is that I am not attracted to men physically whatsoever. I am bisexual, and FAR more attracted to ladies. Boys want what they can’t have, and boys have always pined after Me because of it. I’ve always kept a feminine BF around (before you ask, no My lover and I do not practice FemDom kink in our sex life, but do lead a level 2-3 FLR depending on the day). My family used to call My lovers “pets” when I had them, because that is how I treated them. However, I always found women to be creatures of beauty deserving respect and worship, and in a way more valuable to Me then men. Boys are nothing but easily replaceable toys to Me, but women are SO MUCH more. If a woman were to submit to Me, she would be able to give Me more power than a man ever could, and therefore more satisfaction on My end. It is certainly a hope of Mine to one day have a female sub, and if she herself was a Domme, that would be even hotter. To dominate men (as She should!) and then turn around and submit to Me… all of that power would be so delicious to Me.
sbs: So if I’m reading this right you wish to have a fellow Domme kneel before you in submission? Now that would be something to behold. Anyone, or any type, in particular you wish for Goddess?
GNK: I don’t have My eyes set on anybody, because I don’t want to find someone and “make” them submit to Me, that’s just not where the fun is. But to have a fellow Domme or woman approach Me and want to kneel for Me, of their own accord, that would be absolutely wonderful. And think about it, would you rather instruct a gross man on how to touch his disgusting dick (seriously, most men repulse Me physically…) or tell a beautiful young woman how to pleasure her exquisite body, or torment it, for Me. Helping a shy or reserved girl who is submissive discover and explore herself, would be so exciting! Men I want to lock in cock cages so they quit trying to push their masturbation addiction on Me, but a woman… I would LOVE making her wear a Lush and have Me be able to pleasure her at any time with it during the day. I’ve done this with the Lush on sissies and LOVED it, but it would be even more fun with a woman. A Domme would have the most power to give, so having a Domme submit to Me would give Me more power than a man. It would be unbelievably erotic for Me.
sbs: That sounds amazing Goddess and perhaps a Domme that we have featured, or who visits our site regularly, might reach out to you. Along the line of who you might enjoy having submit to you, is there a celebrity you’d truly enjoy having completely under your spell and willing to do as you desire? If yes, who might he or she be, and why?
GNK: OK This is going to show how lame I am, but I know next to NOTHING about pop culture. I don’t watch TV… I work and I read. I know, I am lame and I suck as a millenial, but My time is the most valuable thing I own and I have a tendency to be pretty greedy with it. But, if we went with a character from TV, I would have to go with Sam Winchester (I’d take Dean too if I could have 2 LOL). He’s clearly effeminate, which I love, and has clear mommy issues that would make it just ever so easy to climb inside his head and wrap him around My finger. I have always said, I’ll take a boy with mommy issues any day. And he has great hair, a strong sense of loyalty, great at following instruction, so a great pet! And one of the VERY few men I find sexually attractive, so having someone I find physically attractive submit to Me, and who is that big, would be divine. (I’m 5’4″ and he is 6’4″) He’s not weak or undesirable physically, so it would be an entirely different experience.
sbs: He’s only 6’4” if he’s standing Goddess We all are below you on our knees. Exploiting weakness…very devious and sensual of you. Can you describe some fetishes you particularly enjoy exploring with your slaves? And any hard limits that are definitely a “no” for you?
GNK: In all honesty, I am not a huge fan of the term slave for two reasons. 1 – it is just too close to race play, which is a hard limit of Mine. 2 – it suggests unwilling ownership, and the capability to “trade” or “sell” them as property. While I do love owning subs, I have two good boys currently who have come so far in their training, I thrive on knowing they willingly submitted to Me because of My power and their desire to be a part of My empire. Power that comes from the love of your citizens is far stronger than that which comes from fear. That’s just good leadership. Aside from that, My all time favorite fetish is Sissification / Feminization. I enjoy both the coercion fantasy and consensual fantasy. But My favorites are those that are so eager to please and follow instructions, letting Me train them up into a prim and proper sissy for Me. I tell My boyfriend all the time we are going to have a little house behind ours one day where I will house a live in sissy who will be My maid. And of course have tea parties with Me! One day…
Closely behind sissy play and also closely related is chastity. I LOVE being a keyholder. I think men are unhealthily obsessed with their penises, and I like to train that out of them. I make them focus on their dick being a tool for My occasional amusement, rather than a utensil for pleasure. By the time I do decide to let them cum, they’ve usually forgotten what it feels like. It takes a lot to convince Me that you have earned the rights back to your penis nasty little things they are. Once I have a cock locked, I can force the person behind it to make whatever changes or improvements that I want, because they’re so desperate. I kid you not, I one time tacked on an extra day of being locked for every grammar mistake a lazy sub made while texting Me. Guess who improved their grammar skills pretty quickly? LOL. I love the kinky play that happens in clips or sessions, but I really get off on longer term control and devotion. And chastity is the perfect way to ensure that I am at the forefront of the subs mind, and the one ultimately making decisions even when I am not actively in communication with them. I have also had a soft spot in My heart for foot boys and virgins because they are exceptionally weak and easily controlled, usually so gentle and timid. It’s cute, and I like making boys blush. They can’t say no to Me. Virgins are easily trainable because at least they can admit that they know nothing when it comes to women. And that also means that there is a lot of “fixing” to do, which is what someone like Me needs from time to time.
sbs: Would it be safe to say the clips you have produced reflect these passions of yours? And if every submissive reading this feature were to purchase one clip to fully immerse themselves in your sensual style of domination, which clip would it be, and why?
GNK: In all honesty, My sensual domination is better found in one on one contact with Me. My clips are where I let My imagination run wild and I take on all sorts of different roles, each clip has some different spices sprinkled in obviously. That’s where I get to express whatever I want, however I want, and am not at the discretion of a live customer. So there are some extremes out there for sure, and more to come. I plan to incorporate more of My sensual and nurturing style of domination in clips, but that tends to be where I let My sadistic side fly. I did however create a “Nikki Knows Best – General Aftercare” clip where I am not in any other role but the natural dominant role I have all of the time. I light a candle and assure My viewer that his fetishes are valid and are part of what makes him unique, that he is safe in My empire to explore himself, and that his boundaries and limits will always be respected. (Or Her, I can’t remember if I gendered My dialogue in the clip) It’s a great clip to return from sub space, and My owned subs say it has made things even easier for them to have this clip so that they can feel My comfort and protection even if I am busy. I do plan on making more content along these lines. I almost see My clips as movies, and talking to Me one on one as real life. I don’t live a fantasy 24/7, and I don’t act like it. I LOVE fantasy play, and the art that is My clips, but a lot of the times in My clips I am assuming a whole different role for fun! Some people don’t realize this… and it makes Me sad. There are many different styles of domination, and some come more naturally to Me than others. I can’t be put into Domme space on command, UNLESS it is the Domme space that is My own nature. I have to get into character, like any actor.
sbs: It sounds like a wonderful clip to add to any submissive’s wishlist. I would hope it would be understood that to truly experience a Domme’s style, you must kneel before them as I am today. I must say, being in your presence is intoxicating Goddess, and I hope I behaved better than some of the males you have mentioned. So what comes next for you as you evolve as a Femdom Goddess?
GNK: Now that My two good boys teamed up to send Me My dream camera for recording, I am going to be producing a bunch of content, and in 1080p. The next step is to build up My clip store libraries. My goal is to have over 1,000 by next summer. I am building up a new subscription platform on AVN Stars, and they offer a live camming feature. I was uncomfortable streaming in live chatrooms without a following, as most of them are vanilla for the most part and people are sorely disappointed when they stumble into My room, and I got sick of explaining FemDom and respect to dozens of people a day, usually for no compensation. Or enforcing hard limits that they didn’t care to respect. Once I have a solid following on AVN Stars, they will know who I am and what I am about. Then I will have the perfect community to cam in a couple nights a week. I loved the live aspect of camming, but there was just too much that was unpleasant for Me. I hope to return to live cam (outside of prescheduled Skype sessions) once I have a solid submissive fan base to stream to.
sbs: It certainly sounds as though you won’t be resting until you have us all wrapped tightly around your little finger. Thank you so much for the privilege of an audience before you today. Any final words for your adoring worshipers and those who hope to one day submit to you?
GNK: That if any subs are reading this and want to get to know more about Me, seriously consider reading through My website and blog. If I have time, I may make more free videos, as of now I do have some clips up on YouTube for subs to reference about safety and budgeting. Above all else, don’t be too shy to approach Me. I take on many roles from sweet nurturing Domme to cruel sadistic Mistress, and I do enjoy them all. As long as someone is actually clear in their respect for Me, I am usually amicable unless I feel like My time is being taken advantage of. As I said, I am very greedy with My time, but I am always looking to expand My empire and continue to hone My flavor of Female Domination. My website explains everything you need to know about getting in contact with Me, as well as what I do and do not offer, and so much more.
sbs: And to that Domme reading this, feeling that weakness needing to be nurtured as she kneels and submits to you? What final words for her, beautiful Goddess?
GNK: That She should of course know She is also welcomed in My empire. It truly would be a dream of Mine, as I have seen other Dommes get to live it out and it is magical. I feel that as a nurturing Domme, I would be excellent for training a female submissive or sub. It would be a whole new world for Me, and I love trying new things. Sensual domination would mean a whole new thing between two ladies.
