I am the real deal. Although I am sure you have heard that before, I am actually trained and certified in hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming. What are you into? What’s your kink? I can provide that for you. How you ask? Because through my guidance, and your mind, you will perceive all of those dark little fantasies. If perception is reality, then fantasy becomes reality. How far down the rabbit hole would you like to go?
slaveboysmith: Today at DommeAddiction, I have the distinct pleasure of kneeling before the very beautiful Goddess Rayna. Thank you for allowing me to do this Goddess, and welcome to DA!
Goddess Rayna: You are most welcome and thank you for the warm welcome.
sbs: Warm and slightly nervous as I kneel before you. I’m excited to get to know more about you and share it with our readers. Let me begin by asking how you first entered the world of Femdom and what kind of journey it has been for you to this point.
GR: How fun, I love it when subs are a little nervous. Makes me giddy. I got into the world of Femdom through some local public play parties. I was curious to explore engaging with people in BDSM and learning more skills along the way. I started with going to a tea party for Dominatrixes and then proceeded into dungeon sessions and pick up play. At that time I was still learning and technically always am. I enjoy adding skills to my toolbox on a regular basis. I have been lucky to be connected to Dommes who have years of experience and are not afraid to boost other Dommes up and share knowledge.
sbs: I’m so glad my nervousness is fueling your inner Domme 😉 It is always amazing to see Dommes supporting others and that isn’t always the case. Are you an online Domme as well as real time at this point in your career, Goddess?
GR: I am an online Domme as well as a real-time Domme. Online sessions are often the bulk of my bookings. I recently traveled to London and accepted some live sessions there. They were lovely and the dungeon space was amazing. I also have access to dungeon rental here in Portland, Oregon. Considering I am a hypnotic Dominatrix, most of my stuff is easily translated to online and I find that many subs prefer that to offset the cost of travel.
sbs: As well as certainly opening up the range of slaves who are able to serve you worldwide, I’m sure. Would you describe yourself as a more sensual or strict Domme? Are there times when the two blend together for you?
GR: I am definitely a more dynamic Domme but I lean towards the more sensual side. I can be strict at times but my very favorite sessions include a large amount of humor. I don’t enjoy brat taming as a whole but if a sub straight up says “I would like a scene that contains” punishment” for doing x” then we can rope that in (pun intended). If a sub is just constantly acting out, I assume they simply don’t respect me and they are usually denied my services going forward.
sbs: Is there a typical type of slave that is drawn to you Goddess? Do you have a particular type of slave that is your favorite to session with or train?
GR: It always makes me nervous to place general classifications on people because it is so limiting. But for the sake of description I would say most of my subs are into mind control and reprogramming. Many of them are naturally very submissive and don’t have an outlet in their day-to-day life for that. My favorite ones are the ones that take that ambition and drive that they use in their everyday life and use it as a tool to deepen their submission to me. These are the guys that go above and beyond in service, consideration, demeanor, and pleasing me. I guess by that statement I am saying that my favorite ones are the ones that are really good. LOL. But I also enjoy subs who can laugh and bring humor to the table as well. I fully believe that BDSM and kink should enhance your life, not be a burden to it.
sbs: If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, on their knees before you, willing to do anything to please you, who would it be, and why?
GR: Only one?!?! It really depends on the day of the week. Today’s slave brain would be Elon Musk. Would love to offload some of that brain right into mine.
sbs: He’d be a very lucky man to have the chance to kneel before you. Only one for now…but I’m sure you could convince others to follow him. You strike me as a woman that can be VERY persuasive! You’re obviously very beautiful Goddess, I know I’m not telling you anything you haven’t heard before with that. Has it become an expected routine that men will submit to you in all situations, or is there still a thrill in bringing a man to his knees and having him willing to serve you?
GR: I think that is a fun misconception among new BDSM players. Submission is always a gift. The sub is always the one who chooses whether they are going to submit to you or not. Now, I can be persuasive and definitely have a natural tendency to lead in groups of people especially men. But true submission is most delicious when it is willingly laid at your feet. When he craves the smallest sip of my attention, control, or power and would crawl on hands and knees for the pleasure of begging for it. That is my thrill.
sbs: That sounds like a truly amazing moment, Goddess. I’m sure surrendering like that must feel incredible for them as well. For those reading this interview, dreaming of one day experiencing what you have just described, of kneeling before you, or in some way serving as your slave, what advice would you give them?
GR: Start small. Learn the ropes. Often Dommes will have protocol to follow to separate the wheat from the chaff (the good from the useless). If a sub is not at all willing to meet my easiest requirements I know there is no future to own him as a slave (pay to play sessions may still be fine). Session on the phone, get to know me and let me get to know you, communicate clearly, do as you are told, express your desires (once, not a hundred times), take my answers / tasks / punishments with grace. Stop jumping into DM’s asking to be owned out of the gate. That is a privilege.
sbs: It is a privilege indeed. Serving feels good, being owned is a feeling that is indescribable. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions today Goddess Rayna. With your permission may I please ask one more of you before crawling away?
GR: You may.
sbs: Thank you. If we were conducting this interview in person, with me kneeling before you in your Portland dungeon, how might it end?
GR: A better question would be “how would it have started” because negotiating is a very sexy part of a scene and let’s me know all the twisted little things I could do to that mind and body. But, assuming I would have free reign over both, I would probably trance you, covertly at first as part of the final answer. Sort of like story looping. Story looping is a common thing we do where we start a conversation and then something similar jumps to mind and so we start talking about that but we never finished the first story. I would imagine you have had that moment with someone, like me, where whatever it was you were talking about the world drifted away and it felt like it was just the two of you. I had that very experience in London with a sub. After back and forth banter I looked at him and said “Well now you will never get me out of your head.” he laughed but it was true.
And like all story loops, you eventually find your way back and start to close them and the funny thing is that even when you know it is happening it is hard to catch the embedded commands that happen somewhere along the way. So, I would probably use story loops to drop you into trance, make you feel good about the whole thing but add in there that the minute your fingers touched the exit you would come crawling back for a session and full control of that body.
Or, I might just keep you as a footstool for a bit. Lol As always, depends on the day.
