After years back and forth, trying and discovering, I have harnessed my power to enchant my submissives as I delve into the very depths of their being. I know your secrets before you even tell them to me. I am beautiful, intelligent and sexy, and I know how to violate your manhood. I am the perfect balance between indulgence and discipline. You should know your place and never expect anything of me! Now bow down, and submit to me my boys.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction I find myself in absolute awe as I kneel, looking up at the astonishingly beautiful Miss Elenya. Welcome to DA, Miss, and thank you for the privilege of interviewing you and sharing your story.
Miss Elenya: Hi there! Thank you for offering this opportunity. I look forward to sharing with you my experience as a Domme. Pleasure is also mine!
sbs: I’m sure our readers are excited to learn more about you! Let me begin by asking you to share a little of how you entered the world of Femdom. When did you first begin to realize the power you hold over others, and how did that lead you to where you are today as a Dominatrix?
ME: My first meeting with Femdom and the BDSM world was in November 2016 when I became a cam model for one of the most famous studios here in Bucharest, Lourdes studio. I must admit I did not know anything about this BDSM concept, not even about what a cam model is and what this job was about. But with time, discovering them both, I realised that being a Mistress here online is in fact what I like to do the most while streaming because it was something I was doing with pleasure and it helped me to be myself at the same time. After finding out what this is all about I realised it’s in fact what I am and how I had behaved ever since I was a kid. I always had to have people pleasing me, doing what I wish, when I wish and so on. I started to read and study about each fetish and also learn more and more by experience in every private session I had for over 4 years. Even so, I do think that as in any other domain, this is one that requires study and an open minded attitude to be able to succeed and stay on top of the pyramid. For me, being a Femdom is not just a way of earning my existence, it is in fact who I am in my day to day life.
sbs: Are there specific fetishes within Femdom that you like best and enjoy most, Miss Elenya? And has your domination of slaves stayed online only, or do you also dominate slaves real time?
ME: I can’t really name a favourite one but let’s say I love to play with a slave’s mind, make him want to serve, feel like pleasing me every second, indulge the desire to make me smile and happy by completing each and every order he takes. I don’t like extreme body pain, extreme human degradation, I don’t like and never did toilet games. I do consider D/s relationships like any other relationship, in which each of the partners have needs and limits that need to be fulfilled and respected. I give the orders as a Mistress but they are always respecting the limits my subject has. My activity is currently based online, but I do think about expanding it to real time as well, but likely when I will retire from camming.
sbs: I’m quite certain that if, and when, you decide to see slaves for real time sessions, there will be a lineup to serve you in person. Can you describe what it feels like to have another person completely at your mercy, willing to do whatever you demand, eager to obey your every command?
ME: Oh yes, I have lots waiting. When I started doing this, 4 years ago, when everything was new, when I was learning every moment, the feeling was overwhelming. But now I can say that it seems normal to me, but, of course, to be able to have such power, to control, to be always satisfied, to have everything you want, when you want it, is wonderful and I think it is in fact, what any woman deserves. I do not believe in gender equality. We are clearly superior to men and because of this we must always be placed first.
sbs: Superior in every way Miss Elenya. Everywhere you go men, and likely many women, must be in awe of your beauty. Has it become an expected routine knowing how easy it is for you to dominate and take control, or is there still a thrill in having them submit?
ME: There is always a thrill, a challenge, even if I know what the end will be like.
sbs: And is it only men who submit to you, or do you also have female submissives who worship you?
ME: Less than men, but there are some, yes.
sbs: Are there significant differences between dominating each?
ME: I haven’t had enough female subs to be able to notice a significant difference. They have different fetishes and the approval is slightly different but the main features are the same, in my case, and with the female subs I have had. I couldn’t say there are significant differences, but for sure women are harder to tame.
sbs: That’s interesting…harder to tame, but I’m sure they do eventually fully submit to you and realize your superiority. I don’t know if you are interested in celebrity or not, but if you could choose one famous male and one famous female to submit to you, kneeling aside one another as you approached, willing to do whatever it takes to please you, who would you choose, and why?
ME: Ohh this is a good one. Let me think. Vladimir Putin (hope he doesn’t see :)) It would feel great to have one of the most powerful men on the planet on his knees in front of me, and Margot Robbie, because I find her blonde hair and beautiful face extremely sexy and arousing, perfect to please me 🙂
sbs: You could bring about a new world order with him on his knees, and the things you and Margot Robbie could do would have us all cuckolded in the corner! Can you describe how it feels to be wanted by so many, to have the kind of power you have, and to control others so easily?
ME: Ohh yes. I could make him watch Margot pleasing me. It feels amazing. It feeds my ego, as I like to say and I have a big ego. It makes me believe in myself, makes me want for more and more. I’m a very, very, arrogant woman, but that arrogance comes from the fact that I am pleased at every step I take, knowing no one could say no to me starting from my subs and ending with the guy in the parking lot I cross paths with. And it’s not all about beauty. I do believe a good Mistress has to be the perfect combination of beauty, power, intelligence, and diplomacy, keeping her human side in all of it, paying attention to her sub’s needs as well, and not just hers. Good slaves are always the ones that are happy to please, pleasing their needs as well.
For me fetish is not just a job. It’s my lifestyle, it’s who I am and how I was born. A Mistress, Goddess, Domme. I always said we are born subs or Dommes, it must be something inside our blood and there are certain facts that makes us realize who we are. We can learn/teach the principles of this but it will never work if it doesn’t come naturally as well. We are born into our role.
sbs: When you are as stunningly beautiful and dominant as you are Miss Elenya, some level of ego is to be expected. And you were most definitely born to rule. For those reading this interview, falling deeper under your spell, what advice might you offer them to ensure they make the best possible first impression on the woman who is about to take absolute control of their lives?
ME: To approach me with respect and diplomacy, knowing their place, humble and ready to please me. I don’t like rude people or ones that demand my attention without doing anything to be worthy of it.
sbs: It is the utmost privilege to serve someone of your stature in the world of Femdom, Miss Elenya, and those who approach must keep this in mind at all times. With all that you have already done, what might be next for you as you evolve and become even more irresistible and dangerous to us men?
ME: Well I’m thinking about having my own Dungeon or my on BDSM Studio. But that will happen after I “retire” from my online activity. I like to be able to concentrate on a specific thing and do it well rather than doing 100 things at once and never finishing them. So, if I decide to stay in the industry after “online”, a Dungeon or Studio are my options.
sbs: That sounds truly exciting Miss Elenya. Thank you for sharing your story with us today. Any final words for your adoring fans and submissives around the world?
ME: Well first of all thank you for the opportunity DommeAddiction has offered me to tell my story and share my thoughts about my life as a Mistress. I’m looking forward to meeting the people I have made curious after reading my thoughts 🙂 . Thank you!
sbs: It was an absolute pleasure and privilege to be in your presence Miss Elenya. With your permission, may this slaveboy please ask one final question of you before crawling away?
ME: Sure.
sbs: Thank you. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you, nervously looking up at you as I asked my questions, how might this interview conclude?
ME: Me offering you my feet to kiss them as a thank you 😛
