As an experienced Dominant of many years, I will take you in and show you a different world. This is My world and I will make every fiber of your being burn with desire.
Being a Dominant is very much who I am. I became a pro and lifestyle Dominatrix gaining experience over the course of many years. My success is reflected in my many submissives who have learned over time how to serve Me in the correct manner. They themselves have found a satisfaction and fulfillment that could be gained in no other way.
My experiences have very much been a journey, as it will be with you when we meet.
Of oriental origin, I am slender, elegant and well spoken. I expect only the best from myself and I expect the same of you.
Come and join Me in one of my locations and experience what is like to serve an Empress.
slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Empress Akari: For as long as I can remember it has been the case. Not just with men, however, but with people full stop. I believe that power and dominance comes from within and can be cultivated and developed over time. In my younger years, though I may not have been entirely aware that that was what I was doing, the result was the same- Dominance through and through.
sbs: How did this journey into BDSM start for you?
EA: I started about 6 years ago. I still reminisce over the day that it all began- but that’s a story for another time 😉 During the time that I have been a pro and lifestyle Domme, I have seen so many shapes and forms to subs, the way they play and the good boys from the bad ones etc. It is an innately diverse world and one that I endeavor to be in for some time yet. I have since enjoyed playing in various countries including Germany and Japan. I believe that the journey is far more important than the destination and so far, I am loving where this has been leading me.
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is FemDom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
EA: FemDom is by no means a roleplay for me. My subs and friends can attest to that! Finding BDSM and the relationships that can be formed from it were and still are some of the best events in my life. The realization that I could turn a natural inclination into a job that I have so much passion for was certainly a turning point in my life.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into personal servitude?
EA: I believe that I am both a nurturing and caring as well as a strict and sadistic Mistress. Therefore, I find both types of submissive seek me out. When it comes to personal servitude, so many subs think that it is their right to gain such intimacy with you if they just flash their cash around. I think this is highly disrespectful but moreover ignorant. My personal submissives served me selflessly for some time before ever entering into personal servitude. Only time, dedication, consistency and my 6 core values- Communication, Reliability, Honesty, Loyalty, Respect and Obedience will allow for that relationship to transpire. I also do not think that personal servitude is for everyone. Some have obvious immediate difficulties such as families, working abroad etc. But more importantly, I believe that it takes a special kind of person to be able to remove their ego to better serve and please their Dominant, as well as the strength to overcome any hurdles in order to achieve their own as well as their Dominant’s goals. Being a personal sub is no easy task!
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
EA: I always enjoy a challenge, but I do not accept defiance or sheer brattiness. Therefore, if the submissive does not have the respect or courtesy to treat me in the manner that I expect, then I want nothing to do with them. I believe that being a submissive is innate in some. Occasionally, I meet those special few subs who, even though they may never have had much or any training, still strive hard to make you happy and achieve the goals you set them. These are the kinds of subs I adore the most. It does not matter that one makes mistakes per se, what matters most is that you aim to make me proud and always aim to do better for me and for you.
sbs: What specific fetishes do you enjoy exploring with your slaves?
EA: That’s a bit of a tough question! It is like asking a chameleon to never change their skin to adapt to their surroundings. I find that it really does depend upon who I am sessioning with. I would not for instance do a hardcore ball busting session with someone who is only interested in bondage. I am very fortunate to love most forms of BDSM and what matters to me beyond that is the kind of submissive that I have in front of me. Do they act like a self-righteous prick or like a submissive who wishes to do their best for me and serve me as I see fit? Attitude is the most important attribute to creating an amazing session experience, if you have the attitude, any number of activities will be very fun. That being said though, I am a sucker for S & M, being a sadist whilst also being nurturing, as well as bondage, though quite frankly, this list could go on forever!
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
EA: I never see it as something that I have grown used to, otherwise I think I would find this all very boring. It is different with different subs, though if I could describe the many sensations that I feel in a good session; I would say elated, cruel, nurturing, relaxed, exactly where I belong, an Empress.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
EA: Sincerity comes in many forms. I once received a really beautiful gift from a sub, reciting something akin to a poem. It was handwritten in gold ink, written in calligraphy and framed. It was a really touching gift. Sometimes, I receive a gift from a sub and you know full well that that person has been listening to you and your every word so very intently. Something that I might have only mentioned in passing they decide to gift me. That, to me is the show of someone who not only really cares for you but also cares for every word that you splash over them. I am not big on subs getting me random gifts and therefore, if they don’t know me very well, they are always welcome to send me a monetary tribute, something from my Amazon wish list or the gift guide on my website. As long as the gift has the right intentions i.e. putting a smile on my face and showing me their appreciation, it will always go down well.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?
EA: Do your research! Most subs don’t realize the significance of doing a bit of research. Not only does it impress me, but it also shows that you are serious. I often get asked questions that are there and readily available on my FAQ. I would understand if it were dotted all over my website, but my website is in fact very comprehensive. It doesn’t matter whether you are a computer whiz or not, anyone could find out what they wanted from a click or two. I also have a blog called DungeonandDomination. If a sub wishes to find out more information, whether about BDSM safety, how to approach a Domme, how to approach me, or even Dommes who are starting out and looking for advice, this is a good place to go!
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you, how would it end?
EA: One of two ways. If you have been a good boy, I would pat you on the head and allow you to kiss my feet. If you had been a bad boy however, I would slap you across the face, kick you in the balls and leave. Good boys get treats, bad boys get punished.
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