“The first rule is you do anything I say. There is no second rule!”
BDSM isn’t just sex, nor a game, nor just a little fetish! It’s about true desire, it’s a passion and a lifestyle!
Being sophisticated, smart, elegant, beautiful and superior means I will most definitely love to manipulate your mind, transporting you into submission step by step, until having you totally surrendering to My desire… So immerse yourself in My universe with the hope you will manage to meet My expectations!
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Domme Clara: It wasn’t like that from the very beginning. Let’s just say my mother “helped” me a bit to develop a passion towards leather, since I always saw her getting dressed in it and twisting heads, but my first encounter with BDSM was when I was 16 and went to a fetish party, dragged there by an older friend. It was my first glance and from curiosity it started developing into something much bigger. I remember meeting up at a club with a woman that was actually the DJ of the club and also a Dominatrix. She gave me a larger view of what the BDSM scene implied, so that’s where it all kind of started from! Right after that, I realized how easy it actually is to manipulate a man with such ease!
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a role play for you when interacting with slaves?
DC: That’s just me having a very strong personality, most of all! I’m a very determined and stubborn person, so let’s say that most of the time I like things being done my way! The way I see it, this can’t be JUST a role play! It is kind of easy for me to “read” men nowadays. I pay a lot of attention to them when they interact with me; every human being has a soft spot for something- it’s just knowing which buttons to push and when!
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
DC: Anthony Hopkins for sure! He’s a man I admire a lot, mostly because of how he talks and his mimics and everything about him. He totally fascinates me. I love how he exudes a sense of certainty all of the time and how his persona always demands respect! Many think that Dommes can’t learn things from subs, that it’s only vice versa. I like it a lot when the interaction between us is not only BDSM related, but perhaps an encounter we can both learn from! I don’t think I would demand anything from him, besides a talk that will definitely make me grow as a person!
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
DC: No, financial domination is not for everyone. The simple idea of Findom has been so twisted during the years, that it kind of lost her essence nowadays! I think that in order to actually be a FinDomme, it’s important for you to know the art of manipulation, first of all. It’s first the brain you wanna play with and then the wallet! My personal favorite way of playing with a slave is aroma; seeing how they totally unravel themselves in front of me, when they are under their effect. That’s when they lose all their fears and they just enjoy their fetishes at a higher level!
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
DC: Both are challenging. If a slave has been trained before, that doesn’t give me a guarantee of anything! We all have different ways of dominating and different ways of submitting slaves. From my point of view, it’s always better to start from zero and enjoy seeing him “growing” under my eyes and guidance!
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite of many Dommes, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
DC: Aroma training, smoking, slut training, forced bi, CBT…There are plenty of things that I enjoy. It always depends a lot on the slave too, as stupid as it sounds…. finding out what makes him tingle and what his limits are, as well as trying to slowly break ’em!
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
DC: It’s definitely a rush! I love the idea of him trying to do his best to please!
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
DC: The eyes and the body language say it all, so yeah it’s easy to tell when that person is completely broken and “starving” for more! Many think BDSM is just some sick game that involves only pain, when it actually is and always will be firstly about the mind enslavement. Funny though… are sports all about muscles? No, it’s not only running or boxing etc, it’s about an accumulation of things that make you reach and surpass your breaking point. It’s both the mind and the body that expand, same in BDSM!
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
DC: Yeah, it happened a few years ago in Venice at the airport. One of my slaves actually worked there and saw me coming, so he instantly dropped to his knees in front of everyone there! His reaction was a nice one, since he cared less about what people will think if they saw him like this! From there many things happened! It was our first encounter after he many years serving me online. It’s all about enjoying your present! Carpe diem!
sbs: Which of all your clips you’ve produced is the one that you would point to and say “this is my favourite, and every Domme Clara devotee simply MUST own it!”?
DC: Let’s say filming and editing was a challenge for me…. Years ago I worked at a rock magazine as an editor and photographer, so I always had a thing for cameras. What made me get into it was Violet Doll. I remember seeing her clips and saying I wanna do what she does. I don’t know how I’m gonna do it, but it has to happen, it’s what I said! I was blown away by how perfect her clips were. Obviously, I’m not there yet, since I started from scratch, with zero knowledge, but I’ve learned a lot on my own during a year and a half and gotten way better at it! I love how professional certain models are. It’s easy to just push a button and record yourself and sell that video like this, but the challenge comes when you wanna create a masterpiece, something you put your sweat, blood and tears in it and that can take days, if not even weeks! Many don’t even know the hard work behind videos- the outfits, the make up, the filming and editing…. You only see the outcome of it!
I’d say my personal favourite videos to this point are the series: “The Lustful Overdose” and “Down The Rabbit Hole!”
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
DC: My time is very limited! Between having a healthy lifestyle, going to the gym, making my own food, having two pets, going online, filming and editing, plus all the other projects I’m involved in, there are times when I’m bored by senseless talk! The time you have now, you only have it now, it’s not coming back, so better use it as good as you can, don’t waste it! That’s what I always tell subs too! Showing your appreciation by buying clips and tributing is a good way to do it, it means you appreciate my efforts, therefore you appreciate me!
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
DC: Don’t say “what if”, don’t ask yourself “what would’ve been like if…”, instead create memories and be proud them; explore your sexuality and dreams, because you only have one life and fear is just a fictional movie in your mind! Reality is the struggle, so take the struggle and change your reality!
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you, how would it end?
DC: With you sniffing some aroma, getting totally weak, aroused and handing over all the money in your wallet to me! Smile for the camera! I have all your secrets “on tape” now! Oh look how easy it was to get your panties all wet!
