I am Ms. Elena De Luca, a Fetish Model, Fetish Film Producer, Performer and Educator based in New York City. I travel often, going wherever I feel will best serve my experiences.
I have a wide variety of interests when exploring the erotic art of BDSM in my scenes. With a decade of experience on film and in my lifestyle, I have knowledge in many areas.
No two scenes are ever alike. My style is fluid, it is dependent on the chemistry between the Dommes/subs and where my interests meet with those of my pupils’.
I enjoy scenes coaching men, woman and couples. All genders and orientations have a place in BDSM and in my scenes/under my tutelage.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction marks the return of the amazing Ms. Elena DeLuca and an audience at her feet once again for this very privileged slaveboy. Ms. DeLuca, welcome back to DA, and thank you for allowing us to update our readers on what you are up to and what is upcoming for them to be very excited about. How are you?
Ms. Elena De Luca: Thank you for having me back. It is an honor to be back on DA. Well this year alone has been a big change. The biggest being that I am not able to go on tour like I normally would. I have not taken sessions since March 15th. I miss it, but I’m trying to focus on the safety of my subs. In the meantime I have been expanding my platforms. I have made my iWantFanClub a much bigger part of my business and I’ve begun teaching online.
sbs: I’m sure your submissives are seriously missing the most important person in their lives without real time sessions, but safety is paramount. I know a number of Dommes we interview have enjoyed their iWantFanClub platform…what can you share so far of your experiences and how your slaves have reacted to your virtual presence?
MEDL: My subs do miss me a lot but many have found serving online to be enough to get them through until we can meet again. I find the distance to make teasing and denying so much more intense. There is an added layer to the denial.
sbs: Indeed, I am very familiar with that kind of agony myself! What type of distance training do you do with your slaves through your online platforms, Ms. Elena? And how have you enjoyed the new style of domination that you’ve had to adjust to as a Domme?
MEDL: I’m actually very lucky that I didn’t have to adjust to being an online Domme as well as pivoting my entire business this way. I have been partaking in distance training since pretty early in my career. I’ve been on NiteFlirt and accepting webcam sessions since 2010. I started producing videos in 2011. This was more like cutting back for me than a full change of course.
sbs: What aspect of live sessions do you miss most, Ms. Elena?
MEDL: I miss slaves trembling in fear of what power I hold over them. The reactions to even the slightest tough. Online just doesn’t create that effect.
sbs: Indeed, there is something predatory about watching a slave crumble before you that must be intoxicating. Can you describe for our readers your “ideal” slave and what Ms Elena De Luca expects of those that submit to her, be it online or in session?
MEDL: The “ideal” slave for me is about their obedience and ability to open themselves to me. This would start with approaching me in a respectful manner after having read my website thoroughly and researching my social presence to ensure I am the right fit for them. I always appreciate a sub that does their research. It shows they choose who they can trust. This allows them to be able to fully trust me. If they trust me, they can be open and honest about what they are and aren’t open to exploring. Plus they will be able to trust me taking them places they hadn’t thought to mention. I like to explore. I want a sub ready to explore new sensations, mental and physical. My slaves are there for my entertainment. i can’t play with my toys of they are too stiff or broken.
sbs: I’m quite certain you’ve both made them stiff and broken many a slave Ms. Elena 😉 You mentioned in an earlier response about teaching online courses. Would that be for submissives, or fellow Dommes? What can you share about the content of these courses and about your experiences with them to this point?
MEDL: This is very true. lol. I am teaching both, some classes are for other Pro Dommes as well as for the whole community. I taught a 3 class series on how to transition to an online-only business model and how to deal with the stress of the change. Then I taught classes on role play and humiliation for the community. The proceeds from my community classes went to support to dungeons I frequent, to support them through the shutdown periods. This Saturday I am teaching a brand new community class on taboo role play. 2020 has brought about a lot of questions as to what we can and can’t partake in as pro Dommes. I aim to create a safe space to discuss how to safely play with darker parts of the psyche. It’s definitely not the same as teaching in person b/c you lose the group input to a degree. However, I really like that time and location are no longer barriers so people aren’t missing out.
sbs: In these times, we have to adapt and take interactions with others in whatever ways we can. You mention roleplay a few times in that answer. Do you have a favourite roleplay you particularly enjoy?
MEDL: I have a serious hard-on for military scenes. I love the uniforms, the order, the inherent discipline. I watch Full Metal Jacket to get into the mood. I named my first feature length fill in homage to it, “Full Metal Mistress”. I also have an entirely military-themed project called “Fascist FemDom.
sbs: Safe to say that “hard on” you speak of may in fact be a large strapon meant to instill discipline and order in your slaves? You look absolutely breathtaking in your military uniforms, Ms. Elena!
MEDL: Ha! yes, I like to think of my dildos as a vehicle to fill others w/ my pleasure for making others suffer. The best part is the variety of sizes so they know just how excited I am about different levels of suffering.
sbs: Oh god! Can you describe how it feels for you to slide inside a slave, leaving no doubt about who is completely in charge? I will say that I have never felt more submissive than when bent over and a strapon buried in my ass.
MEDL: Sliding my cock into the bottom of one of my subs is a very powerful feeling b/c I love the idea of violating them. It’s right up there with foot or hand gagging. I like knowing I control you inside and out.
sbs: That you do…okay I’m sure anyone reading this is going to be aching for the world to recover and you to offer live sessions again! You are amazing. So…as I try to recover from that answer, let me ask you to share any upcoming projects or plans that you might have.
MEDL: I am excited to be moving to a bigger apt so I will finally have the space to set up a dedicated filming space. This nee apt also comes w/ a much faster and more reliable internet service. So I’ll be able to fill better content, more often and uploading it will be much easier for me. I love when a change in my vanilla life can be so beneficial to my kink life. Also, I have decided to resume sessions. Max 2/month for now. At least 14 days apart, for the safety of everyone. The city has reopened enough that traveling to a session to see me probably is not a big departure from everyday for my clients any more.
sbs: It’s exciting to hear that things are opening and also that you are doing so in a safe and responsible way. I’m sure your regular submissives are lining up for their next magical experience with you. With the new apartment, any changes to your dungeon that you’d like to share, or any additions in terms of equipment planned, Ms. Elena?
MEDL: I don’t have a dungeon in my home, but I’ll at least have a dedicated space for filming POV scenes. However, the main dungeon I use, The NYC Rubber Studio, has been adding a lot of COVID-related additions so I’m very happy to get back there. Mistress Ariana has purchased a UV light, disinfectant fogger machine and installed touchless hand sanitizers throughout the space. The items along w/ the new safety protocols are big factors in my return to sessions.
sbs: That sounds like the perfect balance, a home studio for filming and a playspace to enjoy your toy slaves. Now correct me if I’m wrong, but didn’t I see something on Twitter a while back about saving the NYC Rubber Studio from closing? Was there a time where it was in jeopardy of not being able to stay in business?
MEDL: The pandemic hit the studio hard. It’s hot most studios very hard. Midtown Manhattan just happens to have some of the highest rents in the country. 5 figure rents are hard to pay on a space that is sitting empty. I love the Rubber Studio so much b/c of how Mistress Ariana runs the space. Her decision to close the doors for our safety meant a lot to many of us. Several of us ran fundraisers to help her keep the space so it could reopen for us when it was safe. I donated all of the proceeds from one of my sold out classes to the Studio. It’s my second home, has been for a decade. I’m also currently part of a fundraiser for Mistress Simone’s Chicago Studio. As people we had the option to pivot our businesses to online only. Walls don’t have that option. If we don’t protect these spaces now, they won’t be there for us anymore.
sbs: I have to say, Ms. Elena, it’s inspiring to read your response and to know that the Femdom community looks after one another. Anything special planned for that very first time you approach a very lucky slave for a real time session after so long without the taste of submission and torment?
MEDL: I really can’t say, I miss it all so much. I think I’ll just excited for the rush. Although my lover has said I’ve been doing a bit of ball busting in my sleep so it might be best I get back to my ball busting slaves first. Lol.
sbs: Ballbusting in your sleep…oh my! God help the first man to kneel before you, open his legs and offer himself up for sacrifice. I’m sure whoever it is that joins you in your dungeon, whatever fetishes you explore, the experience will be incredible. Once real time sessions become more possible, will you cut back on your online ventures, your teaching and such, or will you continue with a balance?
MEDL: May Goddess have mercy on their balls. lol. When I do resume sessions I plan to maintain my online ventures. Hours of availability will need to change for the sake of balance (I’m currently available 11am-11pm Tuesday-Thursday, Saturday and Sunday). I’ll need to have time for in-person sessions as well. In the past I have always run my business in-person and online so it will really just be back to the norm for me. Online teaching will be slowing down. I think we are all reaching a point of fatigue with online learning. I also prefer in-person teaching b/c I can make it more interactive. That won’t be happening for a while though.
sbs: Something tells me mercy is a word you’re not all that fond of, Ms. Elena 😉 Of your online work, specifically your incredible clips you’ve produced, is there one you could point to as gateway for all who are reading this to purchase? We could consider this their first step towards perhaps one day bending a knee before you in a real time session.
MEDL: I always say “God has mercy, I do not.” Picking one clip out of so many is truly a tough one. The best way to introduce yourself might be my “January Jerk-Off” 30 day challenge. It’s a good way for the POV viewer to cultivate and deepen their devotion to me thru a series if tease, denial, CEI and JOI. Of course for the more physically masochist players, they should check out my other project, http://FascistFemDom.com.
sbs: I’m guessing after 30 days there will be a lot of fruitless begging for mercy! That is something we will all need to check out. Thank you so much for the chance to catch up with you during these strange times. Is there anything else you’d like to share with our readers?
MEDL: I do love the sound of begging. Thank you so much for having me on again! It’s been a crazy year and I’m glad I could provide a little normalcy in it. After my move, I’ll be celebrating my birthday November 2nd and then I will be even more active so it’s best to keep up by following my Twitter, @ElenaDeLuca and by signing up for my mailing list on http://NYDominatrix.com. Thank you again!
sbs: As with our previous interview, it was intoxicating to be in your presence Ms. Elena. With your permission, and of course, a great deal of begging, might you permit this slaveboy one final question before he crawls away and gets to work on your feature?
MEDL: Only b/c you approach so respectfully and ask so humbly, yes.
sbs: Thank you and it’s impossible to imagine any man in my position not feel your power and being humbled in an instant. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you nervously in your dungeon, asking my questions as I desperately try not to be distracted by your overpowering presence, how might such an interview conclude?
MEDL: For being such a delightful and respectful interviewer I would allow you bow your head further and kiss my beautiful boots goodbye.
