I am Mistress Alexandra, the absolute Greek Mistress. It is My nature to be Dominant. People obey Me because I manifest a commanding presence. If you are seeking a sweet little helpless princess then you are on the wrong path. I am a perfect mix of intelligence, sadistic beauty, elegance and savage style.
And this sovereignty is supplemented by My sadistic instincts and with My multiple years of experience in the world of BDSM. I’m a successful business woman and owner of the two biggest dungeons in Greece. This is My life, this is My lifestyle.
Whatever you are, a masochist, submissive, or fetishist you are welcome to My personal Dungeon, over 300 sq. meters (3300 sq. feet). Fully equipped with specially designed rooms for all fetishes. I’m excited by a lot of harsh BDSM and fetishes.
I believe that Matriarchal Domination and strict punishment for all submissives is the correct world order. Am I the Mistress you have always dreamed of? Bow down and offer your submission to Me.
slaveboysmith: Welcome to DommeAddiction, Mistress Alexandra. For any who follow you, it is very evident you control men with ease. Has that always been the case? Do you recall when you first realized the power you hold over men?
Mistress Alexandra: From the age of 5 or 6, I was always dominant. I was always the one giving orders, and if they refused, I would kick them until they agreed. Of course, many more episodes occurred, but they have vanished from memory, leaving only a trail. The first clear image I have in My mind is of playing with a schoolmate, Me incarnating a Goddess and him being the slave when I was about 14-15 years old. After that, it became more evident when I began to have a more active sexual life. For Me, being dominant goes beyond sexuality. It’s what defines My life.
sbs: Safe to say that you are naturally dominant in every aspect of your life, and that Femdom is definitely not a roleplay for you when interacting with slaves?
MA: Indeed, I am dominant at every moment of my life, and being in control is what better represents My personality. In every aspect of life, I can’t even imagine Myself not being dominant. For Me, Femdom is much more than just roleplay, it’s a reflection of who I am, and something that I project in all areas of My life, but most especially in Femdom sessions, where I can explore places that aren’t realistic or acceptable in quotidian life.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, willing to do anything you demanded of them, who would it be, and why?
MA: Several come to mind, but I have a special eye for big, strong, macho man characters like Vin Diesel, who may try to resist, but wouldn’t have a chance and would fall at My feet once I decided it was time to end the game.
sbs: Is there a specific type of slave you find is drawn to you Mistress Alexandra? And do you have an ideal in mind for the “perfect slave”?
MA: This is not about a specific practice, it’s much more than that. My demands are simple: total obedience and absolute surrender to My needs, desires and whims. When that happens, there is no such thing as limits. Using an imperceptible gesture or a glance, I can lead them anywhere I want, not needing to raise My voice or act irate. That one is the perfect slave, the one who will give himself completely to Me, will accept My supremacy, and get the best out of Me as a Mistress, as a Goddess, and as a Person.
sbs: Do you prefer to break and enslave men who might resist, or use well-trained ones that are already broken in?
MA: Introducing newcomers to the world of BDSM is always a nice and rewarding challenge. But being honest, I don’t think any man can resist, no matter if they are inclined to submission or not. During the 12 years I’ve been a professional, I can’t really think that it really happened, and when it did, it was more an illusion I created in their minds, just to have more fun breaking them and forcing them to follow My lead blindly.
The best part about newbies is that once they have experienced the joy of submission, that experience will stay with them forever, and in a corner of their soul and minds they know they will always belong to Me. On the other side, well trained slaves, especially if they have been undergoing My training for years, it’s exciting in a different way, as I can take my wicked mind further and try new and crazy ideas that would probably scare the newbies. Therefore, I will answer your question by saying I enjoy diversity. Every stage has its own beauty and I enjoy every aspect of it.
sbs: Do you have specific fetishes you enjoy exploring with your slaves, and does that differ between real time sessions and online training Mistress Alexandra?
MA: I have been discovering and learning about new fetishes for so many years with an open mind. In some cases, I’ve adopted some of those that were unfamiliar and in other cases, just learned that they were not my cup of tea. My point is, I probably have practiced every fetish a submissive could possibly dream of, only staying away from anything illegal or tasteless.
That said, there are certain practices I enjoy more than others. I will not go into detail, but any good sub will understand how a Goddess’ wicked mind works. Let me start out with puppy training, I really enjoy it, and my kennel is always accepting new dogs to be trained. Tease and Denial excite me to no end, I love having their shaking bodies under my control, even if that is with just one finger.
There are, of course, all time favourites, like strap on; who doesn’t like raping a slave? And if his ass is virgin, even better or all types of foot and shoe/boot/heel worship where the slave is down there licking and following My instructions, of course, all spiced with the right dose of verbal humiliation and degradation, so they feel their place but also listen to Me reminding them who they are and where they belong.
In our journey we have to stop in corporal punishment. I am an expert in the arts of flogging and whipping. I really know what I’m doing, I don’t take it like a game, so if a slave is into whipping he knows he’s going to experience the real thing. For bondage, I lean more towards quick bondage, with belts and straps, much more than with ropes, that I find a bit boring, but I admire the final results of a good Shibari work, but simply, I don’t have the patience. We could go on and on and on, as I can find joy in every activity that degrades my little subjects, but it’s better to discover by yourself.
For a real Mistress, real-time and online scenarios are quite similar, obviously taking into consideration the obvious differences dictated by the medium. Just to put things in perspective, it’s not easy to whip someone online. That’s why I take the online training much more seriously than most, where they just send messages and expect the slave to perform certain acts. For Me, online training is a preparation for real-time sessions, even if they are unlikely to happen. My online slaves must understand that it’s a means to an end. For that reason, I focus mostly in behaviour modification, obedience training, humiliation and degradation. My idea is to break the slave, to rebuild him as I like them to be, and get him ready for a proper servitude, either online or real-time, but always real.
And, by the way, a perfect way to discover My skills and My style is to watch My clips, that one can easily find in onlyalexandra.com or by finding Me in the most prestigious adult video platforms.
sbs: Can you describe the feeling you have when you have control of a slave, desperately doing whatever it takes to please you? Is it a rush, or just an expected outcome you’ve grown used to?
MA: In two words: It’s Me. Growing and developing that connection is something that I enjoy doing. It isn’t something I expect to happen right away. It takes time and trust to reach that point. But generally, that comes easily and smoothly, and the best part is that it lasts for a long time, even over long distances.
sbs: How can you tell when you’ve completely broken someone and they are unable to resist you? Is there a “tell” of some kind that lets you know you’ve taken total control Mistress Alexandra?
MA: I can tell everything from their eyes. It’s as simple as that. Also, if they are blindfolded, their body language, how they shake and react to the sound of Me coming closer to them. It’s easy for me to understand what they feel because I’m very good at reading their body language. For many of them it’s a complex task to express what their feelings are, but eyes and body language never lie.
sbs: For slaves looking to impress Mistress Alexandra, what is the best way for them to show you they are sincere in their desire to serve and spoil?
MA: Impressing me is neither easy nor quick. It requires a high level of dedication and effort. So, if you think that with a flattering message you have finished your task and will be able to receive a few minutes of my precious time, you better think again. There is no guide that tells you what to do or not to do, but there are some suggestions, since I trust that the most imaginative, tenacious and dedicated will stand out above the mediocre.
For starters, you should follow me on each and every platform and social network. No, it is not enough that you do it in one. You must show your desire to please me by following me on all of them, and not just following me, I also expect you to interact with my posts. You would be surprised to know that I read all the comments, and even if I don’t answer them, I remember them perfectly. So, one way to get noticed, is to interact with me, create worship pages, re-post my posts, sign up for adult social network subscriptions and generally stand out from the crowd.
When you address me, you should always do it with the utmost respect. Even if you are not my property, I expect polite, courteous and even servile treatment. Don’t try to be clever, egotistical or selfish. Use language correctly, capitalizing on any reference you make to or about me and never, absolutely never, think that I offer a service and you can decide as if you were in a market. You never decide. Never.
On the other hand, there is a widespread conception that assumes that to please a Domina, the easiest way is to spend your money to satisfy my whims. True, you are not wrong, that can get you a few seconds of attention, but it is something I am not willing to give to just anyone. Remember, I don’t need your money, you need to offer it to me, and there is a big difference, therefore, gifts are always welcome, but they will never guarantee you a favored treatment if you don’t fulfill many other protocols before.
sbs: Is there anything else you would like to tell your admiring Mistress Alexandra worshipers reading this interview?
MA: In a few months we are preparing a real revolution of the Femdom scene in Greece and in general in Europe, because we are preparing, if the pandemic does not prevent it, the opening of an extraordinary complex where the fantasies of Feminine Supremacy will be able to be realized in all their splendor. And as a grand opening we hope to enjoy a great party, which would also be linked to the birthday of a very famous and well known American Dominatrix. Soon you will find more on omegacompound.com
sbs: If you would oblige me one final question Mistress Alexandra …if we were conducting this interview in person, how would it end?
MA: I wish we could have talked about the BDSM scene in Greece, since, compared to the scenes in other European countries with more tradition, it is much more modest. I have to comment, with a point of pride, that I have been actively trying to promote it in the last years, inviting renowned international professional Mistresses to visit My domains (at the moment I have 2 fully equipped dungeons in Athens and a complex in development about 40km away) and actively collaborating with them in the expansion of female domination in the Aegean.
