Hi there, I’m Jazmin Wu, but from this point forward you may call Me Empress. I am a professional, and lifestyle Dominatrix. I’m best known for My holistic approach to BDSM, and My teachings on empowerment. My journey into the world of FemDom began in 2012, and since have been seen gracing the pages of Sour Magazine, Hustler’s Taboo, and Kink Queens Magazine.
I have a deep passion for rope bondage, female lead erotica, and sexual psychology. You can find me curating art-fetish photoshoots, teaching Women about the FemDom lifestyle, and hosting elite kink lifestyle parties all over the globe (well, when there isn’t a pandemic… now you can find Me online). I believe that BDSM is a unique tool that can be harnessed to pursue better physical, emotional, and mental health. In My practice as a Dominatrix I like to challenge concepts of guilt and shame by fostering a safe environment fueled by radical acceptance.
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Empress Jazmin Wu: Actually yeah, I’m a natural born Dominant. I was born into a matriarchal family. Women were meant to be worshiped. When I was 18 though was when I really began to step into My power, and learn how to hone it (ie. finding a FemDom mentor, studying BDSM). The story of how that came into bloom was very interesting. All of My interactions with boys I naturally took charge and enjoyed making them My little submissives.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
EJW: This is an intrinsic part of who I am. Though I don’t need to be in control 100% of the time, I tend to take charge very naturally.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
EJW: LOL, who said I didn’t already? Though I never leak any details of what happens between My private slaves and I.
Though, I think I’d like someone more in a political line of power under My control…. that would be interesting.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
EJW: Many different styles of submissives are drawn to Me regardless of race, age, or socioeconomic standpoint. I’ve never really been able to find a common denominator. My ideal slave is educated, highly intelligible, well to do, a feminist, good-natured, interested in fine dining, and enjoying diverse cultures. They would have their own passions and ambitions in life outside of serving Me. They are very invested in living the D/s dynamic 24/7. They are not sexually repressed and can communicate their needs sexually, emotionally, and otherwise. They are service oriented. They enjoy chastity, cuckolding, financial domination, the natural TPE, and just enjoying life at My feet.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
EJW: Though I have a hobby for ‘turning’ vanilla men, I always love someone who is naturally inclined to submission. Training is something I do naturally, so someone’s level doesn’t matter to Me so much. When someone is ‘pre-trained’ it just means they are projecting the play they shared with a previous Mistress on to Me. I don’t like that.
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves, and does that differ between real time sessions and online training?
EJW: My main interests are total power exchange and service oriented submission. This is best explored in person, but flows into everything I do. Any element of Domination and submission we explore contributes to the total power exchange.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
EJW: Active, hard core BDSM play is a total head rush, more commonly known as top space. I don’t always experience it, but when I have good chemistry with My submissive, and I’m completely enthralled in the scene it’s always intense.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
EJW: There are several verbal, and visual cues I look out for…. I could tell you, but let’s just consider that one a trade secret.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
EJW: I think it’s happened like 3 or 4 times. It’s always a bit surprising but I think it’s really cute when someone spots Me. The most memorable was in a luxury shopping mall in LA where a slave ran up to Me, and told me the story about how hearing one of My interviews and opinions on BDSM culture and radical empowerment changed his life. It was really sweet. People tend to always be excited when they meet people they admire online in real time. I’ve been a fan girl too. When I met Masumi Max, I nearly lost it.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
EJW: The best and quickest ways to get My attention are to….
- Apply to serve Me on My website
- Call Me on Niteflirt
- Send Me a gift, and in the gift receipt, send Me your email so I can personally thank you. Gifts always get a personal correspondence and photos.
- Buy a bunch of My clips, and use My mark up codes. That always gets a personal response as well.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
EJW: BDSM isn’t always leather, whips, and chains. Sometimes it’s just a whispered word of control seducing you down the rabbit hole. I look forward to when you find yourself humbled at My feet.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
EJW: With you on your knees, and My stiletto down your throat. XOXO – The Empress Jazmin Wu
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