Allow me to introduce myself
I am the mysterious feminine creature you have always dreamed of in hazy wandering lustful daydreams; The overtly commanding schoolgirl or teacher in your class who made you weak at the knees before you knew what it meant to be an adult; The deviant seductress who enraptured men in your favorite TV show and drove them to do her dastardly whims. In this space, we can be anyone we want and I am anyone you need to be me to be: I am your savior, your worst nightmare, abuser, protector, childhood monster, most fantastical day dream, anxieties, childhood hero, worst fears, the safest place in the world, the perfect drug and none of these things all at once. My name is Mistress Ruby Enraylls and it is my pleasure to have you in my claws. I have been described as the kind of woman who allows you to believe that magic exists in the world. In my world – It does and when you are at my feet, you’ll only be allowed to leave my world when I say so.
slaveboysmith: Joining me today at DommeAddiction, from dangerously close to where I live just down the I-5 in Seattle, is the very beautiful and dominant Mistress Ruby Enraylls. As instructed, I am on my knees Mistress. Thank you so much for the privilege of interviewing you.
Mistress Ruby: Lovely to meet you and thank you for the wonderful compliments! I’m happy to be with you today.
sbs: For our readers who may not already know your story, can you share with us how you first entered the world of Femdom and how you became the amazing Mistress I kneel before today?
MR: I started in the BDSM scene in my late teens as an exploratory thing. You could say I was trying to find myself and I made a lot of cool friends through the community. I soon realized I wanted to try my hand at being dominant and started gaining skills and playing. My journey has been a long adventure of self discovery, exploration and self betterment through kink. It’s funny, I never would have thought it, the first time I went to a BDSM club, but kink is a huge part of my life. There were definitely signs that it might end up that way when I was young though, I was kind of twisted. In a good way though.
sbs: In a very good way, indeed. Do you recall your first realization of the power you hold over men?
MR: Oh yes! I was playing an online game and I realized that being a girl and sending out selfies got people to help me out. It kind of snowballed from there. I realized that I could get men to do all sorts of things if I did specific things. It became a game to me. Most of the time they didn’t even have anything I wanted, it’s just the thrill of changing someone’s behavior that gets me off.
sbs: Does it still thrill you to have men submit, or has it become an expected outcome?
MR: It still thrills me to have men submit to me. Even if I do expect to win the game I’m playing it’s still fun. A hunter doesn’t get bored of chasing prey.
sbs: Nor toying with it once captured, I’m sure. Are there specific fetishes you especially enjoy? Does it differ with real time dungeon sessions compared to online or clips?
MR: That is very much the truth, that’s half the fun. With kink I enjoy things where I get to see reaction, enjoy sensation, where there is a visually appealing element or where there is power exchange. So that takes the form of many things. My favorite kinks differ from playmate to playmate and it kind of changes from month to month. Some of my content online is definitely different from my in person experiences but I think that’s because some content is more fun to film than it is to realistically do. Some things are impossible to do in reality, you know?
sbs: Of course. Some things have to be experienced in fantasy only. I notice you have an extensive collection of latex, and if I may, you look amazing in it. What is it about latex that is so deeply connected to dominance and submission, in your opinion?
MR: My collection is PVC actually, I unfortunately developed a sensitivity to latex last year and it’s best not to mess with such things. For me though, I deeply fetishize the appearance of shiny things. It makes me feel like a glossy doll and it feels powerful to be encased in something so eye-catching. It can go either way with the garment depending on the style and look.
sbs: You look magnificent in PVC, Mistress. I’m sure to be in your presence, with the shine of your perfect curves, must be truly intimidating. Is there a particular type of slave that is drawn to you, Mistress?
MR: Why thank you! Hmm, I would say I often attract people in the tech sector due to my name and sapiosexuals due to my use of language, but I attract and adore all types as long as they adore me.
sbs: I’m sure they worship you in every way. If you could have one celebrity, or well known person, completely at your mercy, under your spell and willing to do anything to please you, who would it be, and why?
MR: Hmm.. that’s a tough one. Picking just one is hard. I’d have to go Jeff Bezos. I was initially going to pick a cute actor but c’mon, if you could have anyone “completely under your spell” why wouldn’t you pick someone like Bezos? Especially if you live in Seattle! I’d love to have him worship the ground I walk on and control him completely. That sounds awesome!
sbs: He would be a very lucky man to worship the ground you walk on, Mistress. When you have a slave in that state, open to your every command, is there a “tell” that lets you know you own them in that moment?
MR: I think it’s slightly different for everyone but often I get a certain “look”. It says “I’m yours, Mistress.”
sbs: I can imagine that look would happen quickly. Something tells me you can be very persuasive. Now would you say you are most likely to be strict, or sensual, in that persuasion?
MR: It often does, yes. Ohhh it depends on my mood and the person completely and what would be most effective! I’m very much a chameleon and a predator looking for weak spots.
sbs: Oh my! Can you describe your favourite strict techniques to break a slave and your favourite sensual?
MR: My favorite strict methods all involve very quickly getting into it and getting my subject overloaded and breaking my slave down with too much sensation. My favorite sensual techniques are all based on slow build up and a tease, tormenting them with just enough but making them beg for more.
sbs: Speaking of begging, for slaves that are reading this interview, dreaming of kneeling before you as I am today, how might they best show their sincerity and make a good first impression?
MR: That’s a great question! A great introduction goes a long way, whether it be over my contact form, email, social media or text. An introduction shows that you care about how you present yourself beyond a “hi.” I am much more likely to respond to inquiries that are thoughtful, respectful and considerate of my time.
sbs: Thank you so much for granting me this opportunity to interview you Mistress. Any final words for your admiring slaves, from online admirers to those that ache to visit your dungeon?
MR: My pleasure, thank you for chatting with me. For those who are just admiring me, feel free to reach out on social media.
sbs: With your permission, may I please ask one final question of you, Mistress Ruby?
MR: Ask away slaveboy.
sbs: Thank you Mistress. If we were conducting this interview in person, with me kneeling in your dungeon, desperately trying not to be distracted by the sight of you in shiny PVC, how would it end?
MR: I’d grab you by your hair and drag you on your hands and knees into my play room and see where the afternoon took us.
