Femdom Videos: Domme’s Choice reveals “must buy” clips as directed by the Feature Domme herself. Click on the clip titles to follow the links, buy the clips, and embrace the surrender. Goddess Bardot Smith says…now obey like a good boy!
slaveboysmith: Any man wishing for even a morsel of your valuable attention must pay, that much is clear and logical. Whether they are sending tributes or buying clips like this one, paying is a must. But for those that cross that threshold into true financial domination, where arousal and weakness are caused by paying larger and larger amounts, what are some of the signs for you as a Goddess as that process begins?
Goddess Bardot Smith: Long before clip sites existed, I had a simple Tumblr page with a few links and a contact method. No photos, just language. I triggered my first five-figure binge on that alone along with a few precise emails in response to the inquiry. As I’ve built out representations of my existence online, it is with the intent to condition favorable (for me) responses to it. But even before the age of clips, I was able to target and process the spending urge in men. A lot of times, at the onset of a binge, he will come to me with some complaint that it isn’t fair how easy it is for me (music to my ears) and that if he starts spending he won’t be able to stop. But by the time you’ve wandered up to me to tell me that, it’s too late. Now it’s play time.
sbs: As a slave who has never experienced a hands free orgasm, I have to ask…is this really possible?!? What exactly do you do through the computer screen that is that powerful and overwhelming that you can push a slave over that edge so easily Goddess Bardot?
GBS: Well. I wouldn’t say it’s easy. Men would be even more fucked than they already are. Computer screen notwithstanding, if I can manipulate your thoughts while I overwhelm your senses, I can do whatever I like with you. Men come to porn all the time “through a computer screen” so it’s not hard to believe that I could elicit that response. I think I became aware of the hands-free phenomenon FROM subs reporting that they could not make it through a clip without losing it. No additional stimulation required. My clips are efficient, many are on the short side. In a few minutes I can invade your thoughts to the point that you will hear my voice responding to them. Try not to cum.
sbs: In your clip description for this amazing clip you ask, “Do you want to fuck me? Or do you want ME to fuck YOU?” I’m resisting the urge to shout “BOTH Goddess!” Safe to say this financial domination clip isn’t for beginners or those with little to give? Can you describe for our readers what it feels like to push a slave into such loss of control and do you have built in limits to how you exert your power over them?
GBS: Well, the first built in limit that we have is that we are separated by distance and connected through technology. Subs can and do tap out and walk away. I don’t have time to pursue this part of the addiction cycle and they cycle back. It’s not up to me to manage their money, just collect it. 😉 When someone comes up (or back) to drop a bunch of cash, it is a victory that my work over time has produced, no pushing required. That said, knowing that money can be earned in any amount, I know that most subs can spend more than they feel is their max…and I like to find out how much more.
sbs: The inability of men to draw away from what harms them financially is at the heart of the Findom relationship for many. What is it about you that makes it virtually impossible for any man to shake their addiction, to pull away from the desire and to free themselves once they have fallen prey to you, Goddess Bardot?
GBS: Are they really prey if they enjoy it? There’s a reason sailors were warned about sirens. My voice could lull anyone into a false sense of security in the face of danger if I choose to use it that way…It plays into that mythos. But in a world where money is power and security, the biggest “threat” to men is losing all of his money. Part of what sets the stage for this dynamic is that fear. Of course relinquishing money, what we use to quantify “power,” is erotic. If you want to have an effect on me, I’ve already had one on you…Money just makes it real.
sbs: As with any powerful woman who shares powerful opinions, you have your share of haters I’m sure. Yet following you as I have, you seem to delight in the hostility that so many feel towards you even as you take from them so easily. How is breaking down a resistant submissive and one who resents your control different from so many who willingly obey your every command and offer nothing in the way of resistance? Is there a special pleasure for you in watching the most resistant of your devotees eventually crumble and give you everything?
GBS: A resistant submissive breaks themself down. I’m never going to “make” anyone send money. If a sub isn’t ready to engage me directly, they can watch clips or read my Twitter…As many will report, just reading my thoughts can be devastating. What I leave out “for free” in public is often doing the work of breaking down resistance without any synchronous time and energy being spent.
I would say men may resent my influence over them more than my control. I don’t have time to “control” anyone who is bitchy about it. But there is special joy in receiving confessional payments. Just remember, I do not get tired when you resist your own nature, only you do. Good luck.
