Feature Interview - Queen Qandisa

I am Queen Qandisa
Fetish model/Actress. Dominatrix. Goddess.
I work hard at playing my hardest. I love being a strong Dominant Goddess.
This is my reality. I’m here to forge a journey of my own design. To see just how far I can go, for myself. And to have all of the fun doing it.
I am a published professional model, as well as, professionally trained lifestyle and Pro-dominatrix located out of Orlando, FL. I have been modeling my entire life and featured in such works as Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, ‘How to be Kinkier’ by Lord Morpheous, poster model for Nude Nite 2013, various works by artist Echo-X, and Le Petit Alternative. I’ve had the pleasure of working with some of kink’s finest riggers and photographers. I have been an active participant in the kink community beginning in 2009 and continue this journey today.
Come and explore the dark, exotic, wild, and kinky world of Queen Qandisa.

slaveboysmith: For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?

Queen Qandisa: Even from the time I was young I had always been quite unruly and following my own path regardless of what was happening around me or what others were doing. I always knew I was different. I act, look, think, and feel differently. But it wasn’t until my teenage years that I realized there was a power in this when it came to my life and men. I always naturally attracted submissive men to me. It was annoying at first, but when I realized I could mold them to whatever I wanted, I took ahold of this and ran with it seeing how far some of them would go.

sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?

QQ: Yes. Anyone who knows me outside of Femdom knows I’m like this about all aspects of my life. I’m full of charisma but ready to bite at any moment. Things must be in my control at all times, even when I’m relaxing

sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?

QQ: Just one? Hahah! I’ve always had an attraction to Trent Reznor of Nine Inch Nails. He’s so hateful, and so feisty, and I know he’d make a wicked submissive. I want a wild animal I can tame and who’s a sucker for me.

sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you? Can all submissive men be persuaded to slip across that line into financial domination?

QQ: I love my pain and humiliation sluts. I come from a lifestyle background and in the beginning I was always used to learning a new skill and immediately testing it out on some weakling. Spankings, crops, canes, you name it. I don’t think all submissives can be persuaded to financial domination because of their own cowardice, and quite frankly that’s not my problem.

sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?

QQ: A little of both keeps you well rounded, I think. Depends on my mood.

sbs: Beyond financial domination, which is an obvious favorite, do you have other specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves?

QQ: I’m constantly rotating favorite fetishes. Right now whipping is BIG with me. I’ve been sharpening my skills for a year now.

sbs:Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?

QQ: Have you ever created art, or gotten an incredibly good idea? That striking moment of clarity followed by the push of every ounce of your being dedicated to making it happen and come true? It’s just like that for me. I hit peak creativity and ecstasy. Thoughts and ideas are surging at the speed of light, and my mind and body can barely keep up with what I want done to my slave next. It never seems to get old. I’ve been in fetish a decade now, it’s always like this whether in session or out at a regular dungeon night.

sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control?

QQ: There’s a certain brand of weakness I begin to see. They sound helpless, their body goes limp simply awaiting the next instruction. Some are the opposite and look feverish, panicky, nervous but willing.

sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how does the slave react to seeing his ultimate Goddess in person?

QQ: I have, actually! Subs are often too fidgety or nervous to approach. A word to the wise, if you do approach, you better be ready to do something for me on the spot or stay the fuck away.

sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?

QQ: I do not trust easily. You will need to prove yourself over time. When that trust is lost or you disobey, I dismiss you. I’m not a second chance type of woman. I move fast, you need to keep up and stick with me. Anyone can serve or tribute once, but what I ultimately want is you serving all that you can, all of the time.

sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview?

QQ: I am in a constant state of growth and change. Each day I’m more powerful than the last and I’m ready to share that with the world. Be prepared…I’ll be on the move soon.