Welcome, slave! On your knees before me! I’m Mistress Lucy Lash, your smart, sadistic and sensual Mistress. I will make you suffer, submit and squirm in pain and pleasure. I offer JOI, CEI, CBT and SPH as well as feminization, sissification, discipline, humiliation, worship and all kinds of perverted role play including cuckolding and mommy/daddy play. I love turning you into a bisexual slut and teach you how to give a proper blow job before I fill your holes with my strap on or even pimp you out to earn money for me.
You have a weird fetish that you’re hesitant to even talk about? Great! Come explore your darkest desires with me.
slaveboysmith: Smart, seductive & sometimes sweet…today’s Feature Domme, gorgeous German Seductress Mistress Lucy Lash, is a woman any man would feel compelled to kneel in the presence of. And today, this very lucky slaveboy finds himself in just such a privileged position. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and thank you for your willingness to share your story today.
Mistress Lucy Lash: Hello slaveboy, I appreciate you being in service today. When my slaves ask me how to serve I often tell them to make up their own mind and come up with creative ways to make my life easier. I think you doing these interviews for DA is a great example of that. So to everyone who reads this: take notes! Servitude starts with thinking of your Goddess’ needs and wishes.
sbs: It is truly a privilege to do what I do and to kneel before beautiful dominant women like yourself Mistress Lucy. Let me begin by asking you to share a little of your story and how you entered the world of Femdom. Do you recall when you first realized the power you held over others, and how did that lead you to where you are today?
MLL: I can tell you that I’ve always been a kinkster myself – I remember buying 2nd hand fetish heels as a teenager to decorate my room, drooling at the sharp and shiny heels. I was socialized in the goth community which was very fetish friendly and I came across all kinds of kinksters and Dommes already by the age of 16. I remember being in awe of the power those Dommes emanated and the seed was planted – one day I’m going to be one of them. I’ve always had a strong personality and did my own thing, even as a child. At some point I realized that this independence made me stronger than most people. In my twenties I moved to Berlin and experimented a lot with my sexuality. I’m pansexual and poly and had a lot of different romantic and play partners. I went to lots of sex positive parties and got more involved in the kink scene. Getting into domination felt like a natural process to me and is founded upon a deep love of deviant sexuality and a feeling of inner security. My independence, life experience and personal liberation naturally makes me a Domme.
sbs: It’s very evident from your response that you have found your rightful place Mistress. Can you describe how it feels to hold the kind of power you do over others? As you approach a slave in session, seeing their nervousness and excitement from being in your presence, that must be some kind of rush!
MLL: Yes, I always get a rush out of the awareness of my power. I love the mixture of fear and awe that I see in my slave’s eyes and there’s something magical in it when I feel them truly surrender. It’s an amazing experience to grow into mutual trust especially with regulars. They know they’re in safe hands with me because even if I make them punch their balls for the 30th time, I do it not only out of a sadistic thrill that I get from it but also out of a deep appreciation of their existence as my slave. I believe that the most important skill as a Domme is to listen, to tune in and to build relationships with slaves. If there’s a good relationship built on trust it creates a space where anything is possible, a kind of feedback loop that both me and the slave benefit from. I feel fulfilled and inspired after a good session.
Recently I had a quite extreme castration role play and while I’m going to spare you the gory details, I found myself (and my slave) surprised about how far my imagination went because we were ‘hyping’ each other up about it – that’s what I call a successful feedback loop! I also produced a handful of clips but quickly noticed that I’m a total session Domme. I just love the exchange that happens, the power I hold and the surrender on the side of the slaves. It makes me high.
sbs: When you have the opportunity to have a slave kneeling before you, slowly circling them as they nervously await the privilege of submitting to, and worshiping you, are there specific fetishes you most enjoy, or is it always based on the wishes of the submissive? Any limits our readers should know not to ask about?
MLL: I enjoy many things and I’m always open to and learning about new fetishes. My absolute favorites would probably be strapon play (including, but not limited to, forced bisexuality), sissification and role play. I just love it when my huge strapon turns a slave into a slutty cock hungry bottom and he experiences the pleasure of true surrender and submission. There’s so much power in fucking someone stupid. Being pansexual myself I love anything queer and deeply enjoy turning a slave into a faggot slut and blowjob bitch.
My love for sissification comes from a similar place – I think it’s beautiful to turn someone into a sissy and enable them to explore their femininity. I’m personally not into humiliating sissies as ugly or not feminine enough for that reason. Fun fact: my first boyfriend was a sissy! With sissies I can explore my sweeter and more nurturing side, the Mommy in me. Which of course doesn’t mean that I can’t also be nasty and humiliating at the same time – Mommy is mean sometimes! I mentioned role play mainly because I love the creativity of it. I have all kinds of kinky scenarios in my head all of the time and building one together with a slave is a special kind of fun. I can come up with the most outrageous scenes and characters! A regular of mine calls me the ‘role play queen’ for a reason.
Hard limits of mine are Emetophilia, Pedophilia and Zoophilia.
sbs: Mommy is mean sometimes! And we have our quote! Wow…amazing. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person truly surrender, taking your biggest strapon and turning into a hungry bottom for cock, who would you choose, and why?
MLL: I would definitely choose James Franco. I love that he directed “Interior. Leather. Bar”, a movie about the gay cruising scene in the 1980s, and has been flirting with queerness for a long time. He would be my perfect bottom bitch! I imagine smacking his pretty little face real hard and making him gag on my huge cock. Maybe I take him to the glory hole later, put his faggot ass in tiny leather shorts and turn him into a cum dumpster for my entertainment. Yum!
sbs: Oh my! I have no idea if he reads our site but if he does…now that’s enough to make a man drool and ache to submit! Is it always men who submit to you or do you also have female submissives that worship and serve you? If so, are there significant differences in the type of sessions, and the ways in which each comes under your control?
MLL: I mostly have male slaves but I used to do cam shows with my sub Lexi Star which were always a lot of fun. I also have a few regulars who identify more along the gender fluid spectrum including a trans woman. I love having submissives from all genders! In my experience female and gender fluid subs tend do be a little bit softer but in no way less perverted than male subs. There’s a special kind of queer pleasure I feel when female and feminine slaves submit to me.
sbs: No matter the gender, they all fall to their knees before you, I’m sure. With the world in flux as it is, and many unable to see you for a real time session, what type of distance/online training and submission opportunities are available to those who crave an audience before you, Mistress Lucy?
MLL: I offer sessions on Chaturbate and Skyprivate as well as long distance chastity control. I only offer online sessions anyways so fortunately for me not much has changed during this strange time. I like being able to play with subs from all over the world and a public chatroom like on Chaturbate creates a very entertaining environment for me where many subs can serve me at once with public tasks and punishments, and mean games.and exposure. Private sessions are available on both platforms.
sbs: Are real time sessions something you’ve considered and perhaps may one day be an option, or is that a hard no?
MLL: Real time sessions are definitely an option, but where I live the Pro Domme scene is a little oversaturated, so online domination is a better option for me currently. I do miss the physical side of it sometimes though! There’s nothing like beating someone’s ass until it’s purple….I’ve considered shifting to real time sessions but now I have so many online regulars that I wouldn’t wanna leave them hanging. And I love the bigger and more international audience online sessions make possible. It’s easier to find very niche clientele and it’s amazing how faithful online slaves can be. I have a few subs who’ve been around for years – ever since I started!
sbs: Why would they ever leave?!? With all that you have already experienced and accomplished in the world of Femdom, what comes next for you Mistress Lucy? What can your devoted followers and servants around the world eagerly anticipate from their Queen?
MLL: I’m currently working on producing a series of double Domme audio clips with Miss Vendelay. We already released two clips, a goth sissification clip and a candid SPH clip. There’s a forced bisexuality clip in the making as we speak and soon we will record more. We developed this format together and are having a lot of fun coming up with kinky ideas and recording together. You can find the clips in my iWantClips Store.
sbs: As a matter of “research” I did look through your clipstore and there are some amazing offerings there catering to many a fetish. If you had to choose one clip to demand that all reading this feature purchase immediately to best get a sense of your style as a Domme, which clip would you choose, and why?
MLL: I would choose the clip “Sensual Sissification” because I think it gives a good impression of my sweeter Mommy side. I was inspired by a new category on iWantClips called ‘positive Femdom’. I absolutely agree with the idea that not all Femdom has to be mean and degrading and it was a pleasure to film this clip in a supportive spirit. I even included positive sissy affirmations at the end. I believe that Femdom can turn subs into their better selves and this clip is a good example for this potential.
sbs: For those reading this, hungry to submit to you and become their best self, what advice would you offer them to ensure they make the best possible first impression when approaching you Mistress?
MLL: I’m glad you asked because there seems to be a lot of confusion on the side of subs or how else would they explain their bad behavior?! Being a good boy can be so easy: approach your Mistress with respect. Communicate clearly what you are looking for and what your limits are. Show up when you said you would. Leave a tribute or get a gift for your Goddess. You are not entitled to your Mistress’ time and energy so always stay humble.
sbs: For those of us who live this way, it does seem remarkably simple and logical, but evidence suggests there are many out there who don’t seem to understand what is expected. Thank you so much for the opportunity to interview you today Mistress Lucy, and for your candid responses to my questions. Any final words for our readers at DA?
MLL: You’re welcome slaveboy, it was a pleasure to speak about my experiences. I think it’s important to remember for both submissives and Dommes how truly mind bending, transformative and liberating explorations in sexuality and kink can be. Neither side should take this for granted! I believe that a good relationship between slave and Domme is fundamental and I encourage slaves especially in this fast online age to find a Domme they are faithful to. It will pay off in many ways!
sbs: Indeed it is a special bond between Domme and submissive, and I have felt it throughout this interview. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature?
MLL: You may.
sbs: If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in your dungeon, in awe of being in your presence and feeling your power as I asked my questions, how might such an interview conclude?
MLL: Such an interview might conclude with me leaving a few pretty purple marks on your ass…from my hands, my paddle, my whip and finally my riding crop. And now crawl away and do your work to please me, slaveboy!
