Well hello, I am Goddess Lycia. And if you are a beta male you will soon find yourself in love with me. I know you have heard it all before, and words like “Lifestyle” and “Hypnosis” have become over almost laughable on the internet.
Gyrating Dommes, who shake their ass at the camera, have left you feeling confused and cynical about Female Domination. But fear not, I know what gets your heart pounding in your throat, and your mind spinning. It’s intoxicating, isn’t it. That feeling of contradiction where sexuality and identity battle for control. Terrifying and blissful.
It is too much to bear. And that’s just where I come in. Goddess Lycia. All you have to do is open the door and I am in. Yes. You may have regrets. But soon you will be too busy enjoying your new life to care.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this very lucky slaveboy kneeling before the jaw-dropping beauty of today’s guest, Goddess Lycia. Safe to say you overwhelm any man in your presence Goddess?
Goddess Lycia: I think that’s pretty safe to say. It is not necessarily about being in my presence, though, but being present with me. I’m thinking about real time, where I can be out shopping at the grocery store and maybe not “overwhelm” any man who sees me. But if we get down to one-on-one and spend enough time together, it will probably happen.
sbs: I wouldn’t doubt the grocery store boy is going to be in awe as well. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of how you entered the world of Femdom and what it was that led you here?
GL: Hmmm, wondering where exactly to start. Well, I have always been interested in power play. Before I ever heard of BDSM, I had fantasies about taking physical and psychological control over classmates I was attracted to. Eventually, I heard that BDSM is a thing, and I thought, “YES, there are others!”
I joined my first “kink club” when I was about 20. I was at the adult video store and saw a flyer, which advertised the predominant kink club in the town I was living in. I convinced my boyfriend at the time and our male friend to attend a “munch” with me. We joined the club and went to several “play parties.” The kink club was actually pretty small. It was lead by gay men, and predominantly attended by gay men, which I didn’t expect or mind.
The club was very helpful in teaching us some BDSM fundamentals, such as SSC (safe, sane, and consensual) which has now shifted into RACK (risk aware consensual kink). They taught us about “safe words” and aftercare, and a bunch of physical stuff like how to properly flog a bottom. I have been on-and-off a member of various kink clubs since that time.
Also, there was the internet. I didn’t grow up with the internet, and when I first had access to it, I was fascinated. I was especially intrigued by chat rooms- I discovered “adult” chat rooms, and honed in on the ones that were BDSM- or Fetish-specific. That’s how I learned about how D/s play can happen online, without physical access to the other person.
I found myself getting off work from the indie movie theater I worked at every day and going online to “play.” I was single at this point. Finally, I was informed that there were cam sites and phone sites where I could get paid for the things I was doing for free and for fun. I started out on some cam sites, in the BDSM and fetish categories. It was just webcam on me, and mutual texting with clients. Then another cam model, a male who jacked off for other men, told me about the adult side of “Keen,” which eventually broke off into NiteFlirt.
I played on both sides, as a “switch.” I wanted to try it all out and see what I liked best. Shortly after joining NiteFlirt, I realized I would much rather be the Domme/Mistress/Top, and became “Mistress Lycia” for a while, which I eventually changed to “Goddess Lycia”.
sbs: With that extensive background there can be very little you haven’t experienced and enjoyed in this scene! Are there specific fetishes you enjoy more than others, and does it vary depending on whether you are doing real time or online sessions?
GL: It does vary on whether I am doing real time or online, although there are many overlaps. I do not do in-person ProDomme sessions, so the real time BDSM I engage in is with guys I meet and like (few and far between, lol). In real time, I enjoy the psychological stuff I do online, But with an actual physical person, I would say my favorite fetishes are bondage, sensory deprivation, tease and denial/tease and delay, chastity training, and tickling.
As an Online Domme, my specialties are the same things I enjoy most. It’s mostly all psychological, although I will instruct my clients and submissives to perform physical acts. My areas of expertise include Femdom erotic hypnosis (which now we have to call “Mesmerize” or some such thing), erotic humiliation, tease and denial, sissification, and financial domination. I also specialize in the lipstick fetish, and some other visual fetishes, such as foot fetish, shoes/boots, hosiery, and smoking.
sbs: Are there any limits…fetishes you simply won’t entertain, Goddess?
GL: Yes. Depending on which platform I am working through, I have Terms of Service to follow. Potential clients and submissive should read those, so I don’t have to explain. I will always flat out reject guys who ask me to convince them to commit suicide, even if it’s just fantasy. There are other fetishes that aren’t really my thing (such as “forced” intox with alcohol), but I make some exceptions, considering the dynamic between the submissive and myself.
sbs: In person, or online, can you describe how it feels for you to have another person completely under your spell, eager to obey your commands, and fully submissive to you?
GL: It feels fucking awesome. Being a Femdom has done loads for my self-esteem and personal growth. It’s an outlet, for both me and the person I am playing with. It is liberating for both of us, to be free to play in these areas which are not often discussed- to let our innermost erotic desires play out. Overall, I would say it is liberating, empowering, and really fun.
sbs: Do you have an “ideal” in mind for a submissive play partner? Any particular traits we should be aspiring to so we can be the best behaved slaves for Goddess?
GL: Unfortunately, I do not generally meet my online subs in person. I have met a couple before, and it was fun… but I do compartmentalize my online stuff from my personal life. Just putting that out there so as not to get anyone’s hopes up for an in-person session. As far as an ideal submissive to play with, they would be of true service to me- doing things to make my life easier, depending on their skills. They would be loyal and consistent. They would enjoy humiliation and teasing, being “cucked,” and having their orgasms controlled. They would think I am the most sexy, amazing Woman in the world, and get an erection at the snap of my fingers. They would also be great at giving full-body and foot massages.
sbs: If you could choose one celebrity, or well known person to serve you fully, to kneel before you, willing to do anything to please and serve you, who would you choose, and why?
GL: Truly, I cannot think of one celebrity or well-known person I would want that from. I tend to prefer being the one who is sought after, and I become aroused by the other person pursuing me- as ironic as that might sound from a dominant woman. I don’t like to “chase,” or even the idea of picking someone who I have never met or formed a bond with. Now if one of my established submissives were to come out and tell me that they are such-and-such well-known person, I’d choose them. Once someone has chosen me and we have a D/s dynamic established, that’s when I can become much more predatory.
sbs: Fair enough…I’m sure you would have no shortage of those who would pursue such an opportunity. Perhaps some will read of this and offer themselves 😉 For those who are not able to earn the opportunity for a real time session, what kind of online training options do you offer for eager submissives?
GL: My Femdom audio and video files are the best place to start- they are all excellent training material. I also do Femdom phone sessions, chat sessions, and occasionally webcam/vidchat sessions.
sbs: Of the videos you’ve created, is there one in particular you would point to and demand that all reading this feature purchase immediately to get a true sense of just how amazing you are as a Domme?
GL: Definitely my most recent release, “ALLEGIANCE”. I’ve received a profound amount of stellar feedback for it. In fact, it has inspired several submissives to fully devote themselves to serving me, including the one who contacted you to interview me! He wanted to help promote me, and mentioned Domme Addiction. I don’t watch many of my Femdom videos after I’ve edited and released them, but I’d watch “ALLEGIANCE” at least a few more times.
sbs: Well if it led to the arranging of this interview then I’m going to have to check that out as will all our readers! You now have me completely intrigued to immerse myself in that clip. Any idea what it is about it that has caused such a stir? Beyond the obvious…it’s you and you’re incredible, I mean!
GL: Good question- why this video has been so popular and effective. For one, I think it has to do with “mesmerism” and mind control being popular fetishes, and although I am a well-established Hypnodomme, I haven’t come out with a mesmerism video that focuses on enslavement to me in a while. Aside from that, I look amazing in the video, and the visuals and audio combined have serious trance-inducing power. The session is legit- not role play. Also, the fact that I gave a warning in the description, that this video session is dangerous and the fact that it actually can be dangerous… well people seem to find that attractive.
sbs: Danger can be very irresistible when presented by a beautiful, dominant woman like yourself. I think it’s safe to say we will be checking out “Allegiance” very soon. With all that you have already accomplished and experienced as a Domme, is there anything remaining on your “bucket list” Goddess? What might we expect from you next?
GL: I am sure I will always be coming up with something new and innovative, though I do not have anything specific set in stone- or even any definite ideas. Being a woman who is passionate, artistic, creative, and who loves to experiment, I often surprise myself with what I end up doing next! If there is anything that can be expected from me, it would be a mixture of consistency from prior years, along with many surprises that not even I know about quite yet.
sbs: Well you have certainly whet our appetites for exploring what you have already done, Goddess, and for what may come next. Thank you so much for the privilege of interviewing you today. Any final words to those who are reading this, aching to serve you and to submit as deeply as possible?
GL: The interview has been enjoyable and thought-provoking, so thank you! To anyone reading this, aching to serve and submit- familiarize yourself with my websites first. Know that you really choose me. Check out some of my files, and make sure you jive with my style. Actually, I have a few different styles, so make sure you find at least one you really connect with. Then contact me with your interests, so that we can arrange a session.
sbs: With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work, beautiful Goddess?
GL: It may.
sbs: Thank you. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your dungeon, completely overwhelmed as I tried to focus my attention on asking my questions, how might such an interview conclude?
GL: Oh, that would be amusing. I suppose it would depend on whether or not there was chemistry. If I felt a D/s attraction to you, I would likely turn the interview right back on you… finding out how you got into Femdom, and what all your fetishes and weaknesses are. Then, if you are lucky, I’d use your confessions as a means to enslave you to me.
