I am Mistress Vivienne, a Dominant dreamer, high achiever and sadist. I am a session Mistress and I prefer to be served in person as opposed to online. My hands are ever thirsty for effective occupation; I exist to make you a better servant to all who are worthy. My sessions are always provocative and of the highest caliber.
I have experienced much success in bettering My boys and girls through incentivisation, punishment and reward. I feel that nurture, cruelty and temperance must be equally present within the Top for a session to be optimally stimulating.
Come and get lost in space and time, allow yourself to submit completely, forget who you were, focus only on the best way to be. Become My pleasure, and you will not regret it.
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction finds this very lucky slaveboy kneeling before the gorgeous and kinky Mistress Vivienne l’Amour. Welcome to DA, Mistress, and thank you for this opportunity to bow before you. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Vivienne: Thank you so much for taking the time to interview me. It’s a pleasure to offer an insight into my life, which I feel eternally blessed for.
I have always been the ring-leader. The team captain. The chief problem solver. My friends and peers turn to me for honest advice and guidance, as I have a lot of life experience.
I am a very sincere person, which is why people gravitate towards me. In addition to men, I have submissive females too, and I find that I appeal to submissive people because I am strong, loyal, very protective and possess the correct balance of stoicism and ability to incentivize.
I am of the old school way of thinking, as I was brought up with extensive discipline and drive, and I approach my subs and slaves with tough love. I have found great success in this and I am open about my mistakes in life and how I have learned from them and changed my behaviour through discipline, self-awareness and criticism. This allows me to use this as a tool to inspire loyalty and ascension from my slaves, so that they may achieve their life goals, both sexual and otherwise.
Believe it or not, I wasn’t always interested in controlling people; it was a vocation which was thrust upon me, as guiding and supporting others comes so naturally to me.
My earliest sexual memories were of myself being subjected to a slave auction, as my childhood was largely spent with my nose in historical books, or watching films such as ‘Ben Hur’, and ‘The Robe’. Yes, I was brought up Roman Catholic.
However, I soon realised (by the age of 20) that there are very few people who can impress and inspire me. As a result, I would always top from the bottom, as frankly, I was more capable of deciding what was fun, beneficial and seductive than my “dominant” play partners.
sbs: From that point forward, would you now view yourself as naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, or is Femdom more a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MV: I am a lifestyle and professional dominant. I have a house slave, collared slaves and I live and breathe control in everything I do. In every way, I am the protector of my realm, and my strength is consistent.
Right to my core, I am inherently dominant, well educated and naturally academic, which means that my quick thinking in sessions and problem solving/adaptation skills set me apart from my peers. I have the gift of the gab and I went to acting school, am a grade 8 ABRSM singer and musician, and thus, I am able to bring pizazz to a party, session or film day.
My pals always want me at their social gatherings and dinner parties, due to my ability to regale with my saucy tales, almost unbelievable memories and life experiences, and sometimes I find myself toning it down a little bit so that I don’t come across as narcissistic.
At heart, I am an empath, an exhibitionist and a totalitarian control freak, which is why I love hosting Circus Maximus events at my playspace, Celestial Studios, one of the largest and certainly most luxurious in the UK.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity on their knees, completely at your mercy and willing to do anything to please and serve you, who might you choose, and why?
MV: Definitely Mel Gibson. That took me less than a second to conclude. He is marmite, like me! He has strong beliefs, he is unwavering, and he possesses addictive qualities, and I would love to see how I could mold him.
I have adored him since ‘Braveheart,’ and ‘The Patriot,’ in which his eyes and his ability to portray a man who is incorrigible in his cause makes me want to know what he would be like when it was all stripped away. When I quizzed him on his racist beliefs, on his battles with alcohol and drugs. When I made him look deep inside himself with all the facade scraped back, and to see what he is really like.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you, Mistress Vivienne? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
MV: I draw subs and slaves from all walks of life, as I am marginally sociopathic and able to become what they want in order to get what I need from them, submission and an ego wank, amongst other things.
Yes, after over a decade in the industry, I know exactly what I expect in a submissive or slave. Selflessness, an ability to reflect and strength. My house slave Mike/Chloe is what I measure my other slaves on. They are kind, humble, thoughtful and able to take instruction without question or hesitation.
I will not tolerate gaslighting, bossy behaviour, jealousy, cruelty or an inability to take one for the team, as I have a team of slaves and they all respect one another.
In sessions, I love to play with masochists. I am very skilled with whips and impact play, so being able to unleash my tempered fury on flesh is a highlight for me. I also love extended bondage sessions where I can create art with my submissive, either using chains, leather, rope or other restrictive materials.
This, coupled with roleplay, whereby I can become someone else, someone darker and crueler than myself, an ascension of evil, where I am able to separate myself from this character also enables me to create beautiful scenes, some of which have been filmed but are too extreme for release, so are kept in my archives for personal pleasure.
sbs: Does Mistress Vivienne prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MV: I have never yet met a slave who is broken in to a fashion that I find amenable from the outset. As a horse rider and dog owner/trainer, I can appreciate the value of breaking in a slave personally, and aligning them with my own values and idiosyncrasies.
I sail a tight ship, everything must be cohesive, and I don’t have the energy for people who lack emotional intelligence, so a little initial fight can be fun, but they never tend to resist me for very long. It doesn’t usually take long for anyone with intelligence to realise that being under my wing will make their life more beautiful and fulfilled.
sbs: One of the most erotic things I have ever seen was a recent tweet from you that was perfectly timed for this Locktober. Watching you topless, seductively teasing your locked slave by licking his cage…that’s next level torment! How did it feel to hear his moans and know the kind of frustration you were causing him in that moment Mistress Vivienne?
MV: Well, I am a sadist, and my partner, pictured on the naughty video is not a masochist, more’s the pity. Therefore, I strive to find inventive new ways to make him hurt. What could be more dominant and cruel than knowing that his cage is cutting into his flesh, biting down as I look into his eyes and he knows that he can merely dribble and pout as I tease him relentlessly, knowing that his balls are sore and he is dying for release? It is the epitome of sensual cruelty, and I loved it. I have repeated it in several videos since, because it’s an addictive feeling for me. These clips have yet to be released, so watch this space. 😉
sbs: A deeper look through your Twitter, it is obvious that humiliating & teasing men is a recurring theme in many of your tweets and clips. Would you consider yourself more of a sensual teasing Domme or are you more sadistic and cruel, and do you have any specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves, Mistress Vivienne?
MV: I like to think that my style of FemDom is more than mere shouting and whipping. It is very subjective to the individual whom I am sessioning with. I am a sadist, I adore those who will suffer and cry for me. I revel in brutality, but especially with my female slaves, I use a mixture of adoration, gratitude and cold authority to break them and mold them. With the men, I find that allowing them sensual pleasure enables them to take more pain for me.
I am a latex lover, and coupled with extreme anal training is also a delicacy for me. However, at my heart, feeling the electricity surge from the cracker of my whip, up my arm and into my heart cannot be surpassed when examining my own personal yearnings and most carnal pleasures.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MV: It is a pride and gratitude that I feel. The rush comes from creating beauty, a stunning crossdressing outfit, a beautiful bondage scene, perfect stripes on a bottom from my cane or whip.
In my day to day life, I have come to expect humility and servitude from my subs, they would be scared not to. Not because I need to threaten them, but because of the love and devotion that I inspire through kindness, selflessness and honesty; they would be heartbroken to think that they had disappointed me.
sbs: You have produced some sizzling hot clips already, Mistress Vivienne. I recently purchased one in which you have 5 men in session with you, some dressed as sexy sluts, and coerced bi is the theme of the day. What is it about having men sucking cocks and dressing up that so pleases you, and can any man be made to cross that line no matter how straight they might profess to be?
MV: For me, it is allowing people to realise their fantasies that makes my soul soar. I know that deep within us all exists a primal depravity which needs unbottling in order to feel truly challenged and fulfilled. I wish to make you feel alive!
Watching men suck cock takes me to a prison in my mind where pleasure must be derived from wherever it can be gotten. Sexuality should be genderless. Most men I speak to say that it is the cock specifically that really turns them on. The phallus is engraved deep within the psyche as a sexual object, and to feel naughty, to feel like you are engaging in something that others may consider to be wrong or taboo is exciting.
To be the conductor of a depraved orchestra is at the heart of everything I aspire to be, and as such, watching my filth monsters voraciously feeding from one another is central to my sexuality. I am the ringmaster, and these animals are mine to use as I see fit, and to be utilised to bring me pleasure as I encourage them to find new sides to their sexuality.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress you, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MV: Ooh, my favourite things. Well, I love boots, especially shiny, fetish style or classic thigh-high leather with stiletto heels and platforms. I am a size 6.
I also adore new kinky outfits, as I film such a lot that I am always needing to restock my kinky wardrobe, I am a size 10.
Latex is my current favourite, or something very Edwardian looking, a dress or vintage corset, so that I can live out my historical fantasies in my medieval square at Celestial Studios.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring worshipers reading this interview, Mistress Vivienne?
MV: Thank you for taking the time to read this! I host amazing monthly parties where you can come and explore my extensive studio, I rarely tour as I love my own space too much. I accept new session enquiries, but am selective in whom I play with. In addition, I have other Mistresses and submissives who I session with at CS.
And I am ready to take you to the next dimension.
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question, Mistress Vivienne … if we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you with thoughts of all that you can make men do swirling through my head, how might such an interview end?
MV: You would be looking at me with an open mouth, having realised that I am nothing like what you expected, and desperate to kiss my boots, but I would tell you that in order to become closer to me, you must first tell me your three deepest, darkest memories of which you are most ashamed and scared to relive. When you demonstrate your ability to show vulnerability, then I shall provide you with a true demonstration of my unique strength and kinky prowess.
