I am Goddess Yolanda
I am luxury, I am the divine and you will pour yourself into dedication to me, Goddess Yolanda, with ALL you are worth. Click, indulge, obsess – You’re here so there’s no turning back now. You crave my control and submitting brings so much bliss. Giving in to your desires for Female Domination is easy and in servitude to me you’ll finally find that sense of belonging you’ve longed for all your life.
Introducing Goddess Yolanda
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this very lucky slaveboy kneeling before a beautifully sexy Femdom mind-melter. Welcome to DA, Goddess Yolanda Sabra, and thank you for this opportunity to bow before you and have you share your story with us today. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Goddess Yolanda: Gosh no! It’s not always been the case because I have not always been this self-aware and also understanding of how others think, feel and desire. That has come with time, learning and a great deal of exploration not just into the self of how I think and what I want, but the exploration as well into how others do (and how best to use that to serve me). For a very long time though (I’d say since high school roughly) I was aware that I was very bossy and not necessarily a bully but it did amuse me to make boys blush so I played on that a lot to get what I wanted. And here we are today – I have a humiliation kink and love making men squirm, hahaha!
sbs: Are you naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
GY: I’m naturally dominant throughout my life and not just ‘behind closed doors’. I’ve always been outspoken, confident, authoritative and instructive and before making the decision to become a full-time clip artist and online Domme, all my previous career roles were either in management or training. Being a Leader has always just been so natural for me.
Will Harry Potter be a “Good Boy” for Goddess?
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything Goddess Yolanda demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
GY: That would be Daniel Radcliffe. I have a huge crush on him! Hahaha! He is so much the aesthetic and attitude of the type of guy I find attractive. Having watched him in interviews, he’s funny, charming, cute, has this slight awkwardness to him but an attentiveness towards others as well. He would definitely be the sort of subby boy who would do anything (and to his utmost best ability) to earn a “Good boy!” out of his Goddess.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you, Goddess Yolanda? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
GY: I mostly attract slaves who want a complete power exchange, the ones who want to feel that ALL control is mine – that they are giving over who they are ‘known as’ in their day-to-day and I am bringing out who they ‘know themselves as’. It’s a very deep kind of submission, very emotional for some as well because it is not just arousing and sexually stimulating but it allows them to also find sanctuary, it allows them to also find acceptance. That comes in a variety of kinks and fetishes – it could be through chastity and celibacy, sissification, an exposure fantasy, financial domination and worship.
As for the “perfect slave”, even as someone new and beginning to discover their submissive self, as a minimum, they must possess qualities such as a deep seated desire to serve and please a Female Superior, good communication and be aware of their boundaries and limits.
Are you the type of slave Goddess is waiting for?
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
GY: Be it an experienced slave or a newbie, I’ve never found aspects such as “the bratty sub” with that attitude of resistance appealing. Subs who have this mentality that a Domme must break them before they submit and have a mind-set of “I’m not following your instructions unless you MAKE me” are an immediate turn-off for me.
Like, I will go colder than a freezer in the Antarctic and walk-out on that in less than a second. Serving me, being a tool of my desires, worshiping all that I am comes with the respect, understanding and acceptance that your place as a man is to serve women. Your purpose is to serve me. And more over, it is an honour for you that I would even accept you into service and task you with such. Initiate or experienced – being eager, willing and ready to obey is key.
Sensual or Strict…Goddess is Smiling
sbs: In looking through your Twitter, it is obvious that using your beauty and power to completely weaken slaves is a recurring theme in many of your tweets and content. Would you consider yourself more of a sensual teasing Domme or are you more sadistic and cruel, and do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves, Goddess Yolanda?
GY: Being sensual or cruel really depends on the mood I’m in and/ or who I’m dominating. Even in my clips there is that variety. For example, you may find that in one verbal humiliation clip I’m mercilessly brutal and very cutting with my words. In another, I’m sweetly condescending and softer spoken. But one thing that is ever prevalent is my giggle. Many of my followers comment that I am “the laughing Domme” or “the grinning Domme”. This is because in that moment I am having fun, I am enjoying exerting my power and control and knowing how weak and subservient it makes a sub is ever so exhilarating to me.
My personal favourite fetishes are verbal humiliation, manipulation, orgasm control (be that premature ejaculation, edging or denial) and worship. I often cross-kink these with other interests such as Lycra Spandex tease and worship, chastity, self CBT/ self-ballbusting encouragement, encouraged-bi and so on.
Dream of Serving the Ultimate Goddess
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
GY: It’s always a rush! The more they obey, the more they give, the deeper into submission and devotion to me they go, the more it excites me and in turn I want more! I want to dominate them more often, to explore how much further they can push themselves for me, to own them all the more thoroughly and spend more time with them getting to know all the little buttons I can push.
Kink is not at all a one size fits all matter and I don’t approach it as such so I don’t generally have expected outcomes. Even with long-term slaves and this is because even for them, over time their interests might change, we might drop something out or incorporate a new element into things. But every individual dynamic is interesting and provides me with its own unique fulfillment.
How will you impress Goddess Yolanda?
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil and make their best first impression on you?
GY: First and foremost, all my socials CLEARLY state how to contact me and it is NOT via social media platforms. So, the first good impression comes where slaves follow the given procedure on how to get in touch. Those who don’t and message me anyway on social media are immediately blocked. The slaves I do DM in that manner have earned that access as I appreciate that using an innocent app such as Twitter or WhatsApp while they are at work for example ensures their privacy.
Secondly, to show one’s sincere desire to serve and spoil me is done either by paying a tribute via my wishlist, purchasing items from my wishlist, tipping via any of the clip site platforms that I’m on and/ or having purchased a substantial number of my clips. Presenting yourself to me with effort you have already put in and using your intuition speaks volumes.
Final Words from Goddess Yolanda
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview, Goddess Yolanda?
GY: One last thing I would add is to say that many would be servants needs to start adapting their perspective to one which suits this online environment in which they use as a means to serve. There is still quite an overwhelming mental block of thinking that just because you’re online, you can’t or won’t or don’t have to pay to cater to my needs.
For example, where a slave would present their card and cover my lunch in a real encounter, lay money at my feet, or pay to send me flowers or a lovely little gift randomly because they thought of me – they can and SHOULD be doing it online. Only saying “I would have covered that!” and not accompanying it with the actual send simply portrays you as lazy and vacuous. Being in a virtual environment does make you exempt from duties, responsibilities, manners or honoring your Goddess.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question…if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you as I asked my questions, overwhelmed by your beauty, how might such an interview end?
Owning slaveboysmith completely!
GY: With a well manicured finger placed under your chin, tilting your face upwards to look at me as I look down on you, you see my cat like grin, my vampy fangs gleaming as I say “You’ve been such a good slaveboy for me but let’s see if we can turn that ‘good’ boy into an ‘excellent’ boy!” And with that you’d hear my addictive giggle, making all the little vellus hairs on your body prickle up! You know… they say that prey knows when it is about to be devoured. Wink!
