“I Am Mistress Mandy”
I know your secret. It’s okay, I won’t tell your friends, or anyone else. I know you are secretly obsessed with me and other girls like me. I know that a sexy outfit and a seductive demeanor from a t-girl just drives you absolutely wild.
I am your Mistress. You are obedient and devoted to me. The only thing different than a normal Dom/Sub relationship is that your Mistress has a cock…a lovely feminine lady cock that you will learn to please with your mouth and your asshole and every other way I desire. You will watch me pleasure myself and learn exactly how I like to be touched, how I like to be sucked, and how I like to fuck.
I am deep inside your head. At this point it is safe to say you have developed a bona fide obsession with me, my pretty face, my stunning body, and my nasty mind. The only question now is…what will Mistress do with you?
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, this very lucky slaveboy finds himself kneeling before legendary adult actress, Mistress Mandy Mitchell. Thank you for the opportunity to share your Femdom story with our readers, and welcome to DA, Mistress Mandy.
Mistress Mandy Mitchell: Thanks for having me.
sbs: You’ve been an icon in the adult industry for some time now as a famous TS actress. What was it that drew you to Femdom, and do you recall when you first realized the power you held over men?
MMM: My very first forays into sex work before I started porn were with a Femdom friend of mine that I knew from queer community back in ‘03-04. I was already a kinkster in my private life & when I got the opportunity to make what to me at the time was an enormous amount of money in a couple of hours, I was hooked… From there I started expanding into escorting back in the Wild West days of Craigslist, before the review boards started popping up, which was definitely when I discovered the “power I had over men”. By ’05 I was shooting porn, creating my own content as a switch, shooting for other companies and launching my own site in ’06, and by 2007 a friend I knew from northeast queer life had started working at Kink.com & encouraged me to apply as a Dom there…
sbs: I believe that was when I first noticed you in a shoot for TSSeduction. Can you describe how it felt the first time you dominated a man on camera?
MMM: Honestly it wasn’t at all like the domination I had known previously. Coming from session work, those scenes at Kink felt more like being a lady bull. I had this misconception that it would be kind of traditional S&M with impact play, bondage, etc. I really had no idea it was mostly just a site dedicated to de-virginizing bottoms, but like everything I do, I was amazing. The first shoot I did was a hypnosis scene, which did very much become a cult classic. It really hit my favorite fetishes (hypno, mind control, psychic domination) and still 12 years later remains a major inspiration for many of my subs that reach out to me for the first time.
sbs: Are there other, more hardcore type fetishes you would like to explore with the right slave?
MMM: Honestly I kind of feel I’m past the exploration stage of my sexuality. I know what I like, I know what gets me off, I am just more selective about who I play with & who I film with. Marriage to another Femdom/pornstar/fetish producer is a full time 24/7 kink lifestyle in and of itself.
sbs: I can imagine. Can you describe how it feels to know that men are eager to serve and worship you, aching with desire for your amazing clip work, and willing to do whatever you demand of them?
MMM: I don’t think about it all that much. Being a beautiful trans woman I am used to making men weak and stupid with desire & I just incorporate that into my Femdom. I don’t center men. Truly. I center the women in my life & men are secondary. I’m a lifestyle female & trans female supremacist.
sbs: Your work through TSPussyHunters also has you dominating females. Can you describe how the experiences are similar, and how they are different from when a man submits to you?
MMM: I think I used to feel the differences strongly when I was younger & there was a complete lack of trans lesbian visibility & trans lesbian BDSM porn only existed when I created it… I had a more extreme desire to manifest that content both as a Dom and a sub. But as I age, it’s less a gender thing & more a power & submission thing for me. I’m less of a switch now, much more of a Dom, sexually and psychologically. Mostly now I enjoy being in a relationship with another Alpha woman & sharing submissives.
sbs: Would it be prying for me to ask you to share a little about your Alpha partner and what you enjoy together in terms of Femdom?
MMM: It wouldn’t be prying at all. My wife is Bianca Stone, we produce content as a team for both of our channels and we also do couples Femdom on Niteflirt, IWC, and elsewhere. She’s a pretty dominant personality in life at large, she’s my right hand man. We both are pretty switchy with each other but tend to really enjoy tag teaming our favorite customers. Sometimes that means I’ll have one of my subs call her and play with her, and she will ask the same of her subs. It’s kind of perfect in terms of having a cis fem/trans fem duo.
sbs: I can imagine that on the phone or in person, that would be an intoxicating experience for any submissive. She is a very beautiful woman, as are you, Mistress Mandy. Are there particular roleplays or fetishes you enjoy exploring with Bianca and one of your submissives? Are you both always dominant?
MMM: Tons of fetishes, coerced bi, intox, hypno, brainwashing, financial domination, strap on + my cock so cock worship… usually we are both dominant but I often end up fucking Bianca and incorporating cuckolding fantasies, subs in chastity while we play, small penis humiliation, CBT, cumeating mandate, the list goes on and on. We’ve covered a lot of territory professionally and privately. I’m into worship. I was so excited when that character from American Gods did those crazy worship scenes, I like when my subs praise me like that…. like the devotees of Bilquist… not that I roleplay her character, but that sort of enthusiastic and ecstatic energy really riles me up.
sbs: Well I think I can say with certainty that many of our readers would be privileged to kneel and worship you, beautiful Mistress. You are obviously very beautiful and it’s hard to imagine any man not being eager to do everything you wish. Has it become an expected routine that men can be controlled and dominated, or is there still a thrill in the conquest for you as a Femdom, bringing a man to his knees, having him worship and serve you, and ultimately even offer himself for that special kind of submission that only a Trans Domme like yourself can offer?
MMM: The thrill of the hunt is always there though I am dubious of the idea that there is a “special kind of submission that only a trans Domme” can offer… I believe there is a special kind of submission that only I can offer & it’s not my trans-ness… it’s me, my intelligence, my life experience, my insight and intuition, my abilities, etc…At least that’s what my top paying customers who have followed me over the last 2 decades say 😏 And every time I cultivate a meaningful D/s dynamic with someone it is satisfying, especially when I expand someone’s world, see them grow, have a really great session. It’s such a rush.
sbs: It definitely sounds like a session with you would be something a slave would never forget, Mistress Mandy. For those unable, or not yet ready, to see you real time, or to film with you, can you let our readers know what one clip you are most pleased with and would demand that all buy immediately to get a sense of your style as a Domme?
MMM: Well it’s pretty damn near impossible for fans to see me in person for sessions, as I’m not available in that way & I have never hired a fan for a shoot, but my Niteflirt & iWantPhone are a great way for people to play with me. As far as clips go, you know I have produced a really wide variety of content over the years & I’m proud of a great deal of them. Some of my top selling clips that really stuck in the psyche of my subs & continue to sell over & over …. “All Men Are Bottoms” , “Under My Spell: Girl Cock For Life” , and more recently “Double Trouble: Aroma Mesmerize” really stuck in people’s heads…
sbs: Are real time sessions with slaves something you may consider in the future, or is that a hard line for you, Mistress?
MMM: It’s not a hard line. I occasionally play with submissives in real life, but it’s a once in a blue moon when I feel someone has earned it & is going to be a benefit to my life. I’m someone who cultivates long lasting dynamics and I rarely rush into anything.
sbs: Well you have certainly cultivated interest in our readers with your thoughtful responses to my questions today, Mistress. For those who wish to serve and worship you, what advice might you offer to ensure they make the best possible impression upon their dream Domme?
MMM: You know the usual good etiquette when writing a Dom. I’m old fashioned & I like to be courted through clip purchases & tributes. A customer who is already familiar with my work and has spent money on me will automatically be starting off ahead of other people who haven’t.
sbs: That sounds like more than fair expectations Mistress Mandy. Thank you for the privilege of this interview. As I mentioned at the outset, I’ve been a fan of your work for a very long time, even before discovering your work as a Domme. For your fans worldwide, and slaves who will be pouring over every detail of this interview, any final words?
MMM: oooh final words…I would encourage fans and people who are new to my work to feel free to reach out and call me on Niteflirt or iWantPhone & dive in deep with my videos. Also check out my wife, Bianca Stone’s videos as well because I filmed & helped produce all of them and I think they are fantastic.
sbs: I have a feeling I’ll be one of those calling very soon to continue this at a later time, Mistress. Your videos are already etched into my mind and those of our readers I’m sure. With your permission, may I please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature?
MMM: Sure.
sbs: Thank you Mistress. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you in a dungeon somewhere, desperately trying to focus on my next question, how might the interview conclude?
MMM: You are going to have to call me if you want the answer to that question 😉
