“I’m The One that will turn you into a very devoted sub…
I’m The One you have been dreaming of being dominated by!”
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Alexya: Since I was a teen, I have experienced power in knowing that I am erotically cherished and adored. Boy’s obsessive desire to have me, and their cravings for my attention end up putting me in control all the time.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MA: I’m a genuine Dominant, it’s My attitude, my inner power, and fetish. I don’t feel the need to play any role, that would be exhausting. For more than 10 years I’ve been in the cam industry being myself. Obviously, with family where we are all different, I’m not the Femdom glamour Mistress, but then with everything else and with everyone in my life, I have them under My control.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?
MA: Hmm, a specific type? Yes, of course, but sometimes even I think I’m too demanding haha. Let’s say I truly love what I do (cam domination), and I am extremely selective because my time is precious, valuable and I prefer to spend quality time with a sub that I’ve created or one that is easy to mold to my desires. I request a bit of everything, but most importantly, 100% attention while he is talking to me on cam. I don’t tolerate rudeness, never have, and never will. Most of my devoted subs tend to go into financial domination, but that is a big topic, and there’s not enough space to put my thoughts together completely about it. The thing is they would all love to spoil me…for some it’s Findom, for me it’s normality. For some it may seem stupid to pay extra while they pay for private time, but they still do it every time because it makes me happy.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MA: There is always a big pleasure in breaking a virgin hehe. I say that to all those new men approaching me, flirting with fetish life but still struggling to fully submit. After all, they will all submit to me after they join me once in private chat. No exceptions. For my entertainment and satisfaction, knowing that I will for sure have a good time, I prefer an experienced sub that knows how to please me in every aspect.
sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite of yours, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
MA: I am attracted to the feeling of giving pain, punishment and torture excite me and I love to play with their ass or mouth. I like sissies and I love having my feet worshiped, including nylons or heels. One style is not something that always works the same. I might want different style of subs at different times or situations, but it will always be in the way that I feel comfortable receiving, to make it perfect for me. Generally my style reflects my preferences in a very natural way.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MA: I prefer to communicate my desires to the sub and then allow him to figure out the actions that serve me best using his abilities, knowledge, and hopefully intelligence. It takes some effort on my sub’s part to think and to try to please me. But I don’t put too much pressure, it is pure fun after all. Of course at some point I will direct my sub to execute what I have command him to do if he is incapable of performing at his best. Some subs prefer to be forced into actions, some prefer to be guided. With both ways I have the power, make all the decisions and command the ability to play with their mind and body, so it is definitely a thrill.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?
MA: Let’s say it’s a special skill to be able to sense it. I see their reaction, I feel their fear or excitement, I create their future fantasies. Usually my striking beauty helps a lot to make them feel comfortable that it is okay to surrender. Most of time they are surprised by how strong and strict I truly am.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?
MA: Oh, yes. I used to go to adult cam events and I must say they get so intimidated that they don’t even say hello, they almost hide! They stare and if I talk to one, the first reaction is to be absolutely speechless, losing their words, red face, shy, trying to escape. Of course they write me after to say how scared they were and how sorry they are to not have been able to have any position in front of me, other than to be scared and confused.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MA: First of all I prefer cam sessions, and I would be even more pleased to see the sub on cam also, but in most cases they are too shy. So they send me tributes via my camsite as tips, gift cards on Amazon, or my loyal slaves may send bank transfers etc. To start serving me you will be required a minimum of $100 in any form to show you are worth my time and attention, only then may your training begin.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
MA: Stop expecting a magic button where they serve me and in the first 5 minutes they expect me to have dominated them, made them surrender, and drain them! In everything, there must be time and patience, respect and hard work coming from a sub to prove himself to me. Why would I choose him and not another slave when I have the power to select and choose the best for Me? Work hard to be one of lucky ones to have the privilege of serving me.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MA: Most probably if we were in a public place, you would pay the bill and kiss my hand, telling me how honored you felt to have been granted a few moments in my presence.