Lady Vi is an internationally recognized, established lifestyle/professional Dominatrix with 9+ years experience based in the Seattle metropolitan area. She is the Satanatrix and Proprietress of the Church of Satanatrix™.
Beautiful, brazen and delightfully wicked. Lady Vi exudes a unique brand of sinister sexuality, instinctual sadism, and natural born female dominance.
slaveboysmith: There are times in this position that I find myself excited and submissive, and times that I am scared. Today, as I kneel before the Proprietress of the Church of Satanatrix herself, Lady Vi, I am consumed by a mix of fear and arousal that is impossible to describe. Welcome to DA, Lady Vi, and thank you for the immense privilege of kneeling before you today.
Lady Vi: The pleasure’s all mine, my dear. Consumption, fear and arousal are a few of my favorite things. This interview is off to an excellent start. Thank you for having me.
sbs: I’m going to guess that fear and arousal are a common experience for those privileged enough to be in your presence. Can you tell our readers a little about how it feels to have the kind of power you have over others? And has that been the case all along?
LV: I have always recognized my affect on people. From a very young age I could see the world aligning to my will in ways unbalanced to everyone else around me. I never quite understood it until I was older, but the way I have always moved through the world is not the same as others. People have always been very accommodating to me, whether they know me or they’re a stranger on the street.
It wasn’t until later in life that I began to truly understand my power and learned to harness it with intent. Quite frankly, it still surprises me how many people I come into contact with who are afraid or intimidated by me. Despite my scary and evil demeanour, I can be quite sweet and nurturing. I believe to truly be cruel you have to know how to be kind. Those who’ve known me since adolescence will tell you I’m a much nicer person since finding the BDSM community.
It’s not enough to recognize your power and affect on others, you must truly understand that power for what it is so that you may wield it in ways that are both satisfying to you and not harmful to others. An unchecked Sadist who thrives on mental and emotional sadism with a penchant for fear can be a dangerous creature. Mix it with the unadulterated wielding of power through lust and control? Let’s just say my siblings, my poor Mother, and many lovers from my past would all agree finding my true calling as a Dominatrix is a benefit to us all.
sbs: Can you share a little of how it feels in that moment, when you have a slave completely under your spell, kneeling, likely trembling with anticipation, and willing to do whatever you demand of them? Has it become something expected or is there still a thrill with every conquest as another bows before you and submits their will to your dominance?
LV: There is nothing more intoxicating than surrender. The quiver of anticipation rolling off their flesh. Whether it is someone walking through the dungeon door for the first time or a chance meeting out in the wild, the energetic exchange between predator and prey can be felt in the air. It is palpable. There is simply nothing more thrilling than that. There is nothing like it in the world. No drug equates to this high.
sbs: The exchange between predator and prey…my goodness that is erotic and beautiful! I’m not sure what value you place upon celebrity, but if you could choose one well known prey to have before you, kneeling, nervous, excited to submit and willing to obey your every command, who might you choose, and why?
LV: I was recently introduced to the 1996 film “Bound” and have been obsessed with Jennifer Tilly ever since. She has this way about her, an intensely seductive innocence I find absolutely irresistible. A poisonous concoction of sultry, wicked and sweet. Even when she’s playing a villain, there’s a softness about Jennifer Tilly that drives me insane. I would devour her from the inside out and then throw her up so I could do it again.
sbs: I will admit, that scene in which she slides her fingers into Gina Gershon and makes her cum is one that is intensely erotic and unforgettable. You’re right, Jennifer is a bit of an enigma, dominant yet innocent like. I’m sure I’m not alone in imagining the things you would do to her and just how wicked that would get! Do you see both male and female submissives, and do you have a preference? Are there significant differences in how they submit, the type of sessions you have with them and how they respond to your presence, Lady Vi?
LV: Well, I am imaging it now, too. It is incredibly distracting! The rest of this interview should be quite interesting. To answer your question, yes, I welcome clients of all gender identities. I enjoy a remarkably diverse congregation. In the beginning of my career my clientele was exclusively cis-gender men. This was not by my choice. I am a bisexual/pansexual woman. Over the last several years it has overwhelmingly expanded to include people across the gender spectrum, of all sexual orientations and identities. People find it fascinating gay men seek my services but BDSM is not inherently sexual, it is primal. Connections are as multifaceted and expansive as the list of kinks of fetishes we all enjoy.
I do not have a gender or sexual orientation preference for my parishioners, in my personal or professional life. I do prefer those who identify as submissive, as sufferers, or who are masochists. That’s not to say I do not enjoy scenes with fetishists or bottoms, because I absolutely do! However, if we are talking about preference, for me, nothing compares to the energetic exchange present in those power exchange dynamics. I find differences in engagement have little to do with gender. It is all based on how a person identifies (submissive, masochist, bottom, etc.). I will admit though, I do notice when playing with feminine energy I tend to lean more towards sensual and sexual than when playing with masculine energy. I can’t help myself. It’s in my nature. I want to corrupt and deflower soft beautiful things.
sbs: Like the very sexy Ms. Tilly, for instance. Indeed, with images like that in mind, I find myself more than a little distracted. Let’s shift a little…for those unable, or not yet ready to session with you in person, what type of online/distance training opportunities do you offer to those desperate to serve you?
LV: My preference will always be having my parishioners in the dungeon within my grasp. However, I do understand not everyone is able to meet in person. COVID-19 has placed significant restrictions on travel and even some of my local parishioners with compromised immune systems have had to seek out other ways to connect that do not put them at risk. There are now options for scheduling video and telephone sessions available on my website. I also offer email sessions for select arrangements. It is no secret I have a penchant for chastity and denial. I find these two kinks translate very well in distance relationships. Tormenting slaves with lust and denying them pleasure is one of my favorite ways to inflict suffering.
sbs: Having experienced that kind of torment and suffering, the idea of you getting pleasure from it is as erotic as anything imaginable. If you could create the perfect submissive, with ideal traits tailored to what you wish to see in them, what might he/she be like?
LV: I’m drawn to strength and intelligence. A person whose submission is active, not passive. Timid and weak are not my favorite flavor of human. I’m a rabid hell hound and monsters kind of woman. The ideal submissive for me would be able to differentiate between obedience and being a doormat. Their devotion and dedication to my happiness, health, and success would be unwavering. Loyalty is an absolute. Specific kinks, fetishes, and sexual proclivities are far less important to me than a demon who truly knows how to surrender.
sbs: Have you ever been recognized in public, and if so, what is the typical reaction of a slave being in the presence of the woman of their dreams…and erotic nightmares?
LV: Yes, I have. It was actually very sweet. I had just finished grocery shopping and was at the checkout line bagging my own groceries. The gentleman didn’t approach because he wanted to be respectful of personal boundaries. Instead he sent me the sweetest note. He said he wanted nothing more than to come bag my groceries for me but didn’t want to impose. I thanked him for being so conscientious but assured him that if he were ever to see me bagging my own groceries again he had my enthusiastic consent to offer his service. I love receiving service.
There is never a time service is unwelcome. I have known people who get very uncomfortable being recognized and approached in public. I am not one of those people. As long as I’m approached respectfully, you will be welcomed in kind. I love what I do and I don’t hide who I am. I feel no shame in being a Dominatrix, but I will say this though, that was the last time I went grocery shopping in my pajamas.
sbs: Even in pajamas, your power and beauty were evident enough to make men pause. I know you mentioned earlier that specific kinks are not of the utmost importance in determining favourable traits in a slave. That said, you must have your favourites you enjoy exploring with a willing participant. Any kinks and fetishes you like best, and anything off limits that those who might seek to serve you must be aware of ahead of time?
LV: To be quite frank, I am not fond of most roleplay scenarios. I am not a Dominatrix who enjoys pretending to be your boss or your teacher. There is nothing hotter to me than being myself and having my way with you.
I am also not a rope top, so suspensions are unfortunately not part of my offerings at this time. I’ve only recently taken an interest in exploring rope bondage. I’ve always been more inclined towards leather cuffs and chains.
As for my personal favorite activities: cock and ball torture, large insertions, electro-stimulation, bondage, sensory deprivation, chastity, tease and denial, suffering for my pleasure, mental and emotional torment, fear play, needles, and various forms of domestic servitude.
sbs: You are a remarkably beautiful and powerful woman. I’m sure everywhere you go, eyes are on you, and you can likely sense the awe in those around you. Does it ever become routine, knowing you could have anyone near you submit with ease, or is there still a thrill in knowing your power over others?
LV: I have always garnered quite a bit of attention, regardless if I wanted it or not. I was recently told by someone that when I am in the room I become the room. This is not without its drawbacks. I have always wondered what it’s like to move through the world unseen or unnoticed. It’s not surprising, and I am always very aware of everyone’s eyes on me, it’s probably why I’m so conditioned not to concern myself with the opinions of others. I have never been afraid to be unapologetically myself. When you are someone who stands out in life you have to be this way or the world will eat you alive.
So, does the attention my presence brings or the power it gives me over others ever get old? Absolutely not! I’m a Sadist. I am a hunter by nature. The thrill I get in knowing the world is essentially my prey feeds a primal need that exists deep within me. There is nothing more thrilling than making a new power exchange connection. The first time someone kneels at my feet and gives their will over to me. This is not the type of power one could ever classify as routine. It is what fuels my passion for this craft and keeps me so grateful for the life I live.
sbs: It’s easy to imagine you commanding the entire room upon entering. Can you share a little of where your interest and immersion in Satanism and the goth allure originated? Your striking good looks are exaggerated to the point of piercing men’s souls. Where does that interest come from and how has it evolved?
LV: That’s an excellent question and not one I’m sure that I have an answer for. Does one know where their sense of style originates from if it’s not directly influenced by someone else or a specific singular source? I suppose rock video vixens really influenced my style at a young age. I was captivated by Madonna, and I loved her independence and attitude, not to mention she was so hot. It was so hard to decide, and I didn’t know if I wanted to be her, fuck her, or both.
Later on I was influenced more by the grunge years, completely obsessed with Courtney Love. And of course, the obvious mention, Marilyn Manson. He was an artist who was very inspirational to me in a number of ways. I would say his art really played a huge role by providing an outlet for everything I felt, something or someone I could identify with. From the condemnation of organized religion to the hypocrisy and reality of human existence, Marilyn Manson continues to be outlet for me to this day.
I have always been drawn to the darkness. I have always been drawn to the occult. When I purchased my first book it was from a yard sale when I was just a small child. It was a book on witchcraft. I was so young that it terrified me and I threw it straight into the trash. To this day I wish I hadn’t done that and that I still had the book in my possession. If nothing more than for historical purposes.
My origin story, if you will. I started my collection again when I was around 10-11 years old. Mostly books on astrology and occult lore. Then as a teenager I was introduced to Anton LeVay’s Satanic Bible. This was my first real introduction to Satanism. The connection between animalistic human nature and the seven deadly sins really resonated with me. However, LeVay lost me when the book got to discussing ritual and rites.
I do not believe in God, and I do not believe in the Devil. I do believe in energetic forces beyond our comprehension. Exactly what those energetic forces are, none of us really knows. I certainly know this – the explanation of such things do not reside in fables written by man for the purpose of controlling the weak.
sbs: Your answer confirms what I believe anyone who spends any time around you already knows…you are genuine…this is who you are and it is most certainly not a look or an act to create a persona. Thank you so much for your in depth and thought-provoking answers today. For those, like myself, completely spellbound by your presence and your answers today, what advice would you offer as they certainly contemplate how they may offer themselves in service to you, Lady Vi?
LV: It’s been my absolute pleasure. In light of recent events, I have temporarily closed my congregation to new parishioners. The best way to serve me right now is by subscribing to my membership sites, purchasing my clips, and waiting with bated breath for me to resume holding session at the Church of Satanatrix.
sbs: Perhaps one day I may find myself on my knees before you in the Church of Satanatrix, Lady Vi. With your permission, may I please ask one final question of you before crawling away and getting to work on your feature?
LV: You may.
sbs: Thank you Lady Vi. If we were conducting this interview in person, me kneeling before you, spellbound by your beauty and intoxicated by your power as I asked my questions, how might such an interview conclude?
LV: I would thank you for your time, rise from my chair, lean down very close so you could feel the heat of my voice when I whispered “fuck off now” and lead you out of the room.
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